okay I'm online talking to her and we have had this little competition (silent) for about a year now. Cause she thinks I did something to get her ex to dump her. so i'm online and we're talking. She said she borrowed a shirt of mine and it was too low cut because it's too big (yea I'm sure a xs on a girl who wears size 9 is too big). And she sends me a pic of how she wants her hair cut and I say it won't look good with her eyeliner job and she needs to re-do the make up. plus the haircut will look weird with her head shape. Then she sends me this e-mail (I was the only one she sent it too) that said "50 things girls don't know about guys". First thing on the list way "1. Guys hate sluts." and then all these others things. is sh trying to say I dunno what guys liek...Cause all those little moves her ex's do that she likes came cause of me. or is she saying I'm a slut? or like what? thanks for answering! xoxo
2006-11-11 15:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
forgot to add...she and some of her "friends" say I'm on the slutty side but then always say jk...so yea...
2006-11-11 16:00:25 · update #1
i asked her and she said she didn't know why it wa sonyl to me and then said "g2g bye"
2006-11-11 16:05:42 · update #2
well i don't really no what she meant by that email, but it doesn't sound to me like ya''ll are friends... friends help, support, encourage, and love each other. not put each other down and judge each other.. If she really is someone you care about and you want this to stop betwwen you.. then I would just ask her whats going on...why she sent it and stuff like that
2006-11-11 16:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's really your friend. I think you should just little by little lose touch with her, and move on to a different group of people. Hitting on someone BF is just wrong, your the one who really knows if you did it, or not, and you will have to deal with your conscious someday. If he dumped her, he would have done it anyway, you may not have helped the situation. Also, you may want to take note of what they are saying and see if you are looking like a slut in other peoples eyes. They wouldn't be saying it, over and over, for no reason.
2006-11-12 00:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you told us i wouldn't think she meant anything by it. But then on your additional details you added that her & her friends say you're on the slutty side but say they're kidding afterwards. Let me tell you something. When you're friends w/ someone even if you're just kidding you NEVER call a girl friend a slut. Who cares if they were "kidding"? They said it & they can't take it back now. I'd say "Listen guys. You always say that i'm on the slutty side & even though you say you're just kidding it really makes me mad cuz friends don't say stuff like that to each other....even if they are kidding." Listen to their reaction. They may think you're overreacting but i agree w/ you. These girls need to stop.
2006-11-12 00:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, let me just tell you that you two are not friends. you're co-dependent security blankets through insecure times. If you have to ask someone's meaning of something than that means that you don't know what their intentions are. If she was a true friend, you would know what her intentions are. You don't. It's that simple. Intentions are the thought process behind an action or actions. people can have hidden agendas that others never know about. Just be wise, have good intentions of your own and if something doesn't feel right about someone eles intentions, simply distance yourself.
2006-11-12 00:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you think one silly email is pointing out you're a slut, then you have some level of concern yourself.
2006-11-11 23:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always assume she directed it towards you, but you won't know until you ask. So many things go unspoken...if you all are friends...ask her and stop all of the mind games...
2006-11-12 00:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love sluts, but they don't respect them.
2006-11-12 00:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's saying your a slut...why would she talk about how great you are in bed
2006-11-11 23:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
PRSONALLY I THINK THIS PROBLEM GOES DEEPER THAN WHAT YOUR SAYING.
THE SL$T PROBLEM IS JUST THE SURFACE, I THINK YOU NEED TO EITHER LOOK DEEPER OR DITCH HER HONEY
2006-11-12 00:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by skurtzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes saying that your a **** but she dont want you to know that and you wont turn it around and you wont be her "friend"
2006-11-13 18:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋