We're getting married today....i've been refering to him as my hubby for awhile now...we've been living together for about 8 months and now were getting married today we've been dating for about 13 months ...i wasnt nervous and now i am!!! like im getting this sick feeling in my belly lol its all nerves...I'm scared im going to mess up the words or say something stupid....and everyones going to be just sittin gthere going what? lol or i dreamed i had something in between my teeth and when we got up to the alter he started laughing at me...ugh!! did anyone else get this way on there wedding day? or have something funny to say about it??
2006-10-06 03:08:17 · 37 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What did y ou do to calm your nerves on your wedding day...ive been trying to dl some love songs and calm down but all i can do is spot clean the whole house haha!!
2006-10-06 03:09:16 · update #1
WOW!!!! Yall are the most supportive peopl ever! haha better then my whole family!!! i dont think any of them are going...i invited them all but my sister was the only one who wanted to go and my mom said she couldnt cause she cant miss school....but thats okay...
2006-10-06 03:14:38 · update #2
Calm down... relax... deep breaths! You don't want to have your mind racing the entire time - you'll miss the wedding! Focus on how much you love him... how much you can't wait for the rest of your life to begin! Have a cup of tea, or whatever you prefer, and think about YOUR day. No worries, it will be wonderful.
2006-10-06 03:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was comfortable, relaxed and at ease with the whole wedding until the moment I started to put my dress on. Then I thought I was going to throw up. For a moment I questioned this in my mind...and just knew it was mostly my nerves. I never was good with doing things in front of people. So, I started to think about how right it all feels, and how I am already sharing a life with my husband (we were living together almost a year at that point, moved out of state, bought a house...etc) that I sort of felt that this was the icing on the cake to seal the deal. When I got to the church, I decided to stay focus. Took deep breaths and didn't pay ANY attention to anything else except what I was doing. I did glance at family once, and thought I was going to lose it, so I didn't look over again. Saying my vows--I just went slowly. When the ceremony was over---I was happy how easy it was!
Good luck with it all, and don't forget to enjoy your day!
2006-10-06 03:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by crazymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! Nerves on a wedding day are normal. Lots of deep breathing, take a walk, go out with a close friend, drink some hard liquor if none of that helps! Marriage is an awesome thing. I have been married for 8 years and can't imagine life alone. Best wishes and again....Congrats!
2006-10-06 03:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married in June. I was numb the whole week before the wedding and we lived together for a year first. If my sister had not been there I dont know that I would have gotten everything done. My friend got married last month and she cried the week before and she lived with her fiance first also. I was petrified during the whole ceremony. My fiance held my hand so tight I thought it would be black and blue. Nothing went wrong and we are very happy.
2006-10-06 03:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by travelguruette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt so panicky the night before my wedding day. I kept thinking of how hard I'd worked to plan everything, and how I hoped it would all come together perfectly. I really did work myself up about it.
Then I called my maid of honor and said, "If there are any problems, field them for me. Fix them, I don't care how, and don't let me find out that anything went wrong until it's fixed and I don't have to worry about it." All of my stress dropped away right then.
Are you memorizing your vows? If not, just repeat after the officiant. If you are, you might want to write them down on a cheat sheet...it's perfectly acceptible to read from a piece of paper if you need to.
Don't worry, when you're doing the ceremony, everything else will drop away but your husband and the officiant.
Congrats!
2006-10-06 03:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was so excited it's like everything was going wrong people were arriving late, my button on my dress had fell off.... omg I that it was all disaster I said if all these things are going wrong maybe it's a sign that I shouldn't get married, My mom heard that and went into a panic, she was like do you want me to have a heart attack are you crazy we spend to much money for this wedding.... so I told no mom I don't want you to have a heart attack calm down. She went to my husband and told him what I said and he started panicking it was just crazy...... So I told all of them If YOU DON'T LEAVE ME ALONE I AM NOT MARRYING ANYONE>>>>> so it was time for me t walk down the isle and everyone was scared that I wasn't coming but of course I did ..... he i got to my husband he said we really gave them a scare I was like yup now they know that were meant to be 2get her..... See we had planned that whole little ordeal because everyone thought that me and my hubby wasn't a good couple....... we showed them LOL ... we've been together for 7 years and have 2 beautiful daughters.... so good luck on your wedding it will be wonderful....
2006-10-06 03:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by tee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so normal... I got married in July and I felt as if I was going to be sick right before I walked down the aisle. Just take a deep breathe and keep breathing at a steady pace. If you still feel bad just look at your husband and only him.. than remember why you are marrying him and your worries should go away!! Best of Luck!
2006-10-06 03:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by atc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was way too busy to be nervous. I didn't even have time to think about cleaning the house!
Good luck and I'm sure you'll be fine! Everyone of us has been nervous or stressed. Besides the hard part (planning) is over, now it's time for fun!
2006-10-06 03:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like others have said previous to me settle down and realise that even if you do blow a line nobody will notice as they are there to watch you celebrate your day. Enjoy the day and congrats on your wedding. As far as what to do to help you settle your nerves wish I could be a help but cannot as I think it is only natural for people to have jitters on their wedding day.
2006-10-06 03:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worried about that for about 2 seconds and then I realized if anything like that did happen, it would be sooo funny and we would remember it forever...as a good memory! Its things like that that make the day extra special. When we were announced the guy who married us said the wrong last name! It was soooo funny! All the guests just died laughing...I'm glad it happened!
Good luck today and congrats!!! It truly is the best day of your life!
2006-10-06 03:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋