How do I "pleasure" my husband better?

Question

I allready do a good "job" but I want to do a great "job" any man out there got suggests for me?

Answer 1

Give him a 3am Wake Up Call:
The only thing better than receiving oral sex is receiving oral sex unaware. In the middle of the night when your partner is soundly sleeping, roll over and let your hands wander. Softly stroke your honey's body with your fingertips. The element of surprise needn't be a rude awakening. Or, for those who are more adventurous, scoot your way down the bed and try some oral awakening. Being sucked from a soft position is very sexy and enjoyable for both of you, gently massage /fondle his balls as you lightly lick or suck your way up the shaft to the head of his penis. If he's still not ready, put the length of his penis in your mouth and gently suck. Be gentle and enjoy the feeling of his penis as it becomes harder in your mouth. Once he is ready and probably starting to awaken, climb on top of him. Insert his now hard penis inside you and ride him hard. When you’re done roll off like nothing happened and just let him drift back into dreamland, you know it’s you he’ll be dreaming of. This tip can work both ways; guys you can surprise her during sleep too.

Answer 2

Sounds to me like you may be having a manic episode, it could be bad and it could be good, you want to do better, try to fit in school, work and husband and you want to please him more. You do not need to do anything, try harder or do better! Relax and just go with the flow all is well and happening the way it is supposed to be. "The essence is at ease" remember?

Pleasure is a two person deal you can do and do and do but if the other person isn't up to it or in the mood then it will be hard pleasuring someone that isn't into it at that time. Timing is everything! Try having some compassion and draw him a candle light bath or take him on a last minute picnic before winter hits us. Try getting some Kama Sutra oils and give him a "full" body massage.

Answer 3

I have a very specific example of someones hubby I am jealous of. Now, I love my husband - we've been married almost 12 years, and lord knows we both have faults. Ok, specific example. I was very involved in the music at my church for christmas. I had several rehearsals. One was scheduled right after mass one sunday. I had told my husband about this, but he forgot and threw a tantrum about having to stay and told me he'd wait 15 minutes MAX! So, this lady I go to church with (her and her husband are around my age - 30ish) her husband is just chill, he waits when she needs him to. Will come early to church for her to rehearse and not be upset- or wait late. He actually offered to take me home if it was an issue (this whole thing was horribly embarrassing for me). My husband is cool with stuff like this, but if he has a plan in his head for the day "you can't upset the plan." And, he had forgotten about this so I was upsetting the plan. I know this whole thing is silliness, but this is a perfect example of what I see and can say wow - I wish my hubby was like that. Not looks or anything like that - have never even thought of that, but patience understanding etc. My husband is, but sometimes not as much and he has horrible timing with it when he chooses not to be. My hubby's brother is also very good at helping around the house, opposite of my hubby. I always tell his wife she's lucky. Now I think I'm also extremely lucky as well - but in other ways - you know? You're totally right to say "how would she know?" because I see these things that are great, but there could be other things that aren't - I don't know, but I think that's the point.

Answer 4

Buy a karma sutra book.

There's also a little trick that involves first putting ice in your mouth then after a while sip some warm water...I will say no more but i'm told the sensations are fabulous!

;-)

Answer 5

Watch some porn with him, and see what his response is to what you are viewing, once you have a hint, imitate the act that he seemed to get turned on by the most. Hey, he might learn some things you like as well. Good luck!

Answer 6

Do not *****, whine, or complain if it needs to be done just do try that for a month or two, in the mean pretend its the 1950's great him with a smile supper ready, and naked at bed at night.

Answer 7

Pay attention. Remember that FRICTION and teeth are your enemy.

lots of spit for lube. try deepthroating but practice on a carrot or something first so that you don't puke on him.

remember that a good firm grip is what you want. Not your hand sliding up and down on his skin, the skin should move with your hand.

also, my personal fav is to put it between her boobs and fook her mouth. Very hot.

Answer 8

Invite one of your GF's home for a 3 some!

Answer 9

Just let go of all your inhibitions! Have hot, sweaty, monkey sex. Be very vocal. Tell him what you like and how much he turns you on. Feed his ego. Most of all enjoy yourself, men want to know that they are pleasing their woman.

Answer 10

Teeth; however, severing the organ would be considered "too much teeth".