2006-09-15 01:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't. Just don't let it get to you - people who talk about you aren't worth your time and energy.
2006-09-15 01:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control anything people do, unfortunately. However, your best defense is to not let it bother you, or at least give off the appearance that you could care less about all the talk. If people see they can't affect you, maybe the talking with stop. Just don't feed into it!
2006-09-15 01:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just get off talking about others. Did you do something that bothered this person? How old are they? Tell them to shut up and grow up! Totally ignore it/them. Silence can be the best medicine!
2006-09-15 01:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Goobean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't stop them. Your true friends won't pay any attention to them and the rest of the people don't matter. Just ignore them. Or, it might be fun to go face-to-face with the person and ask why they are talking about you!
2006-09-15 01:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that you can not stop people fromtalking about you! One thing i have learned is that you can not control what other people say or do, i had t teach myself this as i always felt so bad when people would talk about me or do mean things. just try to remember you cant control what they do, and you will learn to live with it.
2006-09-15 01:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by trish p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
Just make sure that the ammunition that they have is something you wouldn't mind having aired to the world. Don't give them any "dirt".
Too bad their lives are so small - or yours is so incredibly interesting by comparison, that they can't find other things to talk about. Says a lot about their small, immature selves.
2006-09-15 01:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would myself confront the person .amd ask him or her what the problem is they have with me and whats the reason for all the talk ..stand up for yourself or it will never stop the more you ignore the situation the more theyre going to talk ..let it be known that you know this person is talking about you and youd like to know why.......
2006-09-15 01:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by poobearri1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are talking about them or just being a menace then i would not worry maybe they are jealous of you, and you must be very important to have them talk about you all the time , have you on there mind, don't worry , talk is cheap.....
2006-09-15 01:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by VETTEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let 'em talk 'bout it. They r not a puppet so u can't control 'em. Just dun let dis affect u.
2006-09-15 03:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't and you know what why care? you know who you are do you have things to hide ? have you been treating people badly? why should you care i don't care . you know why i do the best i can and as long as i don't have to hear it i am fine with that.
2006-09-15 01:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋