Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

He's a fantastic guy (at least I think so), but left his wife of 9 years to be with me. The divorce was only final last month & we got engaged a few weeks before it was finalized (although haven't told anyone). He has a 4 yr old & a baby only a few months old. I'm 7 years younger with no children (and no desire to have my own, at least not for several years). I came out of a BAD abusive relationship before I was with him. Now the kids come every other weekend to our new house & I'm really frustrated. They jump on the (brand new) furniture and I guess just act like kids. But he lets them jump on the couches, beds, and even throw balls, toys inside. I have never done this stuff and don't want it done in my house. But they aren't my kids and I don't feel it's my place to correct them. Also, how do I even bring it up? I'm afraid of hurting his feelings if I start questioning his parenting skills. Also, the ex is such a sensitve subject - how do i bring up things related to her

2006-09-28 10:31:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and i have done some sexual things in the past few weeks, and we were trying to think of tips on how to have anal sex easier, as not to get her pregnant. Is there anything besides lotion that helps me to enter her easier?

We've tried this twice, and I can only get about 1/2 of my thing in, but she seems to enjoy it mostly. It does hurt though when i enter (i was never circumcised)

2006-09-28 10:30:42 · 15 answers · asked by cmart009 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard my husband tell his friends that when he gets good profit from his business he would get me out of his life.All because I did not lend him £30

2006-09-28 10:30:18 · 64 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i are legally married a week and told our families we were engaged not to disappoint them. And we planned on just having a wedding cermony where both families could come and then being none the wiser. But i just found out at a regular check up that i am almost 2 months pregnant?Walking down the asle pregnant?good idea or bad he wants to plan a wedding for no later that december!Does the catholic church allow pregnant woman to get married pregnant?

2006-09-28 10:29:56 · 23 answers · asked by kelly v 1 in Weddings

We are really close friends but he has a girlfriend in Florida. He doesn't even live there!!!!

2006-09-28 10:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy Bitch 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 10:28:40 · 4 answers · asked by cassandra o 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 10:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by farty 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 10:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by huskeyhips 1 in Singles & Dating

So here i am at the interview and they asked me to fill out this here piece of paper. It wants people to be references for me and I suddenly blanked on names! The only person I can think of is Tommy ( I think that was his name) who jumped over me with his dirtbike last year, but i dont know where he is now. I guess there were those guys who covered me with mustard, but I caint tell if they liked me.

2006-09-28 10:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by jeff p 1 in Friends

I had a discution with some friends saying they dont have sex with there wives enough. One friend said "I just want a normal sexual relationship" and I asked "what makes us think we arnt in a normal sexual relationship?" We dont know. Then I though I should ask...

"How offten is it normal to make love when your have been married for a while"?
Please be totally honest.
(I cant ask the guys because they all exagerate ;o) ) P

2006-09-28 10:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by flyboy_447 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 10:26:50 · 54 answers · asked by L.R.O. 3 in Family

In total we have hung out like 5 times within the past month. We have been physically being together as well everytime we see eachother, except for the first time. We really have a good time together and have even recently talked about really makin eachother happy and all of that. This past weekend I went over, and I asked him when we were in bed if he was sleeping witha nyone else, because I was really curious. He said he was sleeping with a couple people and the last time was a few days prior. I got really upset about this, even though I know it has only been over a month, but I just felt like he wasnt sleeping with anyone else. We got in a bit of a fight about it because I really got hurt. I have been putting my time and effort into only him, and I really do like him. Do you think I overreacted? Should I be mad about this?

2006-09-28 10:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my b/f of 6mnths and we've had sex like over 100 times. every month i worry about if i pregnant. my mom finally put me on b/c. but i don't know if we are taking it to fast. HELP!!!!!!!

2006-09-28 10:26:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy_hunter 2 in Singles & Dating

Some women made some subtle and blatant rude comments or sarcasim when I told them I did date other races before. Needless to say, they didn't last long.

2006-09-28 10:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5 in Singles & Dating

need has any of you sold the kitty to meet that need at any time in the past?

2006-09-28 10:25:33 · 2 answers · asked by Beaujock 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay like some of you have heard that this girl invited me to a football game. So i invite her to this place a church party thing and says she couldent go because she couldent get a ride. I give her my cell if she ever wanted to do something she hanst called yet and that was like 3 days ago. And now she asks me for a picture of me from picture day. What is this?

2006-09-28 10:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i just found out that the girl off my dreams whom i thought i could trust more then anybody kissed a good friend of mine. No sex just a second lip lock. She says shes sorry and it ment nothing and it was i mistake. She tells me she dont know why she did it. If the story that i have hierd is 100% true it has nothing to do with him ---- him as in my friend she kissed. My piont is i dont fell the same way about her now i fell betrayed. I look at her in a whole new way. Is this cheating and will i ever fell the same way about her. ------- ps thanx for your time!

2006-09-28 10:24:37 · 29 answers · asked by nighthawk_revelations 2 in Singles & Dating

Now this should be a good one. Yes i know its in singles and dating but who looks in the pet section normally?

2006-09-28 10:24:32 · 30 answers · asked by dunc 3 in Singles & Dating

When did they start feeling comfotable letting you drive to the mountains or the city? When did they really seem to just fully give you freedom? I'm 18 and I still live with my parents. They have certainly let go on a LOT of things but there are still areas they need to let go with. I'm just wondering how long it will take for them to let go more.

2006-09-28 10:24:07 · 7 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family

2006-09-28 10:23:39 · 18 answers · asked by lilnewyork5 1 in Singles & Dating

even if there child tells them?

Even tho is so such much evidence it is an inside job.

http://www.infowars.com

I am a CHRISTIAN and THANK GOD I am not decieved,

Bush is a devil worshipper skull and bones member, hiding behind the christian faith to decieve the american publuc and its working.

2006-09-28 10:23:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the most exciting thing a woman could do to you or let you doto her in the bed room and why

2006-09-28 10:23:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hes 20 and I'm 26. Now whats the pros and cons of such relationship?

2006-09-28 10:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 10:22:15 · 29 answers · asked by KayAlley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 10:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

im like going crazy i have been hyper all day what do i do???

2006-09-28 10:20:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 10:20:12 · 30 answers · asked by Greg L 1 in Weddings

how many of you married couples still hold hands when you are out together?

would you be hurt if your husband wasnt into holding hands?

2006-09-28 10:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Help me to chose a platform and a name to my will-be blog!

First, help me to make a name:
my blog will be saying something like: "what should i tell my son?",
and it is a kind of a "true-man" vision blog; as my son is getting 3 years old, he keeps asking questions such as: why, when, and what, and while those are answerable questions, in the perfect world i mean, they don't very much sound like answerable in here where we live, or rather they, i mean those questions start with the 3Ws, they search for an honest answer to tell my son, while having in my mind i am deciding much of his future perceptions! yet also, emotions and morals :"/

Second, help me to find a Blog:
a platform to subscribe to that i can have enough people who are responsible and responsive, people who care and care!
In both Arabic and English.

The idea all came to my mind after the frequent questions of my son asking "why", and in Egypt you kindaof do not know what to say to just be honest!
Especially with the world path these days and on!
It seems like no one cares here!

:) i yet, want to know: what should i tell my son?

give me a good hand with this please!

2006-09-28 10:19:28 · 1 answers · asked by BORAT 1 in Family

people,so what do you think?In your opinion where do you think the best looking people in the world are from?I know theres good looking people everywhere but in your opinion

2006-09-28 10:18:34 · 29 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating