Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

I had a child when I was 19, forced to give her up for adoption. I have now located her and she does not want to meet me. Why?

2006-10-04 03:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by troopergirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have 4 children and he is abusive mostly to me but has started lashing out at the kids as well. I want him to go but that means we would have to sell our investment property which means my brother who rents it would be homeless. He also has to be the one to leave as the home we are living in belongs to my mum and she lives in a granny flat out the back. The problem is that he wont go and i dont want to involve the police because i would feel terrible. I know my childrens safety should come first and i do protect them but i still have alot of sympathy for him even though he doesnt deserve it. How do i get him out of my house without involving the police or making him angry and what do i do about my poor brother? I am just a big screw up and now everyone else is suffering because of me..please help

2006-10-04 03:10:49 · 22 answers · asked by z1280374 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 03:10:37 · 4 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im getting a tattoo that is 1 inch in width and 10 inches in hight. i dont know if im being over prised or not. comments pls.

2006-10-04 03:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by mikee g 2 in Family

weekends too. We went from having a very loving and passionate relationship to him coming home and not even talking. I appreciate him working but it is causeing problems for us. I moan that I cant see him and not too mention we are having issues with my son (his step son). He says Im always complaining and he things my parenting is not good dealing with this rut but I am trying! Is there anyhting I can do? I have tried writing him little love notes, sending him sweet emails. I know I need to stop giving him grief, I just miss him and our relationship we had. I just dont understand how he has changed so much so drastically. I know working will do that but he seems to have no intrest in me right now. Makes me sad. Do I sound selfish? THnaks. I really want to work this out.

2006-10-04 03:10:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 03:09:49 · 31 answers · asked by smileeverlasting 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How their are so many rude, inconsiderate people there are out in this world? Especially on chat sites?
I was on a chat site, actually it was for yahoo, and of course I get an IM from some guy. I was like umm...okay hi. We were talking and all of a sudden the topic of my adoption came up.(Dont ask how,it just did) and he asked me why was I adopted...I told him that my dad was a major alchoholic and druggie, and was very abusive-both physically and sexually. He actually had the nerve to ask-"well was it pleasurable?" I was like WHAT? Excuse me? You did not just say that...

But he did and then this scum bag thinks its funny that I was raped by my father, and I was just so hurt and upset that this is why i ask this question....
Is it true that there really are these types of people out there in the world that simply just do not have any feelings whatsoever?
Is it true that this world is really this harsh?

I know its a cruel world out there, but isnt this a little to much?

2006-10-04 03:09:25 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have found out that the male friends of this girl I am going on a date with don't like me. They'v been calling me n stuff without knowing anything about me. Is this gonna cause a problem or is it just a bit of jealousy? Oh n whats a good first date in a small town with not much to do? Bowling? Cinema?

2006-10-04 03:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by forshow 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 03:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's b-day was yesterday & I didn't know what to get him so I did something I thought he would love. I'm quite reserved in bed so this was out there for me. I bought him a pair of sexy boxers and a skimpy nightie for me. I put the boxers in a gift bag along with a can of whipped cream along with a beautiful card and a naughty note and left it on the bed. Then I went to shower and shave down south (something he has told me he really likes) and slipped on the nightie. (This was all the night before his b-day). Found him in bed and he said that he liked the gift but he was extremly tired and asked that we wait until the next night (his b-day) I was disappointed but agreed because I knew he had, had a rough day at work. So his b-day I had to go to the store around 9pm and when I got back he had the kids in bed already and asked if I was ready to go to bed which is usually the signal for 'I wanna play'. So I quickly get the house locked up and get ready for bed.

2006-10-04 03:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She just copies and pastes the same answer over and over. How dumb, be original. That's what it's all about, true, come from the heart answers.

2006-10-04 03:07:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

posted a question last night ( you can click on my name to go see this question if you want :P ) in short a freind of ours helped out my son at the playground when he didnt really need the help. my main question was ( and i am sorry for not posting it correctly ) should i be upset for the way she spoke to my boyfreind? ( my sons father ) after her leaving the bench we were all sitting at , helping my 4 year old son when he didnt need it she came back to the bench. my boyfreind told her that our son could of helped himself. ( my son even whimpered a little after - as if to say " i want to do it! " )she b1tched at us for " be lazy ". ( i have a broken foot and use crutches ) she really focused her crap on my boyfriend though. the two of them pretty much fought about the situation for about twenty minutes. my boyfreind has raised my son for 4 years and has done a great job. she just totally embarresed him in public, told him he was a bad father, and even tried telling him how to better take care of OUR son. should i be upset at this freind? or should i just let it go?

2006-10-04 03:07:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Where do all the American women go in central London. I know where the English ones are.

2006-10-04 03:06:29 · 16 answers · asked by madnesscon 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 03:06:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if you have a secret that your partner doesnt know about.If you tell them,you could definately lose that person.But you know that the truth is the right thing.This secret could definately come out eventually.What would u do?Lie or tell the truth and risk the chance of losing your one true love?An example could be cheating on that person.

2006-10-04 03:06:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please provide me with a name. a friend of mine is having a baby and cant figure out what to name her.

2006-10-04 03:06:01 · 9 answers · asked by stipid h 1 in Friends

There is this guy i like and i maen we have gone out before for like 3 months but i still want him and he's moved on is there anything i can do to like get him back???

2006-10-04 03:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by Mary G 2 in Singles & Dating

Do they not like women their own age? Why does a guy who is 30 think it's right to date someone who is 20? What is up with that? A girl who is 20 has so much less to talk about then a woman who is 30. It must just all be about sex. Boring perves!

2006-10-04 03:05:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is kinda hard to answer cause it depends on how he looks, too. The reason why I am asking is because I have them and i get a 50-50 reaction to them. Some girls really like it some see it bad. I am not a "wigger" by the way. I grew up as an army brat and lived with all groups throughout the US. However, I do dress urban(i wear jordans,tims, enyce, southpole, etc.). I was just wondering your thoughts.

2006-10-04 03:05:38 · 7 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Singles & Dating

the guys are 12-14 and they used to chat with me but when i told them I like someone else they won't caht with me anymore?

2006-10-04 03:05:32 · 3 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i split up a few months ago after being together for a year and a half. We were best friends, and engaged. I have sinced booked my flight home (he is english, i am australian), and i leave next wednesday.
But now we have worked things out, realised they we both got cold feet and scared, and now we are more in love than ever. We decided that i would still go home, we would both have some time to ourselves, and then hopefully he would come over in a few months.
I've applied for a new job at home, told everyone i'm coming, put in my tax claim already (so i legally CAN"T work any longer), but he wants me to stay another couple of months to make sure. I don't think there's any point (and no offense to londoners, but i can't wait to get home!).
There's so many more details and little nuances to add, but that's the gist of it. Please help!

2006-10-04 03:05:24 · 27 answers · asked by ~ Cat ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I accidentally ripped a big one in class where there was a hot guy I like. That was very embarrasing. I didn't talk to the guy at all. I really want to get to know him better but after the incident? What would you do if you were me?

2006-10-04 03:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has been caught in 5 major lies by me in the last year. At the end of each fight I ask her " is there anything else I should know about?" each time she answered no . She knows I ALWAYS find out later , but she still insist on lieing to me . Should I continue to try and trust her or just give up?

2006-10-04 03:03:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I accidentally ripped a big one in class where there was a hot guy I like. That was very embarrasing. I didn't talk to the guy at all. I really want to get to know him better but after the incident? What would you do if you were me?

2006-10-04 03:03:21 · 5 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Friends

I accidentally ripped a big one in class where there was a hot guy I like. That was very embarrasing. I didn't talk to the guy at all. I really want to get to know him better but after the incident? What would you do if you were me?

2006-10-04 03:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 03:02:44 · 2 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee just broke up with me last night. She told me she still loves me, but that right now she doesn't have time for a relationship, and that she has felt weighed down ever since I proposed. I asked her if she needed some space, or some time to work things out, and she said no, it was just better if she quit. She said she still wants to be in my life. The problem is, I am never going to be able to just be friends, and as long as I know she still loves me, I am going to be able to settle. So, my question is, should I wait for the woman I think I am meant to be with, or do I tell her that it would be better if we didn't talk for a while?

2006-10-04 03:02:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im looking for either jennifer mofford,mofford was her maiden name or aley mofford,sometimes goes by alex.Jennifer is 34 and aley is 17.aley is my daughter and the last I know they were in fort wayne,in if you can help at all please do.if needed my email is porkchophaynes0206@yahoo.com

2006-10-04 03:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by porkchophaynes0206 3 in Family

Well, I have been in a realationship for about a year now. And it has been one hell of a year. I moved to Texas and away from all of my family. My boyfriend has bi-polar and its hard for us to even communicate. If i say one thing he gets pissed off. I try and help him understand things in an adult perspective but he just starts cussing and yelling at me. He constantly asks people who he does not know(random people from the street) about us. The only time he is happy is when we are having sex. He demands sex everyday when i get home from work (did I mention he does not work)and I have explained that is does not happen that way....then he has the guts to tell me that he his going to find someone on the side that will do that. He has put me and my family down many times. It seems like I am worthless and not doing anything for him to be satisfied. So what should I do? I love this man. But I am getting really tired. Help!

2006-10-04 03:02:15 · 5 answers · asked by lovelylatina_15 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Come on, fess up. I'm surprised to find I love my unborn baby. Who do YOU love???

2006-10-04 03:01:26 · 1 answers · asked by crazychick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships