Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

2006-10-06 01:26:23 · 10 answers · asked by freakydemon1221 1 in Family

Hi i was just having fun and i got pregnant , i decided to have my baby but i don't like the father of my baby but he actually is so happy and excited to have the baby and he wants to make a nice family, but i don't want to get married now????? what should i do?

2006-10-06 01:25:38 · 26 answers · asked by alfa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

since we don't know each other, i mean he knows me, i know him but we're not close. we don't even say hi or bye but sometimes from the corner of my eye he's looking at me? does this mean he likes me?

2006-10-06 01:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by crimson_kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend gets married to her live in boyfriend tomorrow,i wrote his name first on the card and envelope coss it looked right somehow,when my partner saw it he told me id made a total **** up and that her name shoould be first as shes my friend,not him.i said "oh well its done now".i told him it dosent matter its not worth getting angry over and he told me im a cocky *****.he makes me feel second rate and second class.he says im an idiot.he gets very angry if i answer him back but he just says whatever he likes to me.i am so sick of it and dont know what to do.

2006-10-06 01:24:50 · 16 answers · asked by NICHOLA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

may we do sex with wife without permission of her on 1st night after the marriage
pls comment on this

2006-10-06 01:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by manjul c 1 in Weddings

2006-10-06 01:23:56 · 3 answers · asked by prettywoman 6 in Marriage & Divorce

boss not to pay me for the hour that I spend with my wife every other day. Who else has such a busy schedule that you have to make a date with your wife/husband or significant other for lunch time sex?

2006-10-06 01:23:31 · 5 answers · asked by loser 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 01:23:26 · 22 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Singles & Dating

like if you give a 3 year old everything she wants you soon have spoiled her. what if you do everything you parents ask you? and they are just the lazy ones?

2006-10-06 01:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have two daughters ages 7 and 5. My youngest daughter has had a lot of medical problems growing up and still has a severe speech problem(she talks at about the lvl of an 2 year old). Other than the speech problem my 5 year old Gracie is a very intellegent little girl for her age and can do things he older sister can't do but she is beyond defiant. I know the problem can't be jealosy or lack of attention, she has recieved so much attention because of her medical problems alone, not to mention that she is being raised in a very loving home. She is now to the point that she will even hit her mother, she doesn't listen, and she doesn't care when she is punished. Nothing works, I've tried everything I even went as far as embarrasing her in front of her friends from school. Sometimes she can be a very loving girl but when she decides she wants to act up there is no punishment, or conseqeunce that will deter her. She even came close to killing the family cat. Is a psychiatrist a good idea

2006-10-06 01:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by ScareCrow26 2 in Family

I allready do a good "job" but I want to do a great "job" any man out there got suggests for me?

2006-10-06 01:20:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a partner for 10 years who died suddenly of a heart-attack at the age of 39. There was no warning and it came as a complete shock to everyone.

That was six and a half years ago and I'm still grieving. I'm still living in the same house and leading pretty much the same lifestyle, but thinking that it's about time I did something new.

Do you think I should have got over it by now? If not, how long does it take?

Would it help if I moved?

2006-10-06 01:20:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mad Professor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

2006-10-06 01:19:48 · 7 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Family

i'm just curious if once a girl is a ho, will she always be a ho. I SAY YES.

2006-10-06 01:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by DeeeezNuts 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone can answer this. I had this girl at work who was very hot and sexy. I only liked her as a friend though we were cool at work and had great chemistry. Well I went to her house and watched soem movies. I am so use to having female friends, I guess I forgot when I was being hit on. I mean i got close ot her and all but it was jsut a hugging embrace friendshipwise and all..
Well after the movie was over wiht, she said she had to go to bed cool i left. Monday at work, she like seemed upset and me . She wanted to avoid me and all.
I think she wanted me to jump her that night but I didnt. If so, and if anyone was in the situtation, would you have taken advantage of that situtation?

2006-10-06 01:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

we're both 15 and have been going out for a year...
he seems really depressed thyese days...
what can i do to cheer him up?

2006-10-06 01:17:58 · 6 answers · asked by Gia Star 2 in Friends

After talking for a little while, I went out w/this guy a week ago and never felt such an instant connection so quickly. I'm very leary about most girls coming on too strong so to judge a guy's comfort level by his ability to make future plans and talk about a potential relationship and he did both completely on his own. I ended up sleeping over but other then cuddling nothing happened. We talk on the phone daily and have spent every other day doing something 2gether and even a couple more sleepovers. There was one particular "heavy petting" session, but again no sex in any form. We're very open about everything so the comfort level is like i've been dating him for years. He smokes (which I hate) and he's working on quitting so for incentive I brought over this cute lingerie outfit as incentive for him to stop smoking. Even though we're both very sexual, touch feely people we still want to wait for sex b/c we both want it to be something special rather then meaningless sex. (con't)

2006-10-06 01:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 01:15:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a boy my age 21 .i love a girl.she loves me .we want to marriage but our parents are not allowed to our marriage .because she is my realtive duaghter .but she love me.and i love her .i marry with her .otherwise i cant marry with one girl.plz help me take me advice .......................plz..........i requestevery deeply.

2006-10-06 01:15:11 · 18 answers · asked by SENTY 1984 1 in Weddings

2006-10-06 01:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by shah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 01:14:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sue Chef 6 in Family

you just earned 2 pionts how lucky are you???

have the best poem and get 10 points!!

2006-10-06 01:14:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 6 foot 160 pounds. im considered skinny but I always had a lil pot belly which I like. (especially when the ladies rub it). I been working out lately and my chest is gettin husky and nice. should I worry about getn a 6 pack or am I cool with just a nice chest??

2006-10-06 01:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4 in Singles & Dating

John Dyer lived in Earlswood near Redhill before he divorced, he the then moved to croydon and married Jean, they then moved on to Belgium he work for U.P.I. and Planet news, which became Reuiters, Jean had three or four Hair dressing saloons before they went to loive Belguim

2006-10-06 01:13:39 · 1 answers · asked by P D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been dating this guy for nearly a year.. and for no reason my parents forbid me to have any associatino with each other.. we are tryin to sneak around.. but slowly we are both breaking down, and not gonna be able to handle much anymore. I dont know what to do. I love him

2006-10-06 01:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by holly w 2 in Family

I'm 16-17 girl (brown eyes and black hair, 168 cm, 50 kg ).I'm stylish and sporty!
I like to find friends while I'm traveling, ( specialy european boys !)

Can you help me how can I find? what should I do?

ps: for my next trip I'll visit russia!

2006-10-06 01:12:06 · 2 answers · asked by ♥•Real Madrid•♥ 2 in Friends

2006-10-06 01:11:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i forgot which category i wrote it in so plzzzzzzz give me answers again if it possible

2006-10-06 01:08:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am going to Jamaica in December to renew my wedding vows (after 10 years) and need a song to play while walking on the beach to my husband, the song will be piped throughout the resort.

2006-10-06 01:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Weddings

2006-10-06 01:05:38 · 36 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating