I went out with this guy for almost 10 months and it's been a month since we've broken up and I have a new bf. The bad part is that I still like my ex. What should I do?
2006-11-11 16:06:08 · 7 answers · asked by ConFuzEd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell your ex that you still have feelings for him....BUT it is completely up to him. Considering the time you have been apart....he will have to be the one to decide if you two should get back together. It is really out of your control, if he has moved on then there is NOTHING that you can do. This is the toughest part about breakups!!!!!
2006-11-11 16:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feeling for your ex, you have a few choices...
1) break up with your current BF, because he will only get hurt in the long run. I think that it will take more time to get over the 1st guy. Give yourself time to heal and get over him. Date other guys but don't be exclusive with anyone just yet. See what else is out ther for you.
2) If the new guy is worth keeping around, try to make it work and get over the ex. If the new guy is really great and treats you well, maybe he will help your feeling for the ex diminsh.
3) Depending on WHY you broke up with the ex...try to work things out. It will take time and effort but if he is really worht it, then go for it. But dont string the new Bf along.
Good Luck...
2006-11-12 00:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in the recent relationship. while in the new relationship, try to sort your feelings. put your feelings into a pro and con situation. find out what the old bf have that the new bf dont have. if you dont like the new bf, break it off before you make him like you even more but be careful of what you do. try not to break him. if you break it off to late and finds out that the old bf has a girlfriend, then you have broken your relationship for no reason.
2006-11-12 00:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by babygrl1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The was way to get over a guy or girl is to get under another.
2006-11-12 00:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by TerreriX652 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation...
trust me get over it. you'll be in a world of hurt if you cant let go..
i realize now that my bf is the best thing that ever happened to me
2006-11-12 00:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by dorko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say break up with your current boyfriend. and see if you can work things out with your ex-
2006-11-12 00:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOTHING, IT NORMAL TO STILL HAVE FEELING FOR
SOMEONE THAT YOU CARED FOR . YOU WERE WITH HIM
FOR A PERIOD OF TIME. BUT KNOW THAT YOU HAVE
SOMEONE ELSE. TIME TO CONTRACT ON THE NEW
LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. HE AND EX FOR A REASON. KEEP
HIM THERE.
2006-11-12 00:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋