Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

2006-09-22 12:54:16 · 22 answers · asked by Not Your Average Banana 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in nursing school and work on the weekends.Thats pretty hard for me as it is. Me and my husband have four kids and they stay busy with school sports and other activites. He was the one that really was pushing for me to go to school. I told him that if I went to school he would have to really help out a lot around the house and with the kids. He agreed. but now that I am in school he wont help and I am finding it hard to find time to study enough time I need to.When I ask him to help he gets all angry and says that he has to do everything. But the only thing he does is mow the yard once a week. Got any tips to make him help out more. The biggest thing would be home work. 4 kids having home work takes along time. Anything around the house would help. The kids do help around the house but they are young so you have to right on top of them to make sure things get done right.

2006-09-22 12:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't had any luck with guys lately should I switch to girls?

2006-09-22 12:51:24 · 30 answers · asked by Marilyn M 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 years or maybe older than that and my boyfriend likes to do it further than its suppose to be and i dont know why.

2006-09-22 12:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by helen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 12:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by Wolfie 7 in Friends

I am trying to learn to trust him but it doesn't come easy...he says he loves me and I him...greatly...but I believe in adressing everything as it becomes an issue...and if he really loves me...answering wouldn't be a problem...or will I surely loose him from being like this...we aren't kids...we are in our 40's

2006-09-22 12:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well the guy i am prefering to is my crush and i wanted to give it a shot and I asked him out but he replied no.. but that was like 4 weeks ago.. now he stares at me like for a long time after that. Is he shy to talk to me or does he like me?

2006-09-22 12:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No family I can stay with, no friends who would have parents that would allow me to sleep at their place. What's the next option?

2006-09-22 12:46:38 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just feel way different than everyone at school. i don't have any close friends. i feel like i'm doing something wrong. like i'm missing some secret to making people like you. i'm normal size, not too tall or short or overweight. i dress in decent clothes, but i don't really care about fashion. i just want to be accepted by everyone so badly. this isn't a sob story, i just really need some help. my family is worried because they say that i have really bad depression and that my past issues with self harm on't do anything good for me. can everyone please give me some kind of advice? please?

2006-09-22 12:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-22 12:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by Peter P 2 in Family

i am a workaholic and i love what i do, i enjoy it, but when i have to go out with my friends i tend to make excuses because i feel guilty, whats wrong with me??

2006-09-22 12:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Friends

when u r into somebody and they are into u but yall both know they are always busy and dont have time for u and u only get to c each other on mondays and weekends and u really feeling them

2006-09-22 12:44:49 · 16 answers · asked by sexy_juicey_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

There are African Americans, Mexican Americans,
Asian Americans, Arab Americans, Native Americans,
etc.
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And then there are just Americans.
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You pass me on the street and sneer in my
direction. You call me "Whiteboy," "Cracker,"
"Honkey," "Whitey," "Caveman" and that's OK.
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But when I call you, ******, Kike, Towelhead,
Sand-******, camel Jockey, Beaner, ****, or Chink you
call me a racist.
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You say that whites commit a lot of violence
against you, so why are the ghettos the most dangerous
places to live?
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You have the United ***** College Fund.
You have Martin Luther King Day.
You have Black History Month.
You have Cesar Chavez Day.
You have Yom Hashoah
You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi
You have the NAACP.
You have BET.
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If we had WET(White Entertainment Television)
we'd be Racists.
If we had a White Pride Day you would call us
racists.
If we had White History Month, we'd be racists.
If we had any organization for only whites to
"advance" our lives, we'd be racists.
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We have a Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, a Black
Chamber of Commerce, and then we just have the plain
Chamber of Commerce.
Wonder who pays for that?
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If we had a college fund that only gave white
students scholarships, you know we'd be racists. There
are over 60 openly proclaimed Black Colleges in the
US, yet if there were "White colleges" that would be a
racist college.
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In the Million Man March, you believed that you
were marching for your race and rights.
If we marched for our race and rights, you would call
us racists.
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You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and
orange, and you're not afraid to announce it. But when
we announce our white pride, you call us racists.
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You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us. But,
when a white police officer shoots a black gang member
or beats up a black drug-dealer running from the law
and posing a threat to society, you call him a racist.
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I am proud. But, you call me a racist.
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Why is it that only whites can be racists?

2006-09-22 12:41:42 · 12 answers · asked by chad 1 in Friends

2006-09-22 12:38:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If man or woman is this wrong as far as judgement day!!!!

2006-09-22 12:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by suzanne c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a poor high school student! :(

2006-09-22 12:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by mighty_cuinn 1 in Singles & Dating

Rite heres my story:
I dont have a dad, i have 2 sisters and one brother who each have different fathers, my mum is an alcoholic, my stepdad was murdered, my brother is a drug addict and sleeps around, my younger sister is turning into a chav, only 3 of us have jobs (not paying well tho), i got my girlfriend pregnant at 16 and we have a baby boy called Leo, and to top it all i live in Birmingham.
I just dont understand why its me that has to be so common. i try not to be when i meet new people but they seem to see through. its really having a bad effect on my self confidence and love life. is there any way of becoming 'uncommon' or something? im just really depressed about it.

2006-09-22 12:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Brummie Geeza 3 in Family

After we had our first 2 base encounter, she got all weird asking " What did we do?" " what does it taste?" " Have u done this before?".......(by the way she was so bad that night that l deceided to have only oral sex with her, l dont know why but l refrained myself from having real sex), since that night l havent called her again, she's been calling me like crazy but l havent called her back and to get the things even worse l've had this horrible encounter on my mind for almost a whole month. ( In my opinion it was my worst Sex- encounter ever) What should l do? Is this part of life?

2006-09-22 12:34:21 · 16 answers · asked by -Vladimir- 2 in Singles & Dating

he doesnt have a job, isnt really looking that hard, poor cleaning skills around the house and he contributes o most of the stuff, sex has become selfish he gets his then it goes limp,doesnt take up alot of time with the kids there are two of them, hasnt taken me out on a date for almost three years if any then even when he did have a job, bad credit and continues to make it worse, enjoys his friends way more than he enjoy me, forgets to pick me up from work ocassionally and forgets to pick up our daughter from school alot. i need some honest opinions here please because im about ready to walk out of this marriage.

2006-09-22 12:33:47 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it the way they dress? The way they look? The way they act?

2006-09-22 12:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by Hannah17 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he likes me to and he told me he likes me but i am scared to tell him i like him and i have a bf who treats me bad and i am going to break up with him what should i do

2006-09-22 12:32:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She rubs up on my boyfriend and we both told her to stop and i even punched her in the chest her first excuse was " With boobs this big you can't tell where they're going" and then she says "Well you told me to do it". My question is, WHAT GIRL IN HER RIGHT MIND WOULD SAY "RUB UP ON MY BOYFRIEND" sorry some of this is venting but i really need help on how to make her go away.

2006-09-22 12:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would love to get answers from men to see if they surprise me.

2006-09-22 12:29:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do !!!

2006-09-22 12:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by b.! 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel that I am very nice to this one lady who trained me when I first started this job. She was extremely nice to me. Now we work in different buildings. I email here and there sometimes asking her for help and she kindly replies. But sometimes I will email and she never gets back to me, and when we have lunch meetings with our bosses she acts like she doesnt really know me. Like she belongs with the big shots and she's to good to talk to me. its like she completely changes the way she is. I am always trying to reassure myself that things are o.k. between me and her, I will email her, always saying thank you. Could it be me the one with the problem? I dont know, I just like to get along with people at work.

2006-09-22 12:29:08 · 8 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Friends

He has a different lifestyle, he's graduating this year. I still have two more years to go

2006-09-22 12:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by chicanita_gb 1 in Singles & Dating

when you realize that miracle named love will not come to your life, and you feel empty, can you take it as God dont want you to share love, or is just maybe he have greater plans for her, like if God could have some favorites humans,??? At the same time i feel empty, i feel happy to met her, and also happy because she was touched by God with beauty, grace, and a beautyful heart. I dont want to leave until i do understand this live i have. What would you do? Thanks

2006-09-22 12:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For a serious relationship?

2006-09-22 12:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 12:28:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i've noe this kid since the 8th grade, he think i'm his friend but i'm not. i've told him so many times to leave me alone but he hasn't!!! now he's made a myspace and has takin' my pictures and pasted them on other pictures and is making me look bad...wat do i do? i'm already sent myspace a message twice in the last 8 hours... he has this flash drive with my pictures an all this **** should i take it wen he's not lookin?

2006-09-22 12:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by jls10 3 in Friends