my boyfriend and his ex were together two years, they only broke up because she went away for a year. i think the plan was to get back together when she returns.
she came back and tonight he went and had dinner with her. i dont know what to think, he tells me he loves me all the time, he asked my permission to see her, he was txting me the whole time.
should i be worried??
2006-11-21 21:50:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you say it was ok??? I would definately be worried...what was the purpose of him going to dinner with her? That's what people generally do on dates and obviously you were not invited. It sounds to me like you are trying so hard not to lose him by being easy-going and laid back and not freaking out about this dinner. Be careful...he will walk all over you if you let him.
2006-11-21 21:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would be worried as I would be feeling like second place now his Ex is back.
You are silly for letting him go out with her even it was for dinner.
2 years is a long time to be together then when she goes away he moves on with you but as soon as she is back they are seeing each other like she never went away in the first place??
I cant help feel that your first concern was he going to go back with her after she got back,have you asked him this?
Secondly i would be very worried?
thirdly they share Lot of history together and for them to catch up and hit it of after 12mths being away I would be wondering why did he bother finding another girl when he could have waited for her to return?
Oh you were his bed warmer,maybe!
He didn't like the lonely nights?
Sorry Hun move on if you can as this scene I have seen many times before and to be honest I am watching my 18 year old son doing exactly what your boyfriend/friend/lover is doing right now.
The pain isn't worth it..
''And my son is telling his current girlfriend he loves her and texts her all the time too but also his current girlfriend allowed my son to see his Ex and now the Ex wont leave them alone as she thinks they are back on and I can tell you the hassels these three are having is painful to watch.''
Just like your boyfriend is saying to you!
Dont put your self through it.Not unless your 100% he will stay with you without having to see her!
i wish you luck,hun.
2006-11-21 22:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it ends tonight no. If they continue to talk and hangout then I think that will cause you two to break up. With my ex's I made an agreement with my current boyfriend that we would only talk on the phone once in a while. No going out to do things together.
2006-11-21 21:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he call you after dinner?? You should check if they are going out after dinner or not. But you should also trust your boyfriend, that will make yourself feels lot better. If you are still worry tell him to promise you that theres nothing between them. Also the next time he's going out with her tell him to bring you and introduce you to her. Try not to think too much if you really love him^^
2006-11-21 21:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the fact tht he was texting u the whole time shud be more assuring for u right? and well i dont blame u for being worried, its natural to be, but i guess if u 2 share a strong relationship then u shud be able to trust him and he shud be faithful to u. its alright for them to still be friends and have dinner, so i guess as long as he's still acting the same and all then u shudnt worry too much and become too 'nosey' otherwise u'll become the obsessive girlfriend which always makes things worse.
2006-11-21 21:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever heard of a person who has gained from worrying.... dont worry but think...
Just relax wait and watch for a couple of days.... and then speak it out clearly..... next time ur Boyfriedn asks u permission to meet his ex GF deny it... and see
2006-11-21 21:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Shashank B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should be worried hun, if their plan was was to get back together when she returns, then they may be working on just that. Have you asked to meet this girl, he may be trying to let you down easily after having planned with her 1st, as he has already told you about her. I think you should talk to him about it, but then you dont want to seem as if your jealous! Try it anyway.....good luck.
2006-11-21 22:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he seeing his ex?
If he's started a new relationship with you then he should leave old things behind. He can be friend with her without having to go to dinner. What's his next move...bang her that way he can prove to her there is no hard feelings? Put an end to his bull or put an end to him
2006-11-21 21:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK you are in trouble so look ...ask him the trout is he still loving you if not dump him you will wind a norther one i think you are the beudiful girl and very inteligent but the importhen thing is to not wory
2006-11-21 22:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be worried and i think your bf is rather selfish to make the decision to see her.
ask him honestly WHY he is seeing her. tell him that if it is really just friendship between him and his ex, then you should be invited as well. if he gets upset and accuses you of being over possessive, tell him its only natural to be worried. anyone would be in your situation...dump him if he shows no understanding and cannot compromise his 'friendship' with this ex for your relationship.
but calm down now...good luck!
2006-11-21 21:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋