We've tried all this. We've tried condoms, having him think about something else, getting him off first by oral then going at it. we've tried doing it slow we've tried doing it fast. nothing seems to work. all he says is that he can't help but think about it because he thinks i'm so beautiful and he can't believe that he's actually getting to share something like sex with me. i can walk by him and look at him and he gets a hard on. He loves to have sex but it's turning me off that he won't last that long and i'm gonna be left high and dry
2006-10-06 02:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
the bible says, "don't have sex outside of marrige" so maybe this is a good thing
2006-10-06 02:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus Freak!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That so happens baby,
but atleast it must perform even once. I think the problem might have erupted from too much masturbation you know or the disorder may be natural disability.
Tell him to visit the doc.
But I wish all men could know the danger of mastubation... Imagine it renders one unable to do real natural sex. After some time. But dont lose hope. Keep encouraging him and he may do it one time.
Make sure he concentrates on you when its happening.
Goodluck
2006-10-06 02:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a prescription for levitra. I tried it just for fun. I never had any issues with getting it up. The fun side effect it had for me was that I could go for about an hour without spooging. I actually had to try to *** when I used a full 20mg pill. I only use a quarter tablet now when ever I want to have some real fun.
Have him try it, it can't hurt if he is healthy.
2006-10-06 02:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then perhaps YOU should be the one who gets satisfed first, if your partner cared about you. Change the act, mix it up a bit, have the foreplay, and quit for a while....you can always resume it later. Also, there's "edging". You bring your b/f almost to the edge of orgasm.......then back off. Try that a few times. But change the sequence of what you do, and maybe that will be the change that you need.
2006-10-06 02:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by sexygalx2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have him take care of you first with oral and/or manual stimulation. Make sure you get off and he gets all hot and bothered, then walk away. Let him cool down and then go at it again. Do this several times prior to letting him bang away. You will have several orgasms and even if he only lasts 30 seconds you will be satisified.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 02:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Redeft 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to jack off before you guys have sex, that will get gim to last longer. Try even 2 times a day
2006-10-06 02:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only think of two things....either try the condoms with the gel inside that numbs him and slows him down...and if that doesn't work...I think he'll have to go to the pills hon...
2006-10-06 02:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tape a big picture of Rosie Odonnell on your face, (or back of your head).
He may need Viagra to get it up, but its guaranteed to shut off the pleasure for him.
2006-10-06 02:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes nervous although he may not know it thats what wrong theres to much preasure on him to preform.Instead of trying all these different things try get him to relax[and you]consintrate on the the things yous enjoy doing in bed forget about this problem and believe me it will come natural.
2006-10-06 02:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be patient with him he may start to become really embarrassed and self concious so that will make it even harded for you two to be intimate. Just suggest that he finishes you off, or you are going to be HIGHLY frustrated.
2006-10-06 02:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋