I have known this guy for almost a year. And we have never been sexual together. All of a sudden his cats must be unplugging the phone. I called one day and he was out of breath. I asked him why, and he said that he is going to the bar with his bro. I asked well if ur just going to the bar w/bro you shouldnt be out of breath. He said that he was running around the house. I am sorry but ne man that goes out to the bar with guy friends dont run around the house to get ready unless they are getting ready to meet some *****. Can some1 please help me?
2006-09-10 12:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by April K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like something is up. I mean why isn't he calling you? A guy who is serious about you will be willing to humiliate himself to win your heart. Not just sex, but calling you the next day, at your door with flowers, making breakfast, and doing what ever it takes. Why? He doesn't want to loose you, because you are the greatest thing in his life. Seriously.
Sounds like he still might be playing the field. No games, and don't give in to stupid things. He might be playing on your emotions just to have sex. That crap needs to stop...until a he exhibits a little commitment on humiliation on his part.
Hope this helps...email me if you need more advice...more than happy to help.
2006-09-10 12:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey April just checked out your 360 sounds like your a girl that has seen the bad side of guys . this guy may have been rushing to get out and see his bro that's one thing but to not keep in contact with someone your having a relationship with is more than a bit strange is it possible that he was expecting sex and now you have reached the point where he considers it a lost proposition and that your friendship isn't what he was after at all . you said it your self It all stops here take control ring the dude up tell him that if your not into me then all I need to here is just that and I'm on the wing outer here because there is a great guy out there that deserves some one fantastic and he will find me waiting not sitting here looking at a guy that doesn't know what he wants and what he has in front of him
2006-09-10 19:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your feeling abit insecure about this guy. Before you make any assumptions, why don't you just come out and ask him if he's interested in someone else. You don't say in your opening question if you and he are actually going out, all you've said is that neither of you are having sex together. Guys have just as much right to run around trying to get themselves ready and get out of breathe as us girls, it dos'nt mean that they are being unfaithful because they answer the phone out of breathe. Iv'e had guys outta breath before becasue they've run inside to get my call, I don't naturally assume they are shagging the neighbour. Just ask him straight out if your that insecure, put your mind at rest.
2006-09-10 19:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know pril. You sure areone hot looking redhead. If I were your boyfriend, I wouldn't lie to you, just with you. You deserve better. Move down south, and date a more mature man. Quit haning outnwith all thoseyoung, immature 18-25 your olds.
2006-09-10 19:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that your BF is a D**K.......but you should not generalize and say the "Men Lie". (that's no better than a man getting on here and saying that "women Lie"!!!
If your man is lying......then he's just too immature and insecure to be honest with you. Shame on him!!!!!
2006-09-10 19:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just be being paranoid.
Also, I recommend the book Rating Your Dating While Waiting for Mating by Ed Young.
2006-09-10 19:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by DexterLoxley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little mysterious just dump him ,you are a very attractive young lady you could have any guy u wanted so just move on.by the way not all men lie so dont generalise please.........thank you
2006-09-10 19:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was running late & in a hurry to get ready
if he still cares for you he will call, if not then he found someone else, give him time & see what happens
good luck
2006-09-10 19:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men lie just the same as wemon do
we as soiciety are tought that...remenber this ? as you are rising your son to become a man...then you'll find what you seek
2006-09-10 19:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by hpylky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men lie because they learned it from women who were taught by Eve.
2006-09-10 19:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋