And he is thinking that first i tell him sorry.But i know that he is wrong.Than why could i go first.Tell me what to do.
2006-11-21 21:13:51 · 23 answers · asked by SAPNA D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Come out of your ego. In relations you do not have to look for a win. Break the stalemate and say sorry. I am sure he would also feel sorry once you have done.
2006-11-21 21:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soft answer turns away wrath.
Having said that, you must know what you will be apologizing for. Evaluate the situation and if you are wrong then i say yeah. Go ahead and say sorry. Otherwise, if it is determined that he is wrong , then he should apologize. Be careful though of apologizing for something that you cannot claim the blame for totally. You might need to change the boyfriend if he insists that you apologize, simply because it might become a pattern of behaviour with him
All the best. Hope it works out..
2006-11-22 05:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wei r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people are like that. However, it is not that who should say sorry first but that you both are talking to each other, otherwise relationship may come to an end.
Start communication, I am not saying to say sorry, but without mentioning that incident, commence it. First let the anger go its way. Once you both realise who was right and who was wrong, you solve the problem.
Forgiveness is the best thing to do, but other side shall not think its your weakness. If it happens agin, and again he is waiting for you to come first.. fix that guy..
Good luck....
2006-11-22 07:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sapna....
r u college student? all this kind of small fights happen in life. you both should have an understanding between. If u keep fighting for small things, what can u do when u have to face bigger problem?
Caliculate the time..how long it took to comitt a mistake. It should even take the same time to excuse. Do not prolong to get to each other.
All the best. But concentrate on ur carrier too.
2006-11-22 05:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may hurt your ego still say sorry cause at the moment getting him back is more important than boasting that you are right. In love there is nothing like if you say sorry you be low. It shows how important your lover is to you. And if he really loves you he too will realise and say sorry or say that he loves you a lot. All the best
2006-11-22 07:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by 'S' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats becoz we all have EGO to tell sorry.U r thinking that he is wrong & he will be thinking u r wrong. Explain him that many times you both cant decide who is wrong.In such cases u both should not expect sorry from other person.Just overlook & forgive each other's mistakes & move on instead of spoiling the relationship over small small things.
2006-11-23 01:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop down to anyones level...especially if their wrong. He wants you to say sorry so the blame goes from him to you. DONT DO IT!! Let him say sorry first...and make sure he really means it. Dont put up with immature games girl..stand up for waht you think is right. GOd bless!!!
2006-11-22 05:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by nightskystar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! He sounds like a jerk who has too much pride to admit he is wrong. If im right, he probably is pretty rude to you and jealous? He is too into himself hon! Honestly don't waste your time. If you really have to be asking this and it bothers you as it seems to it's no good.
2006-11-22 05:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Nickie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dint say what exactly what happened btw u two
Whatever just know that two wrongs dont make a right
You are troubled coz things arent right between u and him
Free your mind by just making it right
Saying 'sorry' wont hurt....
2006-11-22 05:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Tata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if u tell to him sorry.
galti insan se hoti hai.usme galti usaki ho ya apani.hume woh sab bhulkar mafi(sorry) maang leni chahiye.then he understood n he filling his fault n then he also telling to sorry,dont worry about the anger.
kyunki dosti main gussa pal bhar ke liye hota hai
2006-11-22 05:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mukesh D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋