you women are so bad to think like that ,most of you answered for her to have the affair yet if somebody did that to you you would want to cut his **** off,why would you promote this type of solution to a marital crisis?
2006-09-10 12:02:55 · 8 answers · asked by myke4urnot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is why I didn't answer the question. Kudos to you!
Sometimes I think that married people think that an affair is the only way out, that the vows they made are just words. VOWS ARE PROMISES PEOPLE!!!!!! GET REAL!
2006-09-10 12:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A while back I would have answered yes, I would be upset if my husband fooled around... but things change. It is the responsibilty of both parties in a relationship to work at it and I guess I just have to kick him in the *** and tell him how close I came to finding someone else. Anyway, I figured I knew I wasnt going to do it... I just wanted a census. The most helpful advice was to determine if it was a Divorce I wanted, not an Affair. Now to figure out how to bring up the subject with my husband of spending time together and doing some fun things like we used to...WITHOUT him getting all pissed about how I complain!! Yeah... why DO guys complain we are bitching when we just want to make our realtionship satisfying for both of us?
2006-09-10 19:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sun Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that is why I avoided answering that question in the first place. Same old sh!t...The irritating part is when some people go on here and look for validation for what they're doing when they KNOW it's wrong and try as hard as they can to make excuses for doing it.
2006-09-10 19:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about the other women who answer, but I wouldn't suggest anyone have an affair. If a marrage sucks, get out of it... but its never a okay to cheat.
2006-09-10 19:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I ignored my husband and gave him very little attention then he has every right to have an affair. She is a grown woman and I assure you she will make up her own mind regardless of what we tell her.
2006-09-10 19:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i'm interested to know if the advice would be the same if it was a male asking the question.
2006-09-10 19:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by burn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't and........... I would not even suggest it! Apparently this does not apply to ME! â¥
2006-09-10 19:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Not Spoiled Just Loved♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
coz they are all idiots
2006-09-10 19:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋