chasing her...what should I do?
2006-09-15 01:49:14 · 22 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she tells the guys that she is has a guy she is happy with do nothing. If she doesn't do that and encourages their advances then dropitlikeitshot
2006-09-15 01:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just kindly point that out to her, she may not realize that this is a not so charming trait to have when committed to one guy. There is friendly and there is CHARMING, two different things in my book. Let me ask you this , is she just has friendly and charming to the ladies? or is it different with the guys? If she has guys chasing her while commited to you, she should open her eyes and change her charming ways. Some women thrive on male attention.
2006-09-15 08:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel☺ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be her boyfriend. She's just friendly, there's nothing wrong with that. You would push her away by demanding her not to be friends with other people (guys). As long as she's not doing nothing as far as cheating. Then you guys are o.k. You have to trust her, I'm the same way. I'm very friendly, my boyfriend knows this. He's very secure about the situation, because he knows I'm not going to take any further than what it is. He knows I like to talk a lot and make other people laugh.
2006-09-15 08:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seem to have the same thing going on with my sweetie. Your girlfriend is a very happy, easy going individual that just draws people to her...correct? The same happens to me when we are out and about at gatherings, shows, ect...My other half gets so angry, jealous and insecure at people for approaching me. I'm pretty shy...and I can't help what other people say or do. Just know that if your girlfriend really loves you then you should not have to worry about other people. As far as "chasing" her...does she not let them know she's happily involved?
2006-09-15 09:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Goobean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All she has to do is tell the guys chasing her she is happy with her boyfriend and they can be nothing more than friends to her. Simple as that. Unless she enjoys this attention. She must be a Leo if the latter is true.
2006-09-15 08:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by jobie023 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant stop her being this way - shes just a friendly girl - so long as she doesnt take it any further with them, leave it be and be proud you have such a sought after lady!
Alternatively maybe you could tell her you feel a bit threatened by it and if she could tone it down a small bit.
At the end of the day though - its you shes dating so try stop stressing over something like this and enjoy your relationship!
2006-09-15 08:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop being so friendly with them since it runs the risk of hurting your relationship. If she doesn't respect you, she is not respecting the relationship and you might want to think about calling it quits. She obviously has some growing up to do in this case.
2006-09-15 08:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Emi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust her until SHE gives you a reason not to. If you react badly to every man flirting with your girl, you will run her off because she will think you don't trust HER.
Relax and enjoy the fact that you have the girl that they only dream of having. How could you be mad about that?
2006-09-15 08:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do just explain to her that you feel abit imbrassed or a lil frustrated by her charming or just say something to them or maybe put your arm around her when they come over
2006-09-15 08:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my BF feels the same way about me... im am so friendly but yet so niave, therefore when i speak to guys my bf thinks im giving the impression that im flirting with them and that im leading them on, wheras i feel that im just being nice... my bf explained to me how guys minds work, so i suggest you just talk to your gf and explain in detail the way a mans mind works and tell her to be less open and present herself in a different way, she will eventually understand what you mean...
2006-09-15 08:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋