what if you did some stupid things last year and you said sorry to everyone later on. but this year the same people told everybody in your new school what happened so now you can't even get any friends or even a boyfriend because they thought you were a s.l.u.t. . what would you do to try and clear up your reputation and get a guy?
2006-11-25 15:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Holly♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just ignore whats being said...You trying to fix this is only going to keep this alive, let it die...Time fixes things, just give it a little more and be yourself....
2006-11-25 16:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What assholes some people are!!! Act like it doesn't bother you. They just want to get a reaction out of you. And you can just laugh it off. Like if some one calls you a slut to your face you can say ( O yeah I am such a slut ) Get it? Don't let it bring you down. Get into somthing, like a sport for your school. And show people you are a really cool person. Then they would forget about the whole slut thing. Love peace & Chicken Grease!!
2006-11-25 16:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by hagred90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a slut? you have to ask yourself that question and then decide to change. If it is not true then stand up for yourself. Rumors can ruin a life in small towns. High school ends and a whole new wave comes over a person. you grow up quick when you realize jimmy thompson doesnt rule the world. feeling are strong right now and they can take over. you have to get a hold of yourself and be strong
2006-11-25 16:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by JPARIS3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont try so hard maybe you need to step back and get out of the lime lite mistakes happen some take longer than others for people to forget or forgive take yourself out of the picture for alittle while.and don't worry about a boyfriend right now because if the boys you like are judging you for past mistakes then you probably don't want to waste your time with this person anyway.
2006-11-25 16:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by imalwayswatchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that important to get aguy? First see a counsellor. Be honestwithyourself. Do you want friends aguy or youdowant a clean slate. IIf you want friends then be nice and helpful. Eplain your side of the story and if they refuse to listen tough on them.They are being horrible. Everyone makes mistakes and entitled to a fair go. They will soon forget .
2006-11-25 16:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard and touchy subject let alone try to answer but the only advice I can give u is "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS" you can regain ur rep back by that and soon enough the one will come along don't rush it let it come to u!!! It worked for me when I least expected it too! So be paitent it will come!!! good luck!!!
2006-11-25 16:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rumors usually blow over. Just ignore the rumors, be out going, make new friends, join clubs, play sports, and let people get to know you, and not just hear rumors about you
2006-11-25 16:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Valerie1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends wouldnot care about all that other B.S. all that crap will blow over soon. Eventually some other slut will do something gross and everyone will forget about you. And any guy you want to be with would not care about all that other crap.
2006-11-25 16:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is slowly change their mind by proving them wrong. that or lie your *** off and claim that THEY are lying. then eventually they will either believe you or be to confused to care. either way you will get a friend/boyfriend eventually.
2006-11-25 16:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dungonecrazy11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pressing and be as fine as you are and someone will finally say hey screw that she is cute smart and fine.
2006-11-25 16:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋