Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

I've played a lot of girls in the past. Hell, I'm still doing it, a bit.. I'm not in any relationship right now. There is one girl that I think I'm starting to fall in love with, but I don't want her to be scared away because of my sordid past.
How should I go about doing this?

2006-10-06 03:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Terrance J 1 in Singles & Dating

It was raining on me =[ and im wet and bored at work...

2006-10-06 03:19:32 · 24 answers · asked by lila 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 03:19:15 · 32 answers · asked by ash 1 in Friends

So my wife and I got married six months ago. Had a great honeymoon and wedding. We have lived together for 5 years and we have a four year old daughter together. We have had some dry spells in the past maybe lasting every couple of weeks but we are on a six month stretch of NO SEX!!! I stopped pressuring her a few months ago, stopped asking questions and still no change. I've had my suspicions as to whether or not she is cheating, but it's hard to say. She's home every night and she doesn't have all the signs that point to infidelity. Can a woman seriously go this long without sex or any physical intimacy at all? I mean, everything has stopped. Also, she doesn't masterbate (so she says). I can't imagine a human being going this long without any sort of sexual stimulation. Any women go through this or husbands go through this at all? I mean it has literally been six months of NOTHING and it doesn't appear to be improving. She won't do counseling either. What causes this?

2006-10-06 03:18:52 · 8 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it better for me to stand up and take action?
Do you think that it is better if I stand up and take action by telling my classmate (a 14-yr-old girl, we're of the same age) that I like and love her? Or should i just spend the rest of my teenage years waiting?

2006-10-06 03:18:20 · 13 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 03:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by ABCD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she broke up with me 6 months ago and she started dating this guy right after . . im talking like a week after . . but anyways i tried to get her back the first 2 months then i went NC since the middle of june. . .she has called or texted or left me a voicemail like 10-15 times since then and i havent answered or contacted her back. . .she just recently got into an official relationship with this guys and i noticed she tried to get ahold of me the day they started going out . . . she calls about once every 1,2,3 weeks and she called me drunk last weekend 3 times , 2 texts and 1 voicemail in 1 night and she said she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . .even though ive told her atleast 20 times that i cant. . . after we broke up she insisted we were going to get back together sometime . . . and she also is the type of person that cant stand to be alone and always has to have somebody. . . if she is completely happy and everything then why does she try to call me

2006-10-06 03:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a female.

2006-10-06 03:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by tess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were laying in bed last night and my boyfreind says " so i got offered a position in the ER " ( hes a nurse already and the pay apprently is no different then what he is getting now ) i have been watching ER on tv and omg i DONT want him to take it!

i couldnt think of anything to say so i asked if he had time to think about it. he said yes. i asked him if we could talk about it later today. he said ill get back with you on it on saturday.

i dont want him to take it, he has funny hours as it is. at the same time i dont want to upset him. we have such a history and i love him so much and want him to be THRILLED with his life. isn't there some way to he can have that without THIS job?

what would you do?

2006-10-06 03:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hank was amazed at the length of the funeral procession going down Main
Street. Watching awhile he observed that the cortege consisted entirely of men.
A man holding a Doberman led it.

His curiosity got the best of him and walked up to the man at the front of the
line. "Excuse me for interrupting you in your time of grief", said Hank,
politely. " But I've never seen such a funeral procession. Would you mind
telling me who it's for?"

"It's for my mother-in-law," explained the mourner. Tightening the leash, he
gestured down at the dog and said, "My Doberman here killed her."

"Gee, that's terrible”, commiserated Hank”, but hmmm.... i s there any way you
could lend me your dog for a day or so?"

The bereaved son-in-law pointed his thumb over his shoulder and answered, "Get
in line!"

2006-10-06 03:17:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I said "I miss u" then she reply " U know me... No bad for u"
What does she means??

2006-10-06 03:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by Cfu 1 in Friends

i do not want to lose him as a friend. he is someone who get mouth & it nice been around him. what should i do

2006-10-06 03:16:20 · 1 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 03:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 03:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

The place I got my set from didn't have a verse or reading included and I don't know what to say. Also, who reads it? The bride and groom? And when do you do the pouring? Before we are married or after? Thanks for any suggestions.

2006-10-06 03:15:17 · 8 answers · asked by Michele K 2 in Weddings

anyone live in michigan near a town called ortinville

2006-10-06 03:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They havent registered anywhere and I don't know what to bring, I want to get something that will help them remember this day but I don't know what!! They are really young my cousin is 20 and the bride is 21 they she wants computer software and my cousin wants tools but I can't afford that. I don't know what they could need for the house, so I am trying to figure out what to get them I only have like 100.00 I can splurge. Her software is over that and tools WHAT TOOLS.....I am trying to play it out like I already have everything. I don't want to look like I put them off till the last minuet. Plus they told everyone the same thing so how many people are going to end up with 2 of the same thing? What would you get any ideas???

2006-10-06 03:14:01 · 35 answers · asked by Sandra 4 in Weddings

i am 19 engaged to my bestfriend. we have been together now for 3 years, i know this is bad but one night i got really drunk and me and one of his mates slept together we had always had a soft spot for eachother, i do love my fiance but i cant get this guy out my head hes always around us as there families are good mates, i think ive fallen for him and i know he feels the same but we dont want to hurt anyone so we cant be together, he has a new girlfriend now but still we cant stop staring at eachother and we cant seem to resist eachother. im so stuck i would hate to loose my fiance but how can i stay with him when im in love with his mate! even if we cant be together! im so messed up that i cant sleep!

2006-10-06 03:13:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you pretend you don't want but really you would love ?

What or who have you taken off your radar because it's just to painful to think about not having ?

Why are you in denial ?

Or are you just in denial to the fact that you are in denial ?

2006-10-06 03:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4 in Singles & Dating

at our logan elm homecoming i kissed my homecoming date and now he has stoped sitting with me at lunch and stoped gazing into my eyes.
so if i give him some space will he relize that i like him and come to his senses?

2006-10-06 03:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently she filed for divorce and has moved in with her boss. She has been threatening to get a restraining order against me if I show up at her work again. I know she still loves me because she turned away when her boss was pounding on my head the other day. I guess I am just trying to see if women will do things like this just to see how much we really love them, or could this be a bad sign?

2006-10-06 03:12:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what will I do?? my crush ALWAYS caught me starin' at him...
and I think his friends already knew it also ... coz' I always saw them lookin' at me...ahhhh....!!!!!!

2006-10-06 03:11:14 · 6 answers · asked by denise_lcp 1 in Singles & Dating

the 2, 31 of age, 6 month relationship that ended because she was making me crazy about "you can't talk on the phone now with me just because you are having dinner?", I got exhausted one day!!, put an end to the relationship, 3 weeks later regret!. I tried everything for 2 1/2 months to have her back. She said wants to discover herself, enjoy single life, go to clubs with friends, enjoy life!, not date, just enjoy life!. Ok, you are letting me go?, "no, you are not available". You are taking me then? "not exactly, I can't commit 100%". Asked for a final decision = broke up!. 3 weeks later a phone call saying hi, etc and "I miss talking with you, oh, I shouldn't have said that!". I was suffering and trying to move on, I didn't let that to stop my recovering. She said she was staying at home!, no clubbing. Weeks later, no words from her-neither I call, but I found pictures she was having fun those days of the call in groups of singles people. What does this looks like?

2006-10-06 03:10:35 · 3 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

3 years of marriage and I have served him faithfully. Yet he doesn't want me to hold him at night anymore. He doesnt' want to hold me. He has nightmares about me cheating on him everynight (even though God knows I never did). He hardly ever smiles at me anymore. We are always together and yet he never wants to do what I like (he tells me I can do them alone). He doesn't want to go to church or talk about anything but his problems, sex, and drugs. We can not plan anything together. He doesn't want to solve problems but to wallow in them. He hardly believes me about anything. It has been like this since I lost weight (for at least two years). I have been bending over backwards to communicate and help him get over his insecurity. But he doesn't want to try anything. I am starting not to like him. He is not the man I married. How should I respond exactly? I have tried being nice but I think he is taking my nice for weakness but if I be mean he may leave me for good. I am pissed.

2006-10-06 03:10:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Shanghai, China now (I am an American). My fiance finally had enough of me being disgusting.
I have a high sex drive. I like to make love a lot. My fiance says she enjoys making love with me but prefers only 1 or 2 times a week. I don't want to force her to make love when she doesn't want. So, I ask her to use her hand to help me. She says if she doesn't want to have sex, that means NO ANY kind of sex. She says I am disgusting for asking and not caring for her feelings. I said, all I am asking you to do is touch me. She got mad and broke off our engagement. She said my ex-bf would never ask me to do this if I didn't want to do it. I said - yes, but your ex-bf left you for another woman too! I would never leave you but I need to be happy, all I am asking is for you to use your hand when you don't want to make love. She said I was disgusting and for me to get out of her life until I change my mind!
So, do you agree with her??
Tell me your nationality and gender.

2006-10-06 03:09:31 · 27 answers · asked by The Ultimate Nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

I have had more than enough of my "friend" lets call her....Dawn for now. She is completely selfish and has "a go at me" all the bloody time, i feel as though i can't do anything right or wrong because it's not to her expectations!! She treats the rest of her friends o.k. but she always has a "pick" at me every single day!! I have been there for her all the time and i am fully aware of how awful her homelife is - therefore i had offered to help her get counselling, she has got counselling now, but it has taken her months and months for her to go and do it, because we keep falling out - which makes her use it as a weapon against me for some sick reason!! On countless occasions she has come to my house and cried her eyes out to me and my mum, we have offered her attention and respect and care, but she continuously keeps throwing it all back in my face and falling out with me. Today she has fallen out with me because i wasn't joining in with what she calls "fun" - but i don't find touching your friends innapropriately funny! So she said to me - "is it something i've done" and "are you mad with me" all the time both before and after this incident! i kept saying "no its not you, im okay thanks" and thought that would be the end of it - but no! she carried on time and time again, purposely being annoying and asking "whats wrong", "is it me?" etc. I said firmly to her "no" and walked away. She then had a go at me for me doing this - I MEAN, WHAT DOES SHE EXPECT? WHAT KIND OF REACTION AM I SUPPOSED TO GIVE HER WHEN I'M NOT HHAVING A GOOD DAY?! I feel incredibly let down, and i am stuck on what to do - we both want this friendship to work but i really, extremely feel that my friendship and trust has continuously been abused time and time again! Whenever i talk to her about things like this between us, she either tells someone else about it, has a go at me yet again and denies everything, leaves me out of almost practically everything and the list is endless! I feel really depressed about it and when i go home i need to tell my mother whats gone on at school because i feel better about it - but then it stresses her out aswell because my mother has given all her love, respect and time for her during the holidays and after school. "dawn" never wants to see me anymore after school and in the holidays and instead asks other people that she told me she was getting pissed off with! I feel like i'm in a vicious circle of deciet! What should i do?!

2006-10-06 03:09:27 · 15 answers · asked by $@Z 2 in Friends

2006-10-06 03:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by sey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're getting married today....i've been refering to him as my hubby for awhile now...we've been living together for about 8 months and now were getting married today we've been dating for about 13 months ...i wasnt nervous and now i am!!! like im getting this sick feeling in my belly lol its all nerves...I'm scared im going to mess up the words or say something stupid....and everyones going to be just sittin gthere going what? lol or i dreamed i had something in between my teeth and when we got up to the alter he started laughing at me...ugh!! did anyone else get this way on there wedding day? or have something funny to say about it??

2006-10-06 03:08:17 · 37 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Weddings

I've been dating a guy but we havent had sex yet. I want to do something sexy for him but not sex yet,any ideas?

2006-10-06 03:08:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents divorced when I was 3. She married an alcoholic when I was 5. He was mean, acted like us kids were dirt. Mom left him every year for 8 years. We would clean out the house while he was at work and move, only to come back each time. Mom was always too busy worrying and fighting with him. Never got attention. As a teen, she turned crazy it seemed. Called me names, horrible names. Did not want me around. Just always cruel and neglectful. Confronted her when I was going thru therapy 4 years ago. Denied all. Always says she was a good mom and everything she did she did for me. We have still had a relationship since then, but she often upsets me with her words. She is very dramatic and negative. She recently said an awful thing and we have not spoke in a week. She will not return my calls. So much more to all of this, but do not have enough room to type it. I just feel emotionally drained and I have a husband and son to think about.

2006-10-06 03:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family