Ive been married for 9 years and at first sex was great but my wife claims medicl reasons for not having sex. She has no desire and we havent had sex for 3 years. Havent even kiss for at least that long.She says she dosent care if i go elsewhere but I ant good meeting women just for sex. HELP ME
2006-09-26 13:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by Doc-joe-cool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the medical problem is serious, you gotta let this sex thing go. Sure married people have sex but there comes a time when it stops completely for whatever reason. Sometimes it's age and sometimes it's medical. For some, that time comes sooner than others. Just stick it out and find out what the problem is she has and work on it with her. If the sex is that important to you, all I can say is you got two hands. The kissing thing, I feel for you. You should at least get that. Unless the medical problem is in her lips, a peck won't hurt. Don't go to no other women. She does care, no matter what she says, and she'll bring it later in an argument if you do it.
GOOD LUCK AND I'M PRAYING FOR YOU BOTH!!!!
2006-09-26 13:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Tee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your wife to the Dr. I don't know how old you are or what happened, but she is shutting off all intimacy. SOmething is not right. Can you take her to the Dr. or can you go see a couples therapist?? Strange that she does not care if you go elsewhere, is there anything good in the marriage?? The issue is not just the sex, 3 years is a long time to not even kiss or be close. You guys need to seriously talk, there may be no fixing it, but both of you deserve to love and be loved.
2006-09-26 20:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, might help to see a doctor if there is a medical reason.
Then take a look at your self. Do you do things for her? Do you bath and brush your teeth? Do you need to fix YOU first?
Did you have an affair 3 years ago? Did she?
I am not being mean. She changed because of something!
But, get her and you to see a marriage counselor if you want to save this marriage, IF it can be saved..
You don't need to be trying to find a woman at this point. Work hard on this or dump it.
2006-09-26 20:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by jadamgrd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has ur wife ever told you what the medical reason was? If not u should ask her and if she doesn't tell you then she's just making up excuses i think. Plus if she told you to go somewhere else to get it then i personally think that there's some bigger issues there. Maybe this marriage with her isn't right for you, there's probably another girl out there who will treat you better than this.
2006-09-26 20:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by fira_kas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the medical problem she has? If it's serious, you'll have to suck it up and go without it for however long until it gets cured, if it can be cured. Then again, there's always Righty and Lefty.
She could at least give you a kiss, I feel you on that.
2006-09-26 20:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by D-Wizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats pretty *** of her. if its a legitimate medical reason then id understand no sex but really a kiss? thats bullshit. hate to break it to ya but i doubt she wants to be with you anymore if its been 3 years.
2006-09-26 20:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel , my husband hasa diebetaes, so things dont work either not for him, it gets very flustating , so i just daydream , im no good at cheating!sorry i was no help
2006-09-26 20:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by sissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm very sad about it mate.. try to find her problem,solve it and be faithful to her.. i m sure u ll enjoy ur life soon... all the best
2006-09-26 20:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by king of hearts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't belive that she would blame healt reasons and say go to other women. Stay faithful to your wife please do it!
2006-09-26 20:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go see mary palms
2006-09-26 20:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋