Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

Honestly, if you're not into someone anymore, why not just tell them? Being dumped hurts a lot less than being dumped AND not even getting the satisfaction of closure.

I'm just wondering what the rationale behind this is.

2006-09-26 13:33:32 · 9 answers · asked by Deleted 6 in Singles & Dating

oki
i'm so confused, there's this guy and i was so sure that he liked me because at that time i didn't like him but now i like him and i'am not sure if he does!!!!!
when i didn't like him, he used to smile at me and hold my gaze, he used to try to get closer towards me and he used to make small conversation.
but the problem now is....he only tries to make small conversation's with me!!!!
does he still like me!?

2006-09-26 13:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im usually an fairly outgoing person who can talk to lots of people, but when it comes to talking to girls im a lot quieter until i get to know them better. Would you still date a guy like that?

2006-09-26 13:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by maddencursevictim266267 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you get over an attraction that is getting serious while you are recently dated someone? i want to stop it before i mess up, what do i do i see this kid everyday and i can't stop thinking about him and he is attracted to me too, he knows i have a boyfriend but he is promising me the world, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i met this guy like 2 months ago, i don't know what to do, i don't want to act on impulse, but it is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-26 13:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

look, me and my friend have been best friends since the third grade and ever since up to now we are stronger than two metal chains. anway, the thing its not that i dont except him. i do and i will always be his friend. but i was told that being gay is wrong and i aint worrying about him changing because he is still gonna be that way tomorrow. now i feel bad because of all this. i should go read my bible. gosh.

2006-09-26 13:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by shanice 3 in Friends

We were seperated since March, & divorced in July. We have no kids, but I went through a painful divorce since she insisted on it. I remember begging her so much to give me a second chance since I had anger issues & promised I will change, but no use. She also thought we couldnt understand each other. She made me go through hell, & resulted in a painful divorce for me.

Just met her dad yesterday, & he explained how miserable she is right now. Told me about how her friends were using her, & how she changed the job that I hated so much. She doesnt tell him if she misses me or not, but both her mom & dad can realize that she is sad & that she wants her old life back. Ex wife contacted me recently as well, since she knew I was leaving town. She was acting sweet & telling me that she always cared about me.

In the end, her dad asked me to try & get close to her again & reestablish the relationship. He wishes that we remarry.

I still do love her, but its really hard to forgive & forget.

2006-09-26 13:30:13 · 24 answers · asked by Zwerg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Denver would like to communicate as a beginning of a friendship that would not be as complicated as the way I worded this question so I would maybe not get it deleted?

2006-09-26 13:29:52 · 2 answers · asked by secret>I.D. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 13:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-26 13:29:47 · 9 answers · asked by Clarkie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi im in high school (i am a sophmore) and i like this freshman girl but i dont know what are the right words to say to her. i feel shy everytime i go to her and she feels the same too. and some idiots even say that i love her and i wanna go out with her, but im not ready for that. I just want to get to know her better. What should i say to make her notice or like me? please help me out here. sorry if the question sounds stupid and all.

2006-09-26 13:29:25 · 3 answers · asked by Miracleman! 1 in Singles & Dating

I always dream that I will get a sincere , loving man as my partner in my life .In the meantime I also have a funny dream in my career that is become a success business woman in WALL STREET where I always hear from TV.but I live in asia ,and poor English, I hope it will become true in my next life.Can you share your dream? My yahoo friends?

2006-09-26 13:27:18 · 7 answers · asked by li y 2 in Singles & Dating

Since quitting drinking 7 mths ago I dont go out that much now but when I do it just feels completely alien approaching girls. I really dont want to start drinking again but this is the longest ever I've gone without a g/f. It just never feels like the right time. Any ideas??

2006-09-26 13:26:27 · 19 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

b/c 2-day I sat down during our break 2 read,& their guys came up
2 me and started flirting with me I didn't know they liked them, so natually I flirted back, then when my friends came the guys left,& my friends were mad @ me! How was I supposed 2 know that they liked thonse guys? And after school 1 of them asked me out! And now my friends are MADDER! AHH! WHAT DO??????

2006-09-26 13:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I meet this girl in the internet and she gave me her phone #. We manage to talk like 7 times in a month. However, she doesnt call me or tx msg me anymore unless i do it first. Last saturday she tx msg me asking if I wanted to do something that week, I said yes just let me know when you are available, she never call back until Monday and said that she wasnt sure about it because that was going to be a busy week for her, I said ok and she said she'll let me know. She called on Friday (9/22), she talk to me for one minute and a half, put me on hold and said listen "I'll have to call U back", today is tuesday 26 at night and she hadnt call or msg so far. Should i ask her if she still interested in me??. I'm sick and tired of playing her games and I just want her to be honest . She is a busy person, has 2 jobs, goes to school part time, but something is telling me that when she return my calls or my msgs is just to be nice and not because she really wants to talk to me. Should I ask her?

2006-09-26 13:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Kat fish 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been married for 9 years and at first sex was great but my wife claims medicl reasons for not having sex. She has no desire and we havent had sex for 3 years. Havent even kiss for at least that long.She says she dosent care if i go elsewhere but I ant good meeting women just for sex. HELP ME

2006-09-26 13:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by Doc-joe-cool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is amazing sweet sophisticated...everything. he takes me to all the nice places does all of these nice things for me. I am still taken back by all of it bc I have never been treated this way. I don't have any money really bc im a poor poor college girl while he is older and has a career already. what can I do for him to repay him for all he has done for me. guys...what would you LOVE for your girl to do for you.

2006-09-26 13:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes the most popular girl in school, and im a punk. whut do i do?

2006-09-26 13:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by Imnotverysmart 1 in Friends

There's this guy at my school and he has a girlfriend who has long hair . When she's around the guy he' s always around her but when she's not around his always hitting on another girl now tell me do u think thats fake

2006-09-26 13:22:53 · 5 answers · asked by Peyton J 1 in Singles & Dating

she's the most popular girl in school, and im a punk, whut do i do?

2006-09-26 13:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by Imnotverysmart 1 in Friends

I think I have developed an unhealthy relationship with a friend of mine. He likes to try to set me up -- but also likes to become the gateway. That is to say, he wants to set me up but does *not* provide the phone numbers of the women involved. It becomes a dependency. He said he hates to be in the middle but does very little to get out of the middle.

There was a girl who wanted to meet and be with me in July. He gave her my phone numbers, but I never got hers. He keeps saying she should give them to me. This has been dragging on for almost three months without any resolution. I am going out of whats left of my mind. He doesn't seem to make any effort to get us together. I hate being in limbo. She made me break up with someone to be with her and I haven't seen her either.

2006-09-26 13:21:39 · 8 answers · asked by TheSkeptic 3 in Singles & Dating

I SERIOUSLY want to know why. I'm not ugly, nor fat, and i just wanna know from (guys) what may be some reasons no guy likes me.

2006-09-26 13:21:32 · 5 answers · asked by a 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 13:21:03 · 18 answers · asked by Ro¥al Tree® 3 in Singles & Dating

Fay

2006-09-26 13:20:45 · 22 answers · asked by xoheather92ox 1 in Family

As women we have this unspoken rule between us, or at least I thought we did, I just want to see if it applies to every woman.

2006-09-26 13:20:14 · 4 answers · asked by hawkespatricia 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when someone of the opposite sex shakes your hand and takes their middle finger and tickles the palm of your hand?

2006-09-26 13:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by 10 pts for me? 4 in Friends

I was recently dumped. She left me for another guy after 3.5 years. I suffered for weeks in pain and I am still angry and depressed. I watched her being happy and really liking this guy. Last weekend she gave in and had sex with him. I don't know if this is true, to be honest I think they did it last week. Anyways, he won't call her and wont tm her now. Part of me is as happy as can be but the other part of me is sad for her????? I love her so much that I want her to be happy with another guy? Is this normal? I know it will never work out for us, but she caused me so much pain. Someone tell me what to do...............

2006-09-26 13:19:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved to a new state from my own this is where my in laws live. My inlaws are crappy. They have never in the 4 years that i have lived here once kept my children, called to come to get them to take anywhere, they are not like my parents who want to drive 3 hours to see my children, and they buy them things all the time, my inlaws do not purchase anything except on Christmas or Birthdays. My mother in law will not even come to our house and she tells my sister in law that she just wishes she would have a baby so she could be a grandmother. She has my children, who are her sons who I am married to. She and my hubby have never had a good relationship, but she is taking it out on my children, they don't even really know my inlaws, and to make it worse, they live only 3 blocks away from our house. They don't seem to like their own son and they have started to have family get togethers with out us. What shoud I do? I feel horrible that my children don't get love from these people.

2006-09-26 13:19:29 · 19 answers · asked by Premo Mom 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

please explain so i can understand the answer.

2006-09-26 13:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Youre thinking, omg what the hell is he/she thinking? do you tell them, or just keep it to yourself?

2006-09-26 13:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you have to be a certain age to elop? If your under 18 do you need some sighned document?

2006-09-26 13:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating