i don't trust my husband completely sometimes it feels like he lies to me all of the time i know he lies alot to other people so how do i know if he lies to me or not? should i trust him or not
2006-11-20 09:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has he done something to have lost your trust? Ask him why he feels the need to lie to others so often and tell him how its making you feel towards him about your own relatiionship. He may be a habitual/pathological liar and if that is the case, you can count on it that he has lied to you on occasion since it is a sickness. If that is the case, then he needs to seek professional help. Get to the source of the problem honey. Good luck.
2006-11-20 09:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Ironically, your question is "tailored" to me , as well and I'll talk to you about the similarities!
For 1 thing, being that you don't trust your husband, it is your "gut instinct" getting you to pay attention.
Another thing is, being you feel like he lies to you all of the time, you're probrbly right.
These are the signs I had to examine too, many times.
After awhile, you will be an expert about lies you suspect he's telling, and body language, facial expressions, acting out of character are some clear signs of being lied to!
When someone you loved has given you a reason NOT to trust, after that it is difficult to trust again, FOR SURE!
It depends how much you have invested in the marriage and where your feelings are in order to know if you should trust or not ever again! It's hard to decide until you examine where your "heart" is!!!!
I'd say in close, if the man continues to lie to you, look for signs I mentioned, THEN you will know, and you will know when you get fed up what you should do next.
I know how you feel and it's a terrible place to be, esp. when you trusted once, then were let down.
Some people are selfish and not worth trusting!
I hope you find someone new!
2006-11-20 16:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you feel like he lies all the time? If you know he has a habit of lying then he is a liar and you cant trust him.
2006-11-20 09:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so not fair on you. This must make you feel anxious and worried alot.
I think you have every right to be suspicious if he's given you reason to be.
You should ask yourself is your relationship worth it?
Do you really want to feel so worried and stressed all the time?
2006-11-20 09:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies to others he probably lies to you as well. You have to go with your gut. If your gut is telling you he is lying then he probably is.
2006-11-20 09:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't he is your husban and you are suppose to be able to trust your husband and if he keeps on leave and find you antother man there are a whole bunch of men out there that are way beter
2006-11-20 09:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mrscbe013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is something that is earned it's not freely given.... so have a chat with your spouse and get things ironed out.
2006-11-20 09:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!!!!! if he lies to other people he lies to everyone including you!!
2006-11-20 12:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by dani l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe his actions, not his words, thats how you will be able to tell if he is telling truth or not.
2006-11-20 09:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CAN NOT TRUST HIM THEN MOVE ON , WHY PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT PAIN ??
2006-11-20 09:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋