Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

2006-11-21 21:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by Grand Phuba 5 in Singles & Dating

hey there i m kinda seeing a girl right now and its not to serious but i want to do summin for her that will impress her - take her sumwhere that will amaze her and make me look good ? any suggestions ?

2006-11-21 21:57:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 21:56:36 · 2 answers · asked by Grand Phuba 5 in Singles & Dating

I've known my ex gf for 5 yrs or so. Last year she broke up with me bcoz supposedly, I wasn't giving her what she needed. We are from different cultures. I made an effort to change &I pursued her trying to make it up to her..
Then two months later she contacted me we shared alot of intimacy. It was like being in the relationship without the sex. And I was doing most of the giving (emotionally). Then she dumped me again, out of the blue.
She recontacted me about 2 months ago. She was going thru family and health problems and I was there for her. We had some laughs, then 2 days ago she dropped the bomb:

She told me she had a one night stand with a guy she met in a club about 2 weeks after she dumped me. I am devastated. How do I forgive her? How do I get over this?

Its hard bcoz I was loyal. And I thought we had something special worth saving.

Please no answers that say: "BONE SOMEONE ELSE". I'd like to hear a female view.

2006-11-21 21:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by gio 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife have been married for 10 yrs she has recently lost a lot of weight but before this we were very happy she now tells me she doesnt fancy me any more and doesnt no if she wants to be with me she can be very nasty to me with words which in turn causes me to get very moody and hurt i have tried talking but it seems she doesnt want to know i have asked if there is anyone else which she says there isnt i sometimes feel that we should try and work it out perhaps its a phaze but she left her first husband for exactly the same reason

2006-11-21 21:55:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 21:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf dumped me cos he didnt wont to reiwn his poularity i always seem to date shallow guys and bad boys ad one of my bfs matez raped me thats wat kind of people i and my ex bfs hang out wiv y and all my m8z smoke take drugs and get laid every day buti have never done any of them and wen were on the lash i only drink backardy brezers im so confused

2006-11-21 21:53:40 · 19 answers · asked by bonni 1 in Singles & Dating

But I don't want to hurt her. At the same time I'm not 100% confident I want to leave her, I get on with her better than anyone else I know. I've tried speaking with her about this but she quite understandably was really annoyed. I havn't had sex with any other women, but have had a kiss with another women, and text a few. She doesn't know about this. If I left her I'm sure I could find another woman, but I know I'd be lonely for a long time. I'm only 21, this sounds like some kind of mid-life crisis! It must be bad if I'm using Yahoo answers for help, lol. Should I stay with her and work at it even though I'm not 100% sure that's what I want or do I leave her now, deal with the unhappiness even though I'm not 100% sure that's what I want. Any one else been in a similar situation that can offer any advice????

2006-11-21 21:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by mcwilson2k6 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is loving and caring when he is around. Problem is that he has become a workaholic in the past few months and spends weeks travelling the planet for his career. Meanwhile, I am home, 6-months pregnant, and caring for a 2 year old all alone and far from any family. To make matters worse, my career is staled due to visa issues (I have a degree from a world famous university). I feel pretty helpless. How would you feel about this?

2006-11-21 21:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by gnogni 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and his ex were together two years, they only broke up because she went away for a year. i think the plan was to get back together when she returns.

she came back and tonight he went and had dinner with her. i dont know what to think, he tells me he loves me all the time, he asked my permission to see her, he was txting me the whole time.

should i be worried??

2006-11-21 21:50:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one day you feel all good , confident yrself, feel attractive , the nest day u feel like a slob or feel like everything is wrong ??

2006-11-21 21:48:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 21:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by Rahul R 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you put or get friends on your 360 page.

2006-11-21 21:41:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-21 21:41:33 · 12 answers · asked by dcfc_405er 1 in Singles & Dating

it was a question asked by a dating agency did you like or not like ?

2006-11-21 21:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by SCARFACE 2 in Singles & Dating

i am unhappy, i love my husband but he does not make me happy in any way, he is so selfish and inconsiderate he never thinks of me, every thing is so stuffed up, i remember being so in love with him i would do anything but now i am considering leaving him but at the same time i don't want to, he is older than me as acts it i want to be able to live life to the fullest, how do I enjoy life and have my husband

2006-11-21 21:34:32 · 17 answers · asked by redds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 21:33:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out that someone fancy me. but i dont fancy him and now he doesn't want to talk to me i want us to be friends its so bad
i need help

2006-11-21 21:32:25 · 11 answers · asked by flower 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 21:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For another man besides your partner...and you feel that you have no control of the way you feel about the person?......

2006-11-21 21:29:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf met after 1 month I came to London.
We've been together for only 5 months now, but I can tell he loves me as much as I do. I really like him a lot, never felt this before.
2 months ago, my office told me they want me in the States on April. "I want you to stay, but it's your carreer and I have to respect your decision." is what he said. But after that he planned for trips, took me to many places, been to Spain last weekend, and he's inviting me for familly Xmas dinner, first time ever in his life.
My boss came from Japan yesterday, and he said he needs an answer by this month. I'm going to have a talk with him tomorrow, ask him how he really feels about me, if he see our relationship as a long running one...but I don't know how to approach this.
Although I'm doing well in carreer wise, my happiness is to be with someone special and have a child in future...but I'm not sure if I should mention this. It's just too fast!

2006-11-21 21:26:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had various relationships, 2 engagements even. But they always fall apart due to sex.
The problem is that i am extremely well endowed.. shouldn’t be a problem you think but it is, usually I can only enter in about a ¼ of the way which makes it unsatisfying for me and painful for my partner when I push for more!
I’m seriously considering surgery or something – otherwise I’ll have to write off relationships and turn to porn but I am a devout catholic so that would be terrible for me. (I’m already in enough trouble with the whole sex out of wedlock).

What can I do?

(pm me if you wanna hook up)

2006-11-21 21:22:58 · 27 answers · asked by omni 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been sleeping with this married man for awhile now but i'm getting bored with him & we recently had a fight because he wouldnt divorce his wife....so 3 months ago i went to a pary and was drinking heavily and i slept with my distant cousin i dont know if the baby is my b/fs or my cousins...i dont want to take the risk of giving birth to a slow....or retarded child and i dont want anyone to find out i slept with my distant cousin should i get an abortion now?? or is there a DNA test i can take before the baby is born?

2006-11-21 21:22:44 · 18 answers · asked by @ubreY 3 in Singles & Dating

We met in December last year and the sex was mind blowingly awesome. He knew I was only in London for a year before my visa runs out. I told him over and over that I do not want anything beyond this year, and that we can have fun while I am here. He shows all the symptoms that he is in love with me and to top it off, it seems like he can't deal with it! He is nasty, sarcastic and a general as$hole..... i am tired of his sh1t, how shall I handle the last two weeks here?????

2006-11-21 21:22:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel the need to have complete starngers as ur closest friendz to whom you can disclose your closest secrets without fearing that your identity may be revealed. A kind of a no-holds-barred situation where only genuine issues are discussed & nobody needs to reveal their true identity.
Any girls out there who want to be my e-mail/net buddy, plz mail me !

2006-11-21 21:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Singles & Dating

give me some tips as how to tap a female at college !!.i am like obssesed with her .i like da way she moves ,da way talks and her smile blows me away .but when she comes to talk i am speachless .wtf i do :(

2006-11-21 21:14:40 · 16 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Singles & Dating

And he is thinking that first i tell him sorry.But i know that he is wrong.Than why could i go first.Tell me what to do.

2006-11-21 21:13:51 · 23 answers · asked by SAPNA D 2 in Friends

What single aspect of your life could be changed that would effect an overall change in your livelyhood? Be it counseling(for say-depression, addiction,reconciliation with a spouse or family remember), or maybe more fiscal needs such as transportaion, relocation, daycare. Or maybe professional skill building ie. education or experience.

I am curious as to what exactly you need to positively change your life right now and would you be willing to contribute resources such as time and money, and if not, why not.

Feel free to ramble on if necessary to be as specific as necessary. And if you feel comfortable with it I would appreciate knowing your location or basic region that you live on. And if possible what difficulties that area presents for you.

2006-11-21 21:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by who 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have met lovely people with great personalities but I am unable to stay with a person like that. It is embarrassing!!! I can not look at someone goofy, spotty, big nosed, pale, dirty or generally BUTT and think mmmmmmmm thats the person for me. I'm not shallow i am honest.

2006-11-21 21:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by jodie c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies this one is for you, guys chip in your experiences as well.

If a girl clicks with a guy and her face is always bright red and bursting with laughter when he is around can she fall in love with him? The guy is average and she is the super model type. I ask because “I have this friend”……

2006-11-21 21:07:42 · 19 answers · asked by Low 2 in Singles & Dating