We met in December last year and the sex was mind blowingly awesome. He knew I was only in London for a year before my visa runs out. I told him over and over that I do not want anything beyond this year, and that we can have fun while I am here. He shows all the symptoms that he is in love with me and to top it off, it seems like he can't deal with it! He is nasty, sarcastic and a general as$hole..... i am tired of his sh1t, how shall I handle the last two weeks here?????
2006-11-21 21:22:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else to shag and move in with him/her for 2 weeks... sorted
2006-11-21 21:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact he knows you are leaving is what is making him act so mean. He doesn't want it to be over and is subconsciously trying to hurt you for leaving him.
I kinda feel sorry for him. He knew you were only there a year but he couldn't help falling in love with you. Be flattered and look at his meanness as a kid throwing a fit....not getting his way and acting out. Try to be as sweet as possible the next 2 weeks. He'll probably stop this soon and turn to begging you to stay.
If you really can't stand it, get a room somewhere for the last 2 weeks and don't tell him where. Just disappear and save the heartache of ending it. Eventually he'll understand.
2006-11-22 05:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason he is acting like an as$hole is because he thinks that by pushing you away now that it's gonna hurt less when you actually do leave. you need to sit down and tlk to him I know guys don't like to tlk much but it's the only way.
I doubt that you want to leave with this between the two of you just try not to break his heart if he is in love with you.
Good luck; )
2006-11-22 05:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cant switch his feelings on & off like you, a year long physical relationship is being close. Sounds like your the male and him the female!!! Ide do him a favour, break it off now.
2006-11-22 06:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by wickedsoul132 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel him to pee off, you deserve to have the time of your life in the next two weeks of being in england, go get your girlfriends , go to pubs and clubs and dance the night away putting old news behind u ! good luck and enjoy urself
2006-11-22 05:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the Americans bashing the British again
2006-11-22 05:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait two more weeks? if you don't want a relationship with him and it's starting to turn nasty, then it would probably be best to break it off now.
2006-11-22 05:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Adonna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send your luggage home. Grab a ticket and fly somewhere else for a vacation.
2006-11-22 05:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Saffren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy, take flight on the quiet. don't tell him your leaving. leave no fowarding address or phone numbers. i've done it manys a time easy, saves a lot of hassle with the "keep in contact, i'll miss you" bul'lshit
2006-11-22 06:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sommon up like u got a to be husband from where u come from and who will chze that guy who loves u too much away
2006-11-22 05:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋