My mate is seeing a married woman & thinks she is stll sleeping with her husband, what should he do?

Question

This is really getting to my mate( Dean) & he wants their relationship sorted out cos he can't stand the thought of her and her husband sleeping together.

Answer 1

let them get on with it

Answer 2

I know this is a REALLY difficult situation. He is going to have to figure out if this woman really wants to be with him or if shes just screwing around. If she puts her husband first most of the time, its not for real, its sureal! If she would do anything for your mate, then chances are she may be serious. Either way he needs to express to her his feelings, he wants her soley to be his or he will let her go. You cant have a woman going both ways, it just wont work out for either parties involved. Good luck

Also if shes cheated before, its probably just a repeat...

Answer 3

well when i comes to a situation like this, i can give you some good advice but i guess its up to him if he wants to do it

- i guess....if hes not in to deep.... tell him to let her go. walk away. this type of relationship doesnt look that healthy mate. i recon you can see it as well that its only gonna end in disaster or whatever, but i dont see a happy ending to this. i know you can see this too.
you got a married women, suspicoun, jealsousy and so forth in this scenario so i guess.... do what you can for your friend to convince him to step back.

i guess if you think about this..... shes a married women and she still has a husband who doesnt know right? so if she stopped having sex with him, wouldnt the husband get suspicious? your mate should be realistic and actually expect her to still do it.

hope my perspective helped

- dave

Answer 4

He knew at the start she was married and if theirs was gonna be a serious relationship she would not have stayed witth her husband.
I´ve been there and it causes all sorts of problems.
I suggest he move on or accept that he is just gonna be the "bit on the side"
If he waits for the issue to resolve itself it will only get worse.... I know.
Try going out and seeing other women, it will give him a clearer picture of her feelings for him.

Answer 5

Stop commiting adultery would be a start. How dumb is this Dean exactly? He's the one who's the outsider here, not the woman and her hubby. The wife is using him. Get him to wake up, smell the coffee, and scram.

Answer 6

Maybe your mate should have thought twice before getting with a married woman. Tell him to move on and not get himself mixed up in that sh*t again because it will NEVER work out for him.

Answer 7

Tell your mate to find a female of his own and stop interfering with a husband and HIS wife. The woman is not your mates woman she is her HUSBANDS woman.

That is funny though that your mate would be jealous of his whores husband.

Answer 8

A married woman is allowed to sleep with her husband.

Your "mate" should back out and leave them alone.

Answer 9

He's messing up a good thing by getting to attached to his sidekick chick. What kind of friend are you? You should be telling him to forget about that they are married. Tell him to just hit it like he used to or don't hit it at all if he is gonna catch some feelings, wake him up man that is what a good friend does snap him out of it.

Answer 10

She is married. He is in no position to have an opinion on who she sleeps with. Hold out until/unless she leaves him is the only advice I can give.

Answer 11

he's being used...needs a wake up call!!! tell him to be a man and either walk away from it or ask to sort her head out, its not fair on him or her husband, shes playin with two humans here not animals! question is, if she can do that to her husband...what makes him think she wont be doing it to him and god knows how many others are out there being played by her??????????