my bf dumped me cos he didnt wont to reiwn his poularity i always seem to date shallow guys and bad boys ad one of my bfs matez raped me thats wat kind of people i and my ex bfs hang out wiv y and all my m8z smoke take drugs and get laid every day buti have never done any of them and wen were on the lash i only drink backardy brezers im so confused
2006-11-21 21:53:40 · 19 answers · asked by bonni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him
2006-11-21 21:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling. You need to change your friends. Your ex boyfriend is just a pathetic little boy. If he doesn't want to "ruin his popularity", well, do you actually want to associate with someone like that. Are you even old enough to drink? You need to sort your life out, find some good friends, have fun with them and work on setting yourself up with a good future. Worry about guys a bit later on, once you're happy with yourself and have your life more in shape. Good luck, I hope it goes well for you. Don't get roped into taking drugs and being promiscuous. It never does anybody any good in the long run. x
2006-11-21 22:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have a very low opinion of yourself and believe what these creeps say, they don't love you or care for you if they are trying to make you do stuff you do want to, have you been to the police about the rape i would suggest you do and go to a doctor as well and check for any diseases you may have caught also your doctor will give you some counciling to help you deal with the trauma of being raped, every woman deserves the right to be treated nice and loved and someone will be out there just waiting for you, try making new friends or join a club or taking up an interest the more you go out and socialise the better the chances of finding someone nice, keep away from these losers it is their loss not yours have some respect in yourself you deserve better, please get counciling they will help you deal with your thoughts and trauma....good luck
2006-11-21 22:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let a man ruin ur life, never let anyone ruin ur life..
U did well before u met him, so u didnt need him then and so dont need him now.
And a man who dumps ur for his popularity is not only showing his a low shallow dog,, but is actually insulting u , saying ur not good enough.. Is this the kind of man u want to get worried and upset about .. forget him, his a nasty person, u will find a good person. and will be better off than him...
2006-11-21 21:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u have major problems girl. and it might be totally ur fault. i'm sorry tht u've been tru so much but dont u think its time for a change in environment?stop hanging out with these kinda people since they're treating u this way and doing stuff tht even u urself find wrong. u shudnt go for popular boys or 'bad' boys kinda thing..if they really 'loved' u or cared for u then they wouldnt let u get raped or **** like tht..so seriously,sort out ur life.its more than a boyfriend trouble. its ur life ur talking abt.
2006-11-21 21:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need new friends, fast. You know theyre wrong or you wouldnt be writing in what you have. These werent proper boyfriends either, theyre users of the worst kind. How old are you? Dont you think you deserve better? Cos I sure do. Good luck xxx
2006-11-21 22:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by wickedsoul132 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not being nasty but if you act like a ho guys treat u like one young lads have little or no respect for woman so you should reconsider your circle of friends before you really do get into trouble you say youve been raped by one of these lads but you still run after them your ex bf is a total jerk and if he couldnt stand up to the lad who hurt you then hes no better than shite on ya shoe
2006-11-21 22:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 05:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friends are a bad influence. Don't let them lead you astray, you have a mind of your own and there's nothing wrong with being different. Try to do new things to make new friends.
2006-11-21 21:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the boyfriend and maybe try to find some new friends. maybe look into some couselling as well. i hope everytrhing works out ok for you.
2006-11-21 21:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your hanging out with losers
go get some new decent friends.
2006-11-21 21:56:26 · answer #11 · answered by weizy_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋