Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

Any questions I should be asking?

2006-09-15 01:54:06 · 13 answers · asked by passion flower 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I (common law) have fought pretty much the whole 2 years of our relationship. At times it did get physical.....on both ends. We just sort of push each other over the edge. Our last big fight was over something so petty, and we got physical, and of course, he blames everything on me. So now he is leaving me. Leaving me with bills that are due, no food in the cupboards, and a one year old baby. And most of all, leaving me with no money. When the baby was born, we both decided that I would stay home and raise him....I feel hopeless, sick, lost, sad, angry. I do love him, and I know he loves me, but he keeps saying he's done. Yesterday I wanted him gone, I hated him, but today, I feel the complete opposite and I can't stop crying. What should I do?

If this doesn't make sense, I'm sorry.

2006-09-15 01:52:28 · 42 answers · asked by Mandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Both my husband and I were virgins before we got married and have now been married for 9 months. We have sex atleast once a day, sometimes more but I have no sexual drive whatsoever and it hurts most of the time. I feel so bad because my husband has tried everything and is extremely patient w/ me. He just feels bad that he is the only one getting pleasured. Could birth control have anything to do w/ it or is it just me?

2006-09-15 01:52:10 · 20 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know if this is legal? If she doesn't cooperate, what chances do I have of getting anything done until it becomes a mandate in Maryland after 2 years of living apart. I paid $2,150 in retainer fees and I'm having doubt whether it's even worth pursuing. I have never heard of a counsel not speaking to another counsel on a case. I'm beginning to think my lawyer is inadequate. It's not out of the question for me to fire her and get another who's got better people skills. It's only her 1st attempt to communicate, but that's pretty strange that the other lawyer won't talk to her. They know each other and have worked together on cases. What do you think? Am I being too harsh?

2006-09-15 01:51:54 · 5 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You see the probrem is that went they ask me to Log in to see some pictures or something I will Log in with the following: My ID. GYANG TENGWONG and My PASSWORD. MWANKON. But cant get in. But I got all message sent to me by ASKMEN.COM.

2006-09-15 01:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by tengwong2000 1 in Weddings

I need help to make my girl friend feel safe and secure with me. I used abuse for the first year we were together we have been together for 3 years now and it has been great with no abuse. I don't mean to sound lame or anything but she made me better I hated what I had done to her and just stopped it all together. Recently her mom was abused by her boy friend really bad and it scared my girl friend and now she says she can't take a chane with me for fear that it will happen again. I know that I could never do it to her again and I also know that they are just words and will never undo the past. She stil loves me but her fear is stopping her from being with me. I told her that I respect her decision and I am not mad at her or anything like that. I want to be with her so badly and earn her trust back. I am giving her time and space. Is there anything I could do to help her to know I am serious. I don't what else to say ask my headline says it all I need help

2006-09-15 01:50:47 · 10 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 01:50:22 · 18 answers · asked by MG 1 in Singles & Dating

chasing her...what should I do?

2006-09-15 01:49:14 · 22 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl, that i met in my 3rd period really likes me and she gave me her number. i was going to call it but i lost it and now its been 2 or 3 weeks since then and i dont know if i should call her , if i should what excuse could i make so that she doesnt think i forgot about her?

2006-09-15 01:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn T 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 01:49:03 · 28 answers · asked by Paul M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 01:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by villie 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I work in an office. I very much like a man. I let him know that I'm not trying to vamp him. I am just looking for some time and attention from someone I personally am drawn to and find attractive. I have invited him out a few times. He has refused. Sometimes he gives me the impression he likes me, and some he seems distant. The women I work with flirt with him, and know I like him yet still chase him. I'm stressed and have decisided that I will not hangout in the presence of him anymore. Because I can't stand to be treated like the polite stranger, when I would like to be more. Now to get to the point. Do you believe it is best that I just keep my distance for the rest of my life? which is basically what I have decided to do.

2006-09-15 01:46:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What could you consider? You may choose anyone from:
A. Sex before getting marriage with the same person you are going to marry.
B. Sex after getting marriage with the same person you are going to marrry.

2006-09-15 01:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by Saood 2 in Weddings

To do to make you completely happy.What would it be.

2006-09-15 01:46:04 · 15 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

I need to know what you notice in the difference in the way a male thinks and acts over a female

2006-09-15 01:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by sweet smile 2 in Singles & Dating

We get along real well and all and I can say we are friends. I went to B&N with a her right after lunch and we were looking at stuff when, by no apparent reason, she gets real close to me as of to see what I was looking at. At this moment, she rubs her left boob on my right arm/elbow. It was not casual, but an actual good rub and contact lasted maybe 3 seconds before I broke it. And it was not like crowded in the store as if she had to squeeze next to me. She's divorced, I am happily married. Any insight? Does she like me in a "different" way?

2006-09-15 01:45:54 · 35 answers · asked by zaxxon 3 in Friends

when iwil get married and get well.what will b my carrier?

2006-09-15 01:45:32 · 23 answers · asked by deepika sharma 1 in Family

I'm in my early thirties and I've been fantasising about a woman in her mid forties. It started when she started getting flirty with me. She's curvy in all the right places and divorced. She suggested a fling and I'm tempted.

2006-09-15 01:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by endagrogan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 01:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by kazza 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know of an elementry school teacher that is having an affair with a married man. She even goes so far as to send e-mails and regular mail to this guy's wife descibing their sexual escapades. Would you turn her in?

2006-09-15 01:43:36 · 20 answers · asked by sluggo1947 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 01:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-15 01:42:05 · 21 answers · asked by sweet girl 4 in Friends

I am her bridesmaid and I would like to give her something creative, different and useful. She has a home and everything already.

2006-09-15 01:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Weddings

2006-09-15 01:40:25 · 32 answers · asked by bwadsp 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 01:40:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is really getting to my mate( Dean) & he wants their relationship sorted out cos he can't stand the thought of her and her husband sleeping together.

2006-09-15 01:39:37 · 45 answers · asked by Sluugy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 01:38:52 · 7 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

(and no, i don't have bad breath. In fact he smokes and he knows his breath stinks by a yard)
he only like to go straight for sex.
duh. WHY?

2006-09-15 01:38:48 · 27 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

sex and ********

2006-09-15 01:38:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, and we used to hang out ALL the time. But then, she was selling her puppies and I bought one. Then about 6 weeks later we had to get rid of him because we couldn't keep him, I was sooo sad. But now she hates me and she hates when I talk about my other dogs. I don't know what to do. I mean, is she being completely immature about this or was I wrong to give him away?

2006-09-15 01:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina 2 in Friends