Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

Meaning your partners are bs-ers...
They're just not who they were (first time you met them)...

What would you do?
Would you feel trap?
Would you continue your relationships and hope that things will get better?
Would you get the hell out of the relationship?

How many relationships do you have to go through, to be able to see that coming?

2006-11-20 09:12:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

i just seen/came across that my best friend has aids and he dont know i know , i dont know how ti act around him now

2006-11-20 09:11:59 · 9 answers · asked by robin r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any girls still believe on true love? and losing their virganilty to no one but to their Husbands after marriage? Isn't it really neat ? Dont you feel really proud for saving yourself for that man...guess he will be true to you all life....as you've been saving yourself for him ehh ?

2006-11-20 09:11:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Don't say open your mouth and say it because your just wasting your time if you do...by the way...the only way I can talk to him is through e-mail. We live about 60 miles apart. And don't give me a lecture about long distance relationships either!

2006-11-20 09:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by smile_@_me 1 in Singles & Dating

My ideas so far are The Shack or at My Pap's house so can someone help me it can be advice,one of the options a bove another place or something people just help me please!

2006-11-20 09:11:57 · 4 answers · asked by bstump190 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 40 years old and my fiance is 8 years older than I am. We plan on getting married with the next year and a half. My question is- Am I too old to have my father walk me down the aisle, and am I too old to have 5 bridesmaids? They are all friends and family and have been by me through all kinds of things. It will be his second marriage and my first. Please help!

2006-11-20 09:11:17 · 24 answers · asked by new breath 2 2 in Weddings

2006-11-20 09:11:15 · 23 answers · asked by pumpmar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If they cheated on you would you be more or less likely to cheat on them?

2006-11-20 09:10:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I has to generalize but I know a lot of military guys and they're always cheating when they're away either with other female military people or random whores who hang out at the bars.

2006-11-20 09:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my boyfriend w/ his room mate several times, i got pregnant and my boyfriend came to believe it was his, i didn't say anything at all to make him think otherwise. we got an abortion and now his roomate won't let "us" go. he loves me and misses me he's now in the army..... i feel bad, should i tell my boyfriend the truth? i love him so much and were thinking about a future together

2006-11-20 09:09:12 · 28 answers · asked by flag girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to have the clean look, but 2 weeks ago I shaved my head and let the hair on my chin grow, I got a whole new wardrove and now I am getting dates like it ain't no thing. So is the bad azz look what did it?

2006-11-20 09:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by Luis T 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been broken up for 6 months now. It took me 3 of the months to finally get over him and stop being sad. Well, ive dated a few guys since then and he has dated a few girls. Lately, i miss him again. I dont know if I miss HIM or what I had with him. We were together for 2 years. And when he dumped me I was really hurt. He told me he didnt want to talk to me or see me. He broke up with me for another girl who lives 3 hours away. I dont know what I should do. When we see each other at school we dont talk and i havent spoken to him in 6 months.I just want to talk to him & see if it could work but im afraid of what he'd say. I was doing so well & all a sudden i just fell apart. Do you think he is just scared to talk to me? or has he just completely moved on?

2006-11-20 09:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-20 09:08:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your friend invited you to her bday party, but she invites these people you despise?

2006-11-20 09:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that goes to show that he must be male because when he made man i feel like he did it real quick,but with women..i'm like damn..i've seen some fine ones out there.

2006-11-20 09:07:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know, just enough for him to know not to **** with me like that anymore. I dont really want to break up with him and break up our family, but im so pissed at him for something that i found out happened a YEAR AGO!! but i just found out so its like yesterday. Hes a no-nonsense type of man, so I dont want to do anything rash ( like put that ***** in my trunk and take her for a ride). so what can i do to heal my heart??

2006-11-20 09:07:11 · 15 answers · asked by courtnestarr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 09:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so last night guys i had another strange dream... my boyfriend who recently broke up with me was in it, and at work where i have just quit he hired this new girland i used to know her it's a weird coincidence but she is to put it bluntly a real big slut... anyway getting to the point... my dream... i was having physical fights with my two best friends like i am talking absolutely bashing the **** out of eachother and then an old girlfriend from school i didn't understand the meaning of this at all so if anyone would like to tell me please do ok lol... and then my dream suddenly changed where i was in my loungeroom with my mum well what seemed like my loungeroom anyway but there were like lots of people and then i got a message from my ex boyfriend saying come and pick your stuff up today i left the house open but i finish at one anyway and it was a monday and he usually works all day on mondays... so anyone please tell me what my dream means???

2006-11-20 09:06:49 · 2 answers · asked by Julie P 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been dating not too long. (>1wk) . She is likes me and I like her too. She's invited me to her place where we kissed, hugged.. It turns out that she's just broken up with her BF. I am afraid that I could be the rebound. She's one of my classmates. What bothers me that she keeps telling people that we know that we are seeing each other to prevent rumors from spreading. I don't know what to do. Should I abstain from her or what? I have started to have feelings for her. Your response in any shape or fashion means alot to me. I am thinking also that the reason that she keeps telling people of our relationship is because this is what she always wanted and her joy in being in the relationship. Again this is all a guess on my part

2006-11-20 09:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 09:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by roger_kalsi 2 in Friends

I really like this boy ... are these signs he likes me?
-he talks about me a lot ( in a good way ) to my cousin
-he comes to church ( my cousin says he does it to see me )
-he is excited i am going to his school when i move with my dad
-he serves me breakfast first
-he sits in front of me at church
-&& at geauga lake he took me on all the rides and offered to buy me lunch and dinner!
My cousin says the only reason he doesnt make a move is because I am not aloud to date yet. My cousin says to date him and not tell my dad. Do you think this guy likes me? Should I date him? I am 14 years old..

2006-11-20 09:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a girl that lives in another state. We're in college and we talk every night on the phone for hours. We take trips to see each other, and she's coming to see me soon. I want her to stay, and move here to be with me. Is there anything I can say to get her to stay? We're technically not in a relationship but that's only because it would make things harder. I know she loves me but how can I get her to stay?

2006-11-20 09:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Life is full of friends,
Friends that care and love you.

Life is full of enemies,
Enemies that hate and can’t stand you.

Life is full of that one special person that love and care about the most,
One day he might change his mind,
Not wanting to care or love you anymore,
But don’t let that one special person that you love and care about the most take away or ruin you life.

Life has its ups,
The fun times,
The amazing and great times you won’t ever forget.

Life has its downs,
The memories you want to forget,
But just can’t.

Life is full of the
Amazing people you meet in your life,
The people you could never forget,
The people you’ve know since you were babies,
Or the people that you just meet,
They will always be in your life.

Life is full of music,
The music that you can get up and jam to,
Sing to,
And most of all have fun to.

In your life you might be in that situation where you can’t take it anymore,
And you don’t want to be around anymore,
And don’t think anyone loves you,
Or care about you,
There will always be somebody in you life that will love and care about you.

Don’t ever give up on life.
Because just remember you only
Have
One Life To Live

2006-11-20 09:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by Lori L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

last night i was arguing with my husband he called me ***** and saying bad stuff to hurt me.we open 2 shoes store together and now he told me that i dont have no right in the store do you think its true? i am legally married to him. i worked hard to open those store .one more thing both of those are on his name. i put all my saving on those store

2006-11-20 09:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by kency 2 in Marriage & Divorce

donate to a charity in her name... what are some reliable charities i can donate to? and also.. i know this sounds kinda silly... but i'm only 14... when you donate in someones name, you just put their name instead of yours right?.. sorry i've never done this before.. is there anything else i need to do? thanks! oh yeah.. and is 20$ enough? because it's out of my money and i just work at the beach for a little.. thanks!

2006-11-20 09:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-20 09:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his one friend told him i did. then i find out that his buddy doesnt want us together and he knows that my bf and i were having a hard time i dont know what to do anymore. how do i prove to him that i didnt cheat on him. his one friend is out of town and wont be back til tomarrow to talk to him and tell him it is bs. what do i do? we have been together almost 2 years! and now he broke up with me till he talks to his friend. but he thinks i told his friend not to admit to anything. i just dont know what to do i love him and know he loves me deep down.

2006-11-20 09:03:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't trust my husband completely sometimes it feels like he lies to me all of the time i know he lies alot to other people so how do i know if he lies to me or not? should i trust him or not

2006-11-20 09:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 09:03:04 · 4 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend Angela is getting married to one of my male relatives soon. He originally was going to give her father 5 acres of land in Wisconsin but when he found out she did not have a hymen, he is only going to give 2.5. I know she is a virgin though (she lost her hymen horseback riding). I just wished guys could understand that sometimes girls lose their hymens without having sex and it isn't their fault. :( Do you think she should have had that new hymen reconstructive surgery? I know its wrong if she had already had sex but I know she didn't. I had my virginity intact and my father received a small box of silver "coins". I'm not sure how much they were worth. I also have known fathers who received only a penny but it wasn't out of disrespect, it was because their fathers only wanted a token that the man was willing to give his money away for her - kind of symbolic. Should the bride price be less for a virgin who has lost her hymen but not by sexual intercourse?

2006-11-20 09:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce