We get along real well and all and I can say we are friends. I went to B&N with a her right after lunch and we were looking at stuff when, by no apparent reason, she gets real close to me as of to see what I was looking at. At this moment, she rubs her left boob on my right arm/elbow. It was not casual, but an actual good rub and contact lasted maybe 3 seconds before I broke it. And it was not like crowded in the store as if she had to squeeze next to me. She's divorced, I am happily married. Any insight? Does she like me in a "different" way?
2006-09-15 01:45:54 · 35 answers · asked by zaxxon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nothing good like a good flirt.. and women got a degree...
2006-09-15 01:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by SemperLeader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it all, bub. You're MARRIED. Leave it alone and get over it. Play it safe, don't put yourself in the position again or you could end up being single again.
And a 3 second 'rub' against your arm isn't considered a good rub. Maybe she just moved a little and your arm was in the way. Maybe she didn't realize that she was actually touching your arm, she could have thought it was only your shirt she was touching. Maybe she didn't feel it all because of her bra.
Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill and remember your MARRIED.
2006-09-15 01:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there,
well, you say your happily married, which means you have no interest in this girl right? lol
i cannot say that leaning in can be a diffinitve sign, unless it was it more than once. has that happend more than once? i guess wanting to know if shes attracted with out asking, right?
well lets see...
good signs shes attracted to you are:
-she keeps good eye contact, to the point she doesnt take her eyes off you.
-she plays with her hair, or even better plays wit your hair
-if you make her laugh, she touches you on the arm or thigh.
very good signs:
-always leans into you
-openly flirts with you
-always hangs with you, or trys to get your attention
if your getting any of these signs above, and its kinda regular then i can say she had an attration towards you. you will get non of the above is there is no attraction
hope this helps, good luck ;)
- dave
2006-09-15 02:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. Well, if there is really no other reason for it, she's being about as subtle as a brick between the eyeballs. Just be 100% sure it was deliberate before you say anything or you will look like a bit of a weirdo.
2006-09-15 01:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sounds like she may want to go both ways, that is not too normal when a woman has to not by mistake but put her boob on you for 3 seconds . be careful with her
2006-09-15 01:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by VETTEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being loved is fantastic feeling, but seriously dangerous. Don't try to cheat your wife. You can cheat nobody, at least you can't cheat yourself.
You are happily married, keep her away from destorying your life. Love your wife but nobody else, bless you be happy with your family whole life long.
2006-09-15 01:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh heh. I find that amusing. Probably just accident. If things like that keep happening just let her know your not interested. Nicely though. Don't want to go ripping her heart out.
2016-03-17 21:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It odes not mean she likes you in a different way...that you can tell by the eyes.
this incident means she is comfortable with you as a friend. Like the difference betwenn letting a guy hug you from the front or only from the side.
2006-09-15 01:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to lunch with her if your married? It makes no difference if she likes you or not. A affair is a affair. ask your self this, if you have kids, what will they think when you get caught. Also, price a divorce and child support and then think if its worth it. My ex cheated, not me, and I pay 1000.00 a month on Child support and the divorce cost me 5000.00 and everyone looks down on me, even thou she was caught in the bed with him.
2006-09-15 01:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just had an itchy boob!
Seriously though it does sound like she was flirting. Ignore it this time, but if she carries on you may have to put her straight.
2006-09-15 01:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm...... Interesting! This has happen to me before and I shrugged it off because I assumed that many woman do this unknowingly. But in your case I think she knew what she was doing! May want to tread water lightly with that one to avoid trouble!
2006-09-15 01:49:09 · answer #11 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋