I am trying to learn to trust him but it doesn't come easy...he says he loves me and I him...greatly...but I believe in adressing everything as it becomes an issue...and if he really loves me...answering wouldn't be a problem...or will I surely loose him from being like this...we aren't kids...we are in our 40's
2006-09-22 12:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simply ask if he is bothered by your questions. If he truly loves you he will have enough caring to try and understand the reasons behind your concerns
2006-09-22 13:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by voncaros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to like my answer. It is not going to work, sorry. There is a reason you are having trust issues because you are too far away. You can try addressing the problems like I did. I am in my 40s, my bf moved across the ocean 11/2 years ago and I too had trust issues and tried to address the problem. He would get agitated but then there was reason. He was living with his ex while telling me he wasn't. Needless to say there is no "us" anymore. End it now before it becomes harder and harder, take it from someone who went thru it.
2006-09-22 13:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurity is going to kill this relationship. Ask your self why you feel so insecure, and then work on getting better. Making some one else responsible for your in ability to trust is not right. Some home work needs to be done here.. Only you can do this and asking some one won't work.
2006-09-22 12:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a LD relationship myself. He lives 200 miles away from me. I always want to think the worst but I am learning not to.
But no it is very normal to worry about someone that you can't see a lot.
2006-09-22 13:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by lonelykuroinu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between talking about issues and worrying about every single little thing.
Chances are he is seeing a side of you he won't like and will move on.
2006-09-22 12:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your fears, but don't do it everytime you talk. If you focus on it too much, then it can spell out the end of the relationship.
2006-09-22 12:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Joy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to have to justify everything you do to someone?
2006-09-22 12:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup.
2006-09-22 12:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong in the least. i dont know how you are doing it sweetie. i couldnt imagine.
2006-09-22 12:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by M. M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong.
2006-09-22 12:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋