Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

what do i do?

2006-11-11 16:09:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad's just came back from a trip frpm his home country.
I checked his cell phone that he left behind today and found 6 text messeges saying things like "Love u. Love u." from another woman. My dad has been caught cheating by my mom just 3 years ago and we went through a major family crisis. I was really scared when i saw the messeges just minutes ago and i dunno what to do now. My mom's been through so much. From physical abuse to the cheating 3 years ago. But my mom and dad were friendly to each other and looks like they respect one another for the past year. In the midst when i though our family elationship was getting stronger, THIS. My mom and I are very close and i want to go talk to her but what are the right words? What should i say to my dad?

2006-11-11 16:09:10 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Emily 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am pretty shy around guys but whenever I get really close to one and/or start going out (even one I Like) I can't stand it and I back way off. I feel like I just am not able to be close (relationship-wise) to any guy. Why? Have I just not found the right person yet? Am I just not mature enough for a boyfriend? HELP

2006-11-11 16:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by katherinejean66 2 in Singles & Dating

we just broke up a couple of days ago and i just can't stop looking at his friendster account... it's like an obsession or something. I look at it around 2-3 times or more everyday... I need help...

thanks.

2006-11-11 16:07:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay today i went to the fair and i noticed all those people that work the machines are frickin high red necks...they aare like drunk or something...for example i gave the guy 4 tickets(what the number of tickets for the ride was) and he told me i owned him 2 tickets he was like high(you can tell) anyways where do they get these people?

2006-11-11 16:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went out with this guy for almost 10 months and it's been a month since we've broken up and I have a new bf. The bad part is that I still like my ex. What should I do?

2006-11-11 16:06:08 · 7 answers · asked by ConFuzEd 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it common for couples that are married too young to start liking other people? Do you think that being married too young affects how faithful they are to their spouse?

2006-11-11 16:05:52 · 18 answers · asked by h2gj87 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends 4 like 6 yrs...and every sun. in church i sense sum1 staring @ me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring @ me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all thru church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of havin my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im 2 much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...and im also doin a musical for choir, but im 2 afraid 2 ask him 2 come and watch me...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...we r from different skools tho...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...waht do i do 2morrow??...plz help...thanx

2006-11-11 16:05:21 · 5 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with a guy becase he asked me to marry him he wouldn't tell his friends or family. 2 weeks after we were engaged he has been seeing someone new and says he has only kissed her. He says because I broke it off it is my fault, should I just let it go and move on or try to get him back?

2006-11-11 16:04:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 16:03:06 · 11 answers · asked by kennychen 2 in Friends

Ok so the MOG kind of took over with ordering the flowers. She was paying for them, but let me choose them, but my mom was hurt. So in return I promised my mom her and I would do the favors and programs. Now the flowers are ordered and the MOG is taking over with the favors! I have told her what I wanted to do and she is buying other things and just telling me. I don't know what to do! The MOG is paying for alot more than the MOB is but I don't want that to matter when it comes to planning. Suggestions on how to handle this situation with BOTH - MOG and MOB!!!

2006-11-11 16:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by melodi_jean_99 3 in Weddings

okay well my dads old boss has this son a year older than me he had short ahir and glasses kinda a geek. We were like best friends icould be my self around him but around NO ONE else Well i hadnt seen him sence last easter and we went to go see him last week. His ahir came to his ears he ahd baggy pants and no glasses he was kinda cute we didnt even say hi toveach other and when we left all i could think about is him and then i relizzed maybe i always liked him just for him not brcause he was cute and maybe i always liked him i really need help.

2006-11-11 16:01:19 · 17 answers · asked by Kenzii 1 2 3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 16:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok I like this guy, it started out funny! (If you wanna noe read the bottom) Anyways, a couple days ago I found out that his dad died last year! And, man this just makes me wanna like him more! He's the kinda guy who's worries about his marks, funny, with a great sense of humour! Well, is there anything I should be careful about while talking to him? And how should I approch him? Everyone knows I like him...he refuses to believe, claims it's a rumor! I DESPRATELY need convo starters! + Since I want to talk to him alone....what should I say to him???

The Story of How I Started Liking Him: He comes up to me on dance day, asks a stupid question, people tell me he's looking for me, and stuff! And there I go....fall fall falling in love with him!

2006-11-11 16:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy since the 4th grade and i've liked him since the 4th grade and I moved in the 6th grade now we're both in the 10th grade now and he tells me loves me and he wants to be with me and he wants to marry me and every time he has a girlfriend it seems like im get pushed to the curb and then i feel depressed what do i do?

2006-11-11 16:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that im pregnant ....its been a week why hasn't he written back? Do u think he'll ever write back?

2006-11-11 16:01:06 · 9 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Singles & Dating

My older sister has 3 children with this guy who she's been broken up with for over 11 years now and since their break up 5 years ago he decides when and how much child support he will pay her (if any). I told my sister several times she should file for child support. Her ex is a loan officer who makes good money but seems to think that he doesn't have to pay child support. So because he writes my sis a check that has a memo saying "child support" he thinks it counts for something in case my sister takes him to court. I was told that if the money he gives her isn't going through the court system it means NOTHING and is considered a gift Anyone know anything about this or a web-site that states this?

2006-11-11 16:00:59 · 3 answers · asked by SoCalGal75 3 in Family

...to talk to some girl early in the morning especially if he is in a relationship? Even if it's for just like a minute? if so, what is the reason and if it's not what can i tell my boyfriend because i always see his call history with him calling that girl? it's starting to irritate me but i just don't know how to tell him..NEED ADVICE. THANKS!

2006-11-11 15:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by h0n3y_bliss 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 15:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 15:59:33 · 9 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Family

about a 15 year old girl dating a 23 year old guy?

2006-11-11 15:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by Perth-beachbabe15 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants me to lose some weight and be skinnier. I have always been skinny but I couldn't find a job for a few months and my metabolism has changed quite a bit the last two years. I'm almost 24. I told him I want him to work out with me at least once a week maybe twice. Don't you think he should be supportive since it's a big deal to him for me to get in better shape? I do massage so I'm active at work. but I want to do more to get in shape and toned. But I also want him to quit smoking and get his license back. So how should we help eachother reach those goals and be supportive? Some people think it's very rude that he wants me to lose weight, but I'd also like to as well. I don't ever want to get fat and I want to be more athletic and make it part of my lifestyle. He also thinks he gets his workout from his job, but I want him to work out with me. I need some motivation. He just can't get past wanting me to be skinnier. I'm a size 8 or 9.

2006-11-11 15:58:43 · 5 answers · asked by Mel 3 in Singles & Dating

i know this sounds stupid, and i should feel more confident about my self and marriage. but im almost 6 months pregnant and dont feel like my self. i know that a lot of women find him attractive, so i feel like he might start looking back at them because im growing. My husband and i both are nursing assistans and we both work together..so this women made a comment about him when he left the room (not when i was around). and i had to hear about it.they told him he was married and had a baby on the way...but that makes them want him more...i feel crazy. I'm i the only one out there that would feel upset about this?

2006-11-11 15:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i had a boyfriend that broke up with me and then said that he didnt break up with me like he was high or somehting when he did it. but anyways, i wouldnt take him back after we broke up. so i believe that yo should be friends after you break up so i wanted to be his friend. then he was talking ot my other friend asking if he should accept "dipshit"'s [me, he calls me that because he hates me, apparently i dont want him to call me that] friend request. and all i wanted was to be friends with him. what am i supposed to do??

2006-11-11 15:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with my bf (we live in HIS house and have a child together), I am a stay home mom and I want out of this relationship, he talks to me like Im shitt, tells me I have wifely duties, needs to know why I need money, I feel like a child and he hates the thought of me working, so I never got a job, I stayed with my son...I dont know what to do...I am not happy inside and it is starting to affect my life.

2006-11-11 15:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sooo theres this hott guy that i love. but we are just friends. he makes me laugh..smile. hes soo perrfect. i dream about him all the time. i want to be more then friends. please help!!!

2006-11-11 15:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by $loverr 1 in Singles & Dating

okay I'm online talking to her and we have had this little competition (silent) for about a year now. Cause she thinks I did something to get her ex to dump her. so i'm online and we're talking. She said she borrowed a shirt of mine and it was too low cut because it's too big (yea I'm sure a xs on a girl who wears size 9 is too big). And she sends me a pic of how she wants her hair cut and I say it won't look good with her eyeliner job and she needs to re-do the make up. plus the haircut will look weird with her head shape. Then she sends me this e-mail (I was the only one she sent it too) that said "50 things girls don't know about guys". First thing on the list way "1. Guys hate sluts." and then all these others things. is sh trying to say I dunno what guys liek...Cause all those little moves her ex's do that she likes came cause of me. or is she saying I'm a slut? or like what? thanks for answering! xoxo

2006-11-11 15:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend wants to have anal sex and i have never done it before... Does it really hurt alot? And i'm also wondering about bowel movements... Will that happen if we have anal sex? Any advice is appreciated! Thanks! Will i have to use the bathroom while he's doing it....? I am curious but im also scared at the same time

2006-11-11 15:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you've been in a long term relationship with someone you claim to love, would you leave them if they became depressed and anxious and it started to affect the relationship? What if after you left they found out it was a thyroid disease and the medication cured them and they were back to themselves again. Would you regret leaving?

2006-11-11 15:54:13 · 18 answers · asked by sadinLA 2 in Singles & Dating

You are less happy single or in a relationship? Taking into account that both have their ups and downs.

2006-11-11 15:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by JustJane 6 in Singles & Dating