my bf is amazing sweet sophisticated...everything. he takes me to all the nice places does all of these nice things for me. I am still taken back by all of it bc I have never been treated this way. I don't have any money really bc im a poor poor college girl while he is older and has a career already. what can I do for him to repay him for all he has done for me. guys...what would you LOVE for your girl to do for you.
2006-09-26 13:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like for my girl to change the oil on my car and do the occassional brake job.
2006-09-26 13:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation as you, and am now married to this wonderful man. I would often feel like I owed him or didn't have much to offer him.
What I could do for him was time-saving stuff. He was busy with work, so I could begin preparing our meals so he could come over and having a meal in progress. This also let him know that we didn't have to go out all the time. I would pick up take-out (usually paid for by him) and bring it to his work-site.
What I could also do for him was pampering. He LOVES my backscratches. I grab a pillow and put it on my lap for him when we curl up in front of a movie or a fireplace. I pay attention to his likes and dislikes, so I made sure I had his favorite foods or beverages on hand, or take care of the vegetable chopping while he grills. I even knew exactly which spots on his back were the most needy.
There are many ways to reciprocate kindnesses.
2006-09-26 20:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by katnkaboodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off congrats on finding a guy who treats you well, there doesn't seem to be many like that. Atleast not for me. Try to suprise him with something special I like the dinner idea, try wearing a nurse costume easily found during this time of year. Give him a nice bath, wash his back, then rub his back and his feet. Crass as it may sound my bf/x-bf/bf again seems to be into the swallowing idea. He truly doesn't deserve that so I won't do it. Maybe if he treated me a little better but your guy sounds like the catch of a lifetime, sounds like he would deserve it. Then you can try getting one of those books that shows you the most pleasurable places on the body as well as positions and other things you can do. Good luck I hope ya'll have a very memorable night.
2006-09-26 20:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring your best self to the relationship. You sound like a sweet person who any guy would love to take to nice places.
2006-09-26 20:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is for guys to answer but heres an idea..
take him on a romantic little picnic or somthing
1. it's cheap
2. it'll make him feel good that u want to be with him and that ur contributing in the relationship but in your own way.
2006-09-26 20:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I MAKE SURE THAT HE KNOWS HOW MUCH I APPRECIATE HIM IN EVERY WAY POSSIBLE. I AM SUPPORTIVE 100% OF EVERYTHING THAT HE DOES CURRENTLY AND ALL OF HIS LONG-TERM GOALS.
I AM FIRST AND FOREMOST, HIS FRIEND. A LOT OF MEN DON'T NEED A GIRLFRIEND ALL OF THE TIME, SOMETIMES THEY NEED US TO BE THEIR FRIENDS...LISTENING AND GIVING ADVICE...BEING A SHOULDER TO CRY ON, ETC. I THINK THAT IT IS VERY IMPORTANT THAT WE LEARN TO PLAY THESE ROLES AND EXPRESS OUR APPRECIATION BY GIVING THEM ALL THE LOVE AND ATTENTION THAT THEY NEED.
GIFTS AREN'T EVERYTHING AND I'M SURE THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND UNDERSTANDS YOUR CURRENT SITUATION AND LOVES AND APPRECIATES YOU, FOR WHO YOU ARE...IT SHOWS THROUGH THE WAY THAT HE TREATS YOU. IF HE DIDN'T CARE ABOUT YOU, THEN HE WOULDN'T BE WITH YOU. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-26 20:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats cute make him dinner in a cute outfit suprise him wit a cute note on his car so when he wakes up an goes to work he will c it
2006-09-26 20:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an education and help out with the bills,, really its a cool thing to do,, he'll love you for it,, all the other stuff he can get every where,,,
2006-09-26 20:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is all u need and the sense to show more and tell more
2006-09-26 20:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the things he'd be embarrassed to ask you to do...
Swallow.
Take it on the face.
Tell him to pull your hair or spank you.
2006-09-26 20:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋