i forgot which category i wrote it in so plzzzzzzz give me answers again if it possible
2006-10-06 01:08:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No pet, you should stick in at school and leave the boy thing until you are older. This will show everyone just how grown up you really are.................
2006-10-06 01:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was young I went around with a small group of people my own age give or take a year or so. There was about 10 of us, boys and girls. As time went by, without forcing the pace we all paired up. A few weeks or even months later the pairs were broken up and new pairs were formed all within the same group. There was no animosity between us as all things happened in a natural way. We all had boy/girl friends from the age of 15. It was all very pleasant, we had a good time and it did not interfere with school or subsequently work.
What I am trying to say is take your time and these things will happen as a natural progression of life.
It will not happen if you spend too much time on your PC and it should be your priority to improve your English, spelling and try to talk in a real language and not text talk.
When you do meet a girl how will you talk to her if you cannot use real words.
Best of luck with your life and I hope that it proves to be as happy, interesting and challenging as mine has been so far.
2006-10-06 01:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to be interested in boys. However, you really should concentrate on your education right now. When I was about 14, I was totally wrapped up in this boy, who happens to be the father of my first child (I didn't have sex until 18 though). You really don't want to go down that road. Having a boyfriend adds undue stress on you, and quite frankly, you aren't ready for that now. Just wait a bit longer before getting too serious. You'll be glad you did.
You should also talk to your parents and let them know what's on your mind.
2006-10-06 01:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by MaknMeCrzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to say that having a boyfriend at your age is bad, I had one at 14 and I still love him to this day, but it is rare to find a GOOD boyfriend until you are older... I'm on the verg of 19 and I am still waiting for a good one....it takes men till about age 25 to grow up, and women around my age to relize what they want.... if you can wait....you'll be much happier in the end. Having a BF is not like the movies....Its just tons of stress........ Just be the cool girl to have around.....at your age, just look good, have fun....stop chasing the boys.....
2006-10-06 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by brunette_lovely05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult as when you are young you have lots of freinds and normaly as rule of thumb have a "named best friend".
But really you will not a have a true friend untill you are older as you need to get to know them well enought to trust them.
when i was your age i had so called best friends and to tell you the truth i did'nt really like them as they always were everyones best friend
know at 27 i have two really good friends and this is all i need
just enjoy life as friends come and go but true freinds will always be there
a little saying for
"make new friends but keep the old for some are silver the others gold"
2006-10-06 01:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by jopink79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is full of challenges. it is not bad to feel this way, but the advise that i can give; focus on your studies and wait 4 the right time(Rand 20-22) it is when you can think of hvng abf. what does is it mean to have abf nowadays? it means 2 hv s.e.x. ur too young 2 hv s.e.x. respect ur virginity.
2006-10-06 02:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 14 i had a boyfriend but the guys just mess it up so dont go out with anybody not even if u think that u should even if the guy tells u that if u love him u should go out with him dont because then hes just going to say that u should have se x with him "if u love him, too"
im 15 1/2 and im living the single life yeah sometimes i wish that i did have a boyfriend but i rather not because because they just bring drama to life so no dont go out with anybody u're considered little to have a boyfriend
2006-10-06 01:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by love hurts but its worth it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
when i was 14 i reeeeeally wanted a bf so i know how you feel, but trust me, dont bother! i'm 19 now and i wouldnt swap my single life for the world!
i know it sounds really patronising and i assume that everybody else has said no dont have one, but just wait till you're a bit older and you start going out to bars etc believe me you will not want to be tied down!
and i personally think that 19 is too young to have a boyfriend so please dont worry about it or feel sad that you dont have one!!!
2006-10-06 02:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by woo hoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age I wouldn't worry about having a boyfriend. Just worry about your grades in school. Just because other girls might have a boyfriend, doesn't mean you need one! There are better things in life at 14 to do!
2006-10-06 01:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is having a boyfriend necessary? I don't see it that way. Having a bf can make you unserious towards your studies. I think you should stick with your friends who are interested in you.
Someone might come your way asking to be your bf, you shouldn't jump in to saying a YES, what does it involves? You should be able to ask yourself that question.
2006-10-06 01:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you've got your whole life infront of you. Believe me, you'll find the right guy when the time's right and you've met the guy that makes your heart pound that little bit faster. I know this sounds ever so corny - but it's true! True love comes when you least expect it.
2006-10-06 01:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋