2006-10-06 01:05:38 · 36 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Changes are taking place all the time in life. Sometimes its in the way you're thinking - think positive and you'll see the good things. Think negative and you see the bad. If you've had a tough time then surely good times are just around the corner.
2006-10-06 01:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You give no details of your age or your challenges.
The only thing that changes in life is your attitude about life. We have a saying in our family, life sucks then you die.
To us that means, yeah it sucks, so whine alittle and then get busy dealing with it. There are no promises in life, and sometimes it seems like its one awful thing right after another. Alot of people will tell you, think about how bad it is for others, and while appropriate, we all know we are selfish little beings and being grateful for what we have is hard for us.
My advice to you is this. Life doesn't owe you a darn thing except death. What you do with your time is up to you. You can either acknowledge that some things suck and sometimes suck really badly (say as if you were the parent of one of the several children that have been murdered this week), but time moves on for us and heals. Every thing that happens to you is an opportunity. Your personal character will determine whether or not you use that opportunity to a good purpose.
So the answer is no, life never changes, but you can.
2006-10-06 01:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest answer is NO, everyone goes through alot. That's what we call LIFE. The only way not to let it get the best of you is not dwell on the bad that has happened, but focus on any good in your life. Another way to make yourself appreciate the life you have is take a look at the people around you, in this world, I promise, someone is always worse off than you, no matter how big you think they are, someone Else's are bigger. Learn to deal with the bad in a positive way, everything happens for a reason, and good will always come in some form or fashion for those who are good. Bad happens to everyone, just know you are not alone, Sorry you feel so bad, just be strong, and take care of you! Have a good day, really!
2006-10-06 01:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is what you make it - it is not a dress rehearsal, it is the real thing and you only get one go at it. It is what you make it. You can sit back and wait for things to happen or come to you, but it is highly likely that you will be disappointed. I have read your previous questions, at least 20 or so, and you appear to be a deep, sad, and somewhat confused individual. May I respectfully suggest that you get up off your ar*se and do something worthwhile. You say you are a Superman - well do something, don't just sit around thinking of the past. Start to think of the future and what it might bring if you help it on its way.
2006-10-06 01:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 and I still go thur sooo much! I don't think it ends I just think it gets better to deal with. You start looking at things different. You learn to let somethings go and learn to deal with some. It's life!!! I know it seems not fair, but it only makes us stronger. Trust me. It won't stop it justs get easier with age! All though life always will have ups and downs! Just pick and choose what is important to worry about! The rest just let it roll off!
Wishing you the Best,
Always Amy
2006-10-06 01:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will
Think postive even when negative starts to get in your way
See life is balance so good eventually comes your way
when we go through the worst all we have left is the good
like the saying what goes around come around postive people dont stay down for to long
2006-10-06 01:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by druisnasty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully not We are all the product of our experiences. Think of your family, friends, lovers... the people you've met and those you've yet to meet. Life is an adventure and a challenge.. some of it is and will be, heart-breaking, but some of it is white-knuckle ride through uncharted territories! Carpe Diem ( seize the day ) and i promise you that you ill enjoy your life to the utmost. Go for it...you only get one chance at it!! X
2006-10-06 01:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the experiences we face in life are what make us who we are. so take those tough times you've been through and redirect the feelings yoiu have about these experience in a positive way. i can't say that they'll ever change bc you are the one who makes your future. it depends on if your old enough to be on your own or not. keep your chin up and your head high. think positive and positive will happen for you. Good Luck
2006-10-06 01:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by gardener24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you are lucky. Lucky enough to go thru it all and still here. Stronger thru the test of time as they say. You have been in it coz ur strong enough to pass it all.. I bet other pipol can't handle all that you hav been thru.. As long as you keep on fighting lifes challenges, never giving up, someday you aould have happiness.. Remember, after the rain, the sun shines...
2006-10-06 01:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by sweetangel_theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, we all go through tough times. Let me guess, are you not getting enough support and encouragement? My advice from years of miserable experience is to ditch the family and run like the wind!!!
2006-10-06 01:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋