My boyfriend and I have been broken up for 6 months now. It took me 3 of the months to finally get over him and stop being sad. Well, ive dated a few guys since then and he has dated a few girls. Lately, i miss him again. I dont know if I miss HIM or what I had with him. We were together for 2 years. And when he dumped me I was really hurt. He told me he didnt want to talk to me or see me. He broke up with me for another girl who lives 3 hours away. I dont know what I should do. When we see each other at school we dont talk and i havent spoken to him in 6 months.I just want to talk to him & see if it could work but im afraid of what he'd say. I was doing so well & all a sudden i just fell apart. Do you think he is just scared to talk to me? or has he just completely moved on?
2006-11-20 09:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think I'd be too concerned about a boyfriend who dumped me, hurt me, and dated other girls while I spent 3 miserable months trying to recover. You didn't fall apart: you let yourself think about all the happy times and had a minor relapse. You are still doing well, so stay away from him. Whether he's scared or moved on or what doesn't matter --you have moved on.
2006-11-20 09:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people get lonely or the holiday season comes along they get lonely. Think about this, he dumped you for another girl....if he came back to you you would be allowing him to use you because his new relationship didn't work out. Relationships are easy to go back on because we feel comfortable and know the person. It easier that way but, it cost most of the time. Emotions can and do play tricks on the heart. The question my dear have you moved on? Start doing things that you enjoy and do it with friends. I have stated before on this site that mr. right could just walk right past you and you wouldn't even see him because you are too busy worring about a man that broke your heart. Good luck and try to have some fun in you life.
2006-11-20 09:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he's moved on yet or not. He dumped you. You took the time to recover. STAY away from him: going back is asking to get hurt all over again. Leave well enough alone! Move on past those feelings that you want to talk to him. Those feelings will fade and you can make a good life. It won't be with him.
2006-11-20 09:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow. It could be anything. But I think you should just forget about it. I believe you just miss being with someone. But give it time, you'll find someone better.
2006-11-20 09:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by JME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. People have weak moments, this too shall pass. Keep moving on, you're better off without him.
2006-11-20 09:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋