hey all,
ok. some background first. I am currently in a long distance relationship plus i want to persue my masters degree. Then thing is I have been offered a place for doing my masters at a good university but it will mean a huge move on my part also its a huge risk career-wise. I am not saying its a bad move but its a risky one which could pay of or not. Also the move will take me closer to the one with whom i am currently involved. The thing is that my relationship with my bf has also become a bit strained u know coz of the distance and all plus i am a bit apprehensive about how things will be meeting my bf after such a long time (6months) plus i dont know my feeling for him are all confused now coz we have been apart for so long.So i feel that such a big move on my part well ...is it worth it? is it worth the risk on my career? Thanks in advance for all the answers.
2006-09-10 12:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by nice_b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anytime there is a good opportunity knocking on your door you should take advantage of it and not just wave good-bye while it passes by. we dont get such good oppportunities everyday so anytime we do, we have to take a risk and wait 2 see what happens because at least then you will know what the outcome was and if you let that oppportunity go you might have regrets as to what could have been. better to say it is & not it could have been. im just trying to help you, and remember that the opportunities u get as in of a carrer always take them they will reward you greatly in the long-run and you will be grateful for taking such a wise decision. ~lorena~
2006-09-10 12:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the risk and get your masters...as for the boyfriend...try not to make it your main priority. You sound young so as of right now I say focus on yourself. If the love between you guys is really strong than it will be happen. If you take your risk on your relationship and lose the chance on a great opportunity to get an education you may never get it again.
2006-09-10 19:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.Your'e young and intelligent.And you'll be geographically closer to the guy.It will help you decide if he's THE guy.In re to your education ,if it's a place that's going to be a plus in your career why not.Dont pass the opportunity simpy because ya have to face the boyfriend.Life is a two way street.You can always go back and start over.
2006-09-10 19:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is a good question... and how to answer it...one thing though if you are having doubts then i would not do it...but you have to think about the pros and the cons of the move...a long distant relationship hardly ever works...i know this for sure...but if you have been away from him 6 months and now you wander how you feel about him...one thing i would not make my decison on him...i would do what is the best for you...and if it is a risky move then i would not move at all...things are ok where you are at...you are happy,,,,then do not take chances....but this is your decision and you have to live with your decision....i just wish you the best in whatever you decide.....
2006-09-10 19:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High risk high rewards. You should move or take your masters only if it is good for you. Not for any guy. Additional education can be beneficial to your career. Are the risk worth the possible rewards?
2006-09-10 19:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by prettygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take one thing at a time, try to figure out the career thing first, you are not married to the guy so if he is there or not you have to decide if you want to be there, and get your head on straight as to how living there will work out for you. You may end up breaking up with the guy, but is this someplace you want to be......otherwise will it work for you to be there.Don't let him being there keep you away.
2006-09-10 19:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt risk your career. There are a million men out there, trust me, it's better to get on your feet and doing what you want before having to stress and worry about a relationship.
2006-09-10 19:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not make any changes at this time until you get your head together and your priorities straight. Take your time and think aabout your career first. There is always time for love later, believe me.
2006-09-10 19:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by dickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it okay is not recommended to live that way
2006-09-10 19:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by agustin22_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with it then why do it?
2006-09-10 19:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by dutchessdog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋