i am a boy my age 21 .i love a girl.she loves me .we want to marriage but our parents are not allowed to our marriage .because she is my realtive duaghter .but she love me.and i love her .i marry with her .otherwise i cant marry with one girl.plz help me take me advice .......................plz..........i requestevery deeply.
2006-10-06 01:15:11 · 18 answers · asked by SENTY 1984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Before you take any drastic steps plz do take care of your English then probably you are ready for marriage , what have u been trying to explain ?? Very difficult to understand your Question...
2006-10-06 01:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are a young man of 21, not a boy! How old is the girl and how close of a relative is she? In the USA, I believe you are allowed to marry a 3rd cousin. But to be on the safe side, check the laws. But I'd try to find someone else besides a relation to marry, Are you sure it's not infatuaton?
2006-10-06 01:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey dont be so desperate. You are just 21 and since there are some issues here - I suggest both of you give your love some more time.
Both can concentrate more on studies and career for a change. If say two years down the line you share the same feelings then go ahead.
2006-10-06 01:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So essentially what you are saying is that you want to marry one of your relatives? I hope I'm getting the wrong impression. The parents aren't allowed to come to the ceremony because she is your relative's daughter? What relative's daughter is she. Is she a biological relative, or is she a relative by marriage? What? Next time be sure to use spell check. Is she blood related to you in any way at all?
2006-10-06 01:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there
i think you should sit down with yuor parents n really discuss the situation throughly so u can really understand them.i know you love each other very much but you must really question your actions before you do anything to anger your family and also loose the woman of your dreams.take it slow but carefuly so that you can truly determine if this marriage is worth it
besides you are young so you may meet some1 you truly would love
2006-10-06 01:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by miz dazzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play with ur life.no one who loves u can stand it.be careful.do u think marrying with ur realtive duaghter is good?make them understand that love is the most important thing in a married life.pray to god. best of luck.
2006-10-06 01:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by nit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its best to let this one go first of all your related aren't there laws about marrying a relative ? second of all your young you can find someone better suited for you and third her parents are unhappy you want your wedding to be out of joy try to move on find some one else!
2006-10-06 03:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...i've never heard of something like this. it seems like you're really in love....i believe that you should sit down with your parents, and hers, and tell them how you feel about it. and it really doesnt matter if your parents approve or not..your over 18, you can legally choose to marry who you want. but its good that you are trying to respect ya'lls parents wishes..good luck, and let me know how this turns out.
2006-10-06 01:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are other fishes in the pond. try your luck somewhere else buddy. after all why you are after your cousin ? love her as a brother then no body is going to stop you.
2006-10-06 03:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by nsk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean?? she is your cousin???
if so, its legal to marry your cousin (in UK)
im sorry you aint made much sense, thats all i can give ya untill you write it properly. no offence, i just dont understand what u r saying very well.
2006-10-06 01:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋