I've been sleeping with this married man for awhile now but i'm getting bored with him & we recently had a fight because he wouldnt divorce his wife....so 3 months ago i went to a pary and was drinking heavily and i slept with my distant cousin i dont know if the baby is my b/fs or my cousins...i dont want to take the risk of giving birth to a slow....or retarded child and i dont want anyone to find out i slept with my distant cousin should i get an abortion now?? or is there a DNA test i can take before the baby is born?
2006-11-21 21:22:44 · 18 answers · asked by @ubreY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its your fugmo boyfreinds baby. I knew a girl in high school that had 3 abortions and you should too.
2006-11-21 21:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it happens to be your distant cousin's baby.. it's highly unlikely that the child will come out with abnormalities due to inbreeding. The DNA from you two isn't close enough of a match, or something along those lines. However, I wouldn't be telling anyone that your cousin is a possible father (except your doctor). I believe there are paternity tests you can take before the child is born. And, don't think about abortion.. it's morally wrong, and there's plenty of couples looking to adopt. Besides, your mother was obviously pro-life.. wouldn't you want your child to be thankful that you are, too?
2006-11-22 05:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the risk of a retared child? Is it due to getting a child from ur distant cousin. Rest assured on that score. Nothing will cause a retarted child, unless it be extremely close cousin or real brother.
For dna test, consult a professional.
2006-11-22 05:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the either way the baby comes out is trouble... it could be your cousins baby, or the married man baby, either way is bad but don't worry u can't give birth to slow children with your distant cousins, although it wasn't ethical what u did. The only way u can get a child retarded if is u get pregnant with 1,2 or 3 grade relatives.
2006-11-22 05:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a distant cousin there is no chance of having any chromosomal abnormalities in your child.
It's up to you whether you get an abortion or not....I personally don't like the idea of aborting a child when there are so many people who can't conceive.
It's not really a question that people on yahoo can answer. You are really up sh*t creek......sleeping with a married man then sleeping with a cousin???????
2006-11-22 05:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EXCUSE ME !!! SLOW OR RETARDED CHILD !!! well you have some nerve !!you are sleeping with someones husband ......how im telling you for nothing that he will not leave his wife they never do ......youre his cheap piece of pudding and thats the bottom line on that one ....sorry but that the truth .....you have no respect for him youre cousin or for that matter youre self .....sleeping with the cousin and then talking of a abortion im not going to give you a hard time on that one as you need to and get expert advice on that one but slagging a unborn child of thats not nice and the only one thats been slow in this situation is youre self ......i hope you get this sorted out and maybe once you have grown up a bit you will learn from this good luck and take care
2006-11-22 05:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I wasn't sure when I called you a ***** in your first question, now I DEFINITELY am sure that YOU DESERVE IT!
So, this is the reason why you were trying to make up stories and tell him that his wife was cheating on him???!!! You call that baby "ugly", what about yours, who can be a retarded cause you sleep with anyone who is so stupid as to have sex with you!
Why don't you do it for money, at least in this way you could have some more money and call it a "job"!
2006-11-22 05:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by atrabel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An hour ago, you wondered if you should get pregnant, and now you are 3 months pregnant. That is impossible. I think you are a bored little girl and are making everything up.
If you are going to lie about something, at least be consistant.
You need professional help.
2006-11-22 05:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about the DNA tests before the baby is born.
However, if you are in a good position financially and emotionally and want to keep this child then it gives you and the baby a better chance future, If it is the complete opposite situation then maybe you should think long and hard about what you really want.
2006-11-22 05:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no abortion....at all!!! give it up for adoption...so many people are willing to take a child no matter what circu,stances...and yes people make mistakes..everyone does..but its not the childs fault ....seek counselling and there are plenty of pregant schools and places where girls in more messed up situations than you are(believe it or not)...
some one out there will be willing to love that child with retardation or not....
think about it seriously...this is an innocent life...
2006-11-22 05:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋