Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

the other morning i was messing on the computer and i found a search he did, asking why he hates his wife. i asked him about it, he just kind of laughed. today he got completely nasty. i asked him "why do you hate me" he said because i am a *****. i asked him "if you hate me then why are you still here?" he said he wonders the same thing everyday. as far as i know, i have never done anything wrong, aside from social mistakes, you know, accidentally hurting a friend's feelings. stuff like that. but i do not hink i have done anything worthy of hate! so if he DOES hate me so much and i make him so miserable, why is he here? why can't he just leave already? we have always gotten along, believe me, i never saw this coming. but if he doesnt want to be here then i do not want him to be here. we have been together for nearly 10 years, i am so confused and hurt, stuck waiting to see what he decides, i am afraid to ask!

2006-09-10 12:23:07 · 24 answers · asked by bad kitty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 12:22:09 · 20 answers · asked by SammyD 3 in Friends

me and ma boyfriend been together for 1 month. and we've been friends for about 6 months. he doesn't call me baby, but i wanna call him baby, and i was woundering if its too early or it would be weird if i called him "baby" for the 1st time?
do girls usually start callin thier boyfriends baby or depeneds?

2006-09-10 12:21:10 · 21 answers · asked by i_know_u_like_me_boi 1 in Singles & Dating

if you do when and well do you like ppl that are shy ?

2006-09-10 12:19:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Found 2 my space sites with hubbys pic's both different. One states he is looking for dating and has a few buddies. 2 females,and 1 guy looking, with a similar malfunction, as him. Hubby says its not his my space and he knows nothing about it. (Remember) He has a recent picture on it. Is he lying? Is it possible it could be done by hacking?? I told him I didn't care, but to decide if he just wants an open relationship or what. Unsure what to do. Found out just by coincidence when I went to hit favorites & hit history by error. Surprise!!!!!! Oh yeah.... Something similar happened about 5 yrs ago, but with IM. :(

2006-09-10 12:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by T1Vixen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My thought`s are with you all .

2006-09-10 12:18:43 · 6 answers · asked by charlotterobo 4 in Friends

2006-09-10 12:18:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hosted a wedding recept. for my sis in our yard, as she wanted. My hubby & I spent endless hrs. & days off work to make it perfect. I hired kitchen help & servers. Everything went off w/o a hitch.The compliments were endless. About 2 hrs. into the reception I pd. my servers & let them go as several of the older adults were leaving. My hubby & I could not wait to relax & spend time with my sister & her new hubby. I was maid of honor at her wedding. About 15 mins. after the servers left my new brot-in-law loaded up the keg & told my sister it was time to go! Her 1st response was, "I'm not going anywhere". He then told her their friends just left & were on their way to their house. When I ??ed him about why he was leaving he said that a few of his friends had "DUI'S" & they lived a couple of blks from their home & didn't want them driving 15mins. from our home. When they left, other guest followed leaving us alone in the yard just as the lighted garland lit up. How should I feel?

2006-09-10 12:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by nchance0004@sbcglobal.net 1 in Weddings

well iam going through a financial ploblem, and i think iam goint to do a voluntary repo i just bought a car less than one month ago. i was suppost to sell one of my other vehicles but i have had no luck. now iam stuck with 3 car payments so iam thinking about just returning it to the bank, its a 06 w 23k miles. my credit it perfect right now but for one mistake i know iam going to kill it. i pay everything else on time will that make a difference? iam have been depress over this for 3 weeks, is it worth it? i already tried taking it back to dealership, the next day, but to my luck there is no 72 hr coll off period. i havent been myself in 3 weeks iam very upset. any advice??iam losing time with my family, is it really worth it to be like this because of this??

2006-09-10 12:17:34 · 2 answers · asked by juanitaspn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wrong to have sex with someone elses girlfriend under all of the following circumstances:
1. I am a single Male
2. She has been in a four year relationship
3. She is an ex of mine
4 He will not have sex with her when she ask/needs it
5. We are going to tell no one about it
6. He treats her crappy, won't do anything for her
7. I really do care about her
8. And we are just both are wanting to get rid of sexual tension

2006-09-10 12:16:43 · 23 answers · asked by underscore 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone watch "Charmed"? if so, do u think Prue should have been mentioned on the very last show, or show the picture that they showed a thousand times before.

2006-09-10 12:16:32 · 10 answers · asked by sandy l 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently I had some people question my daughter on why she wasn't in high school anymore. She told them that that I (her father) had told her to drop out of school so she could help take care of her 3 yr. old little brother (my son). My daughter doesn't mind that I told her to do that b/c she likes making her dad happy and she didn't like school to begin with. Some of these people have come up to me and said I was very wrong in making her drop out of school, but I told them that I'm a single dad and I work, plus my girlfriend can't do it all the time because she is a nurse and has some crazy shifts sometimes. Besides, its not like she was going to college or anything and the last two years of high school are just not useful anyways. I also tell them that I have a very nice man lined up for her to marry in a few years that will provide for her. I guess its just getting really anoying to me and especially when they tell my daughter I'm a bad parent.

2006-09-10 12:16:05 · 28 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family

I have a Ex that just did not give a damn about me. I always wanted to get back with, until he came over one night. My son was gone and he decided to bet the HELL out of me. He left and came back and wanted to make up, bye then I had called the cops and he went to jail overnight. I am still afraid of him My son wants to see him but I will not let him. I do n ot want him back for nothing.

2006-09-10 12:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by CasperinMississippi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She asks stupid questions and when you answer them she then complains and tries to get you in trouble, is she a typical piece of shi^ female?

2006-09-10 12:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am still in love with my ex- but he won't even consider dating me again because he thinks I am messing with his mind I guess. He has admited that he still loves me.... but I dont know how long I can wait... or should wait.... so my question is: if you really love someone how long should you wait for them?

2006-09-10 12:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Airy. 1 in Singles & Dating

hey all,
ok. some background first. I am currently in a long distance relationship plus i want to persue my masters degree. Then thing is I have been offered a place for doing my masters at a good university but it will mean a huge move on my part also its a huge risk career-wise. I am not saying its a bad move but its a risky one which could pay of or not. Also the move will take me closer to the one with whom i am currently involved. The thing is that my relationship with my bf has also become a bit strained u know coz of the distance and all plus i am a bit apprehensive about how things will be meeting my bf after such a long time (6months) plus i dont know my feeling for him are all confused now coz we have been apart for so long.So i feel that such a big move on my part well ...is it worth it? is it worth the risk on my career? Thanks in advance for all the answers.

2006-09-10 12:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by nice_b 2 in Singles & Dating

he was all kissing up to me and, he said "I was going to break up with u until i saw you with that other guy and I realized how much i care about u." And he kept saying he loved me. Should i believe him???

2006-09-10 12:09:39 · 29 answers · asked by kw_711 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 12:09:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 12:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's out of town. And its been 9 days since we talked. Everytime i call the place where he's staying, he's either sleeping, eating or not in. We had absolutely no arguments or fights before he left - so I'm very very sure he's not mad at me.

2006-09-10 12:08:15 · 21 answers · asked by MiSs M 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm south asian, so i like 'em long and luxurious, but anything with pizzazz will do.

2006-09-10 12:08:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you do when your family becomes damn near best friends with your ex. We just recently broke up so some feelings are still fresh but since the break up my family has, in my opinion, gone to far. He drives their cars, they pick him up from work, and he visits them everyday. Is there something wrong with this picture or is it me.

2006-09-10 12:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by misst 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend& i guess i love him,but he lives 900 miles away& i also like this other boy,who lives next door.The whole long distance thing really sucks.& i like them both.

2006-09-10 12:05:45 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy who is in my school..i think he likes me, and he gave me his phone number.
i want to call him and talk to him, but i dont know what i would say. i dont want it to be awkward and have awkward silences and i dont want him to think im weird or anything.
it's not for sure if he likes me or not.
He found work and suggested i work there too..
what should i do? should i call him? Does he like me?

2006-09-10 12:04:35 · 17 answers · asked by felicityrocks 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend Chris at summer school. We have been together 3 months. We live in different towns and go to different schools. We never see each other and hardly have time to talk because we both have different schedules. When I called he sounded different. When he called its okay. I don't know what is going on with him?I've liked my friend for a long long time. I like him and he asked me to go to a dance with him. I dont want to be unfair to both but i really like the other person more and have for longer then my boyfriend. Im not going to lie, cheat or sneak around with each other. The one kid already knows I have a boyfriend.

2006-09-10 12:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for almost a year. And we have never been sexual together. All of a sudden his cats must be unplugging the phone. I called one day and he was out of breath. I asked him why, and he said that he is going to the bar with his bro. I asked well if ur just going to the bar w/bro you shouldnt be out of breath. He said that he was running around the house. I am sorry but ne man that goes out to the bar with guy friends dont run around the house to get ready unless they are getting ready to meet some *****. Can some1 please help me?

2006-09-10 12:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by April K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know it won't be down the road, but right now I'm 25 and he's 36. Is there even a chance he's interested, or am I too young for him?

2006-09-10 12:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by selsnick 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is bad when teachers are having sex with student or dating student? I think it is bad if the student is not in high school and not 18 years old. If the student is at 18 and over then I think it is ok because you are no longer a miner.

2006-09-10 12:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Singles & Dating

WE have been dating for a little more than 4 months and before me she was getting close to this other guy but they never went out. They were in different cliques or whatever but now we have been going out and I think she still likes him cuz all her friends say stuff about him. THen for homecoming she voted for him and not me? I didnt want it but she didnt know that....whats going on....should i be worried?

2006-09-10 12:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you women are so bad to think like that ,most of you answered for her to have the affair yet if somebody did that to you you would want to cut his **** off,why would you promote this type of solution to a marital crisis?

2006-09-10 12:02:55 · 8 answers · asked by myke4urnot 3 in Marriage & Divorce