Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

After talking for a little while, I went out w/this guy a week ago and never felt such an instant connection so quickly. I'm very leary about most girls coming on too strong so to judge a guy's comfort level by his ability to make future plans and talk about a potential relationship and he did both completely on his own. I ended up sleeping over but other then cuddling nothing happened. We talk on the phone daily and have spent every other day doing something 2gether and even a couple more sleepovers. There was one particular "heavy petting" session, but again no sex in any form. We're very open about everything so the comfort level is like i've been dating him for years. He smokes (which I hate) and he's working on quitting so for incentive I brought over this cute lingerie outfit as incentive for him to stop smoking. Even though we're both very sexual, touch feely people we still want to wait for sex b/c we both want it to be something special rather then meaningless sex...see part 2

2006-10-06 02:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:32:07 · 27 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 02:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1 in Friends

or are most women still stuck in the "I am independent and can do it myself" mode. I personally like to be babied, (not all the time) but on occassion I still love it for a guy to baby me. Sometimes, I will even act like I can't do something, just to get them to do it for me....Just curious for your thoughts on this. :) Thanks for your answers!

2006-10-06 02:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:29:35 · 19 answers · asked by ghosthunter_blade 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:29:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This old man in his eighty's got up and was putting on his coat.

His wife said, "Where are you going?"

He said, "I'm going to the doctor."

And she said, "Why? Are you sick?"

"No," he said. "I'm going to get me some of those new Viagra pills."

So his wife got up out of her rocker and was putting on her sweater and he
said, "Where are you going?"

She said, "I'm going to the doctor too."

He said, "Why?"

She said, "If you're going to start using that rusty old thing again, I'm
going to get a tetanus shot."

2006-10-06 02:29:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've tried all this. We've tried condoms, having him think about something else, getting him off first by oral then going at it. we've tried doing it slow we've tried doing it fast. nothing seems to work. all he says is that he can't help but think about it because he thinks i'm so beautiful and he can't believe that he's actually getting to share something like sex with me. i can walk by him and look at him and he gets a hard on. He loves to have sex but it's turning me off that he won't last that long and i'm gonna be left high and dry

2006-10-06 02:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:26:10 · 10 answers · asked by sjc123sjc 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:26:01 · 27 answers · asked by Rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi... I am falling in love with one girl, how i know she is also loving me? any hints pls.

2006-10-06 02:25:49 · 16 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

my friend is always talkin' stuff about anyone how do i know she isn't sayin' stuff about me?

2006-10-06 02:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda Fay! 3 in Friends

i was talking to my bf last night and something came up so i couldnt go to his house today......thanx to my mom...........anyways...he started thinking that my parents dont want us around each other so he told me he didnt know if it would work out or not.........i started crying of course........my mom called me and asked me what was wrong and i told her nothing and she kept asking me.......the first conclusion she jumped to and the first question she asked was if i was pregnant.........like 2 weeks ago i couldnt eat anything bcuz it made me nauseaus to smell food and i told her that and she goes do u have anything u want to tell me and i go like what and she goes usually that means ur pregnant...........she has kept asking me if i am and im not. y does she keep asking me the same thing? is it becuz i went to my boyfriends house like for the last 3 weekends? is that y she thinks i am pregnant? its impossible for me to be pregnant.

2006-10-06 02:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family

2006-10-06 02:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend crys if he can't see me and he says he wants to have kids with me and get a place with me and when I'm upset it makes him upset but he is always asking me if and when do I want to have sex wit him.I told him I would, but I don't want to give it up to him and that be all that he wants and then that puts me in a bad possition because I gave him what he wants.He calls all the time just to talk.He doesn't really try to force things on me but he just keeps asking.My other boyfriends went out wit me just to get some so am I just perinoid because my boyfriend treats me really good and makes sure nothing bad happens to me.I had just got raped like a year ago and he is really protective over me and always tells me that he worries about me because I'm always walkin the streets by myself and the guy that raped me is out of jail now.He treats me really good and I feel like he really does love me and isn't just trying to get in my pants but my dad thinks different.Thanks for your help!

2006-10-06 02:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl has alot of sex - does the lips down there hang out more?
Is this a myth? Or does it have to do with genetics.
All the girls I've been with has theirs intact - no hanging out stuff.
Is this natural?
Girls hows yours look?

2006-10-06 02:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im looking for things to do WITH your wife / gf .also what you would buy FOR your wife /gf .

2006-10-06 02:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to find out what this guy's motive is.

2006-10-06 02:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by Rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 02:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

We also have alot in common and she is a great person but there is very little pasion I am i shallow?

2006-10-06 02:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by gtrman 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has said he would walk away if I cheated. But I think, honestly if he did, I would try to work it out. It will never happen, but I think it says something about the marriage.

2006-10-06 02:22:43 · 31 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 02:20:43 · 2 answers · asked by seker s 1 in Friends

he hurt me 2 times but i really love him i can't live without him

2006-10-06 02:19:40 · 18 answers · asked by dimple 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 02:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by rcdc_wva. 2 in Family

2006-10-06 02:19:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I married Josh 3 years ago, we were perfect together or so I thought. He's changed though. He used to be responsable and caring. Now he has no job and won't even help around the house since I'm working 2 jobs to suport us. I'm tired and burned out and most nights work overtime just to avoid having to go home. When I am at home we fight non-stop and I want out. Every time I bring up divorce though, he gets mad and throws a fit. HE says if I loved him I wouldn't say that. I'm not sure I love him though. He's in no way physicly abusive to me, but the one time I did try t leave he chased me down and even cried til I agreed to come back. We can't afford to do counseling. Help?

2006-10-06 02:18:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 02:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by shivi 1 in Friends