when you realize that miracle named love will not come to your life, and you feel empty, can you take it as God dont want you to share love, or is just maybe he have greater plans for her, like if God could have some favorites humans,??? At the same time i feel empty, i feel happy to met her, and also happy because she was touched by God with beauty, grace, and a beautyful heart. I dont want to leave until i do understand this live i have. What would you do? Thanks
2006-09-22 12:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out and live life. Don't wait for it to be revealed. I am 46 On leaving High school a friend of mine went off to discover himself. HE became an artist he studied different religions he spent all his time seeking meaning and purpose until one day he realised while he had been searching for meaning we his old friends had been living while he had been merely existing. Clearly you believe in God but God helps those who help themselves. Try this analogy Instead of waiting at the banks of the river of life watching it flow by; jump in and swim. Enjoy life, celebrate it and one day you will look back and this question of yours and wonder at the space you were in.
2006-09-22 21:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you, mate, I've been where you are: down in love among the dumped, the disilusioned and the lost.
And I could tell you although you thought you had the most sublime and beautiful thing going on with your former love, in actual fact it was not meant to be and you will find the love of your life in the futur and when you do you will realise the true wonders of all God's work in a way you never did before.
I could tell you all that, but it would sound completely hollow because where you're at every "cheer up" suggestion sounds hollow.
So instead I'll tell you first to let her go (from your mind), along with the emotion, let the grief out, cry, hit something (but don't hurt yourself or others), watch a movie, have a drink, do whatever it takes for you to feel human again (note that just "human" will do at this stage, "happy" doesn't come until later).
Once you've done that, consider talking to someone. A friend who will listen and not judge is ideal, but if none of your friends are so inclined (and it is a rare talent) then there are those who will do it for pay/on your medical insurace (delete as applicable). Would be money well spent.
And then and only then will you be happy enough to face the world and find love again. It might take a few false starts but you will get there.
2006-09-22 12:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say the miracle of love will not come to your life but you also talk about a love that you have.
So which is it?
If you have experienced love then you are blessed.
If it is just that you have loved someone and lost them, then join the rest of humanity! We have all loved and lost.
In my opinion God does not have favorites.
If your prayer is pure and you really want love in your life then pray for that and be open to it coming again in the form of another person.
The empty feeling can be filled with giving of love to others but just not in a romantic way. You will be surprised at that gift you receive when you open your heart to all kinds of love.
God Bless
2006-09-22 12:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has no favorites. This is just part of his plan. Life is 10% of what happens to you, and 90% of how you react to it. You can't sit there and dig yourself into a hole. Find something that you have always wanted to do...and do it! Better yourself while getting over it.
2006-09-22 12:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't meet the love of my life until I was 33, some it happens later. You never know what is around the corner. When she does come along, you won't care how long it took!
2006-09-22 12:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy and see what happens, you have to love youreslef first in order to find love.
2006-09-22 12:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should learn to type in English, with special reference to spelling and grammar. You numpty.
2006-09-22 13:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Phish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many people in this world who have never felt love... u have been lucky... and if you heart is as big as it sounds then there is no doubt that you will again find love.....
2006-09-22 13:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not only one too have been touched with beauty and grace look around you
2006-09-22 12:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by chris m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell's wrong with you? Snap out of it. Geez. Why are people so frigging weak-minded?
2006-09-22 12:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋