I am pretty shy around guys but whenever I get really close to one and/or start going out (even one I Like) I can't stand it and I back way off. I feel like I just am not able to be close (relationship-wise) to any guy. Why? Have I just not found the right person yet? Am I just not mature enough for a boyfriend? HELP
2006-11-11 16:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by katherinejean66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well talk to the guy, it's kind of his job to make you feel comfortable, and vice versa.
any guy who's worth dating will listen and help.
I know I did.
2006-11-11 16:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me forever to finally "trust" a guy. Everyguy that i have ever known when i was little left. My dad. my moms boyfriends that i would get close to. My mom had me young. So she dated alot of other guys. I saw her get hurt. I never wanted to end up like her! getting hurt. but ilearned thats just part of life... it will just take awhile maybe you had a bad relationship with a guy and that is stopping you from getting close..dont worry give it time!
need someone to talk to emo_chicste@yahoo.com i know how it feels!
Kara
2006-11-12 00:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like a deep wrought case of fear of rejection, you will be rejected, make no mistake about that, but you will also find a guy, you just have to do the same thing you do at the pool when the waters cold, jump in.
2006-11-12 00:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try friends first. you'll get to know each other, you'll grow close, and you'll just be able to have fun with him. if you do start going out, be sure you can stay comfortable, fun, and yourself.
2006-11-12 00:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might have been converted to lesbianism but u don't know it....Try to go out w/ a girl instead.
2006-11-12 00:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you find a guy
where you are comfortable
when with him,
he's the right guy for you
2006-11-12 00:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by MaSTeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, your not ready don't force it
2006-11-12 00:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋