Is it wrong to have sex with someone elses girlfriend under all of the following circumstances:
1. I am a single Male
2. She has been in a four year relationship
3. She is an ex of mine
4 He will not have sex with her when she ask/needs it
5. We are going to tell no one about it
6. He treats her crappy, won't do anything for her
7. I really do care about her
8. And we are just both are wanting to get rid of sexual tension
2006-09-10 12:16:43 · 23 answers · asked by underscore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's wrong. No matter what your history is together she's been with a new guy for four years. It's never right to cheat on anyone or be the cheaters mistress(or misteress in your case). If she not getting sex from her guy then she needs to talk to him about it. myabe if she didn't discuss her problems with her ex and discussed them with the guy she's involved with they could work on their prblems. if you truly do care for her, don't have sex with her when she's vulnerable. You would tell her to try and work on her relationship or get out of it and not put you in the middle for a wild ride on your man stick. Sex is not love and it can cause problems with love isn't present. Especially if this guy finds out and goes after the both you.
2006-09-10 12:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire, but that is out of the question. For now focus on what you're doing - why be with an ex? Why are you trying to be her hero now? Be careful, it seems to me like you both still feel something for each other and if that is the case; stop sleeping around secretly and get back together. Enjoy life now and don't let a good opportunity pass you by.
2006-09-10 19:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has she # 2'd for so long if, she's had to deal w/# 's 4 & 6 ? If U really # 7 her, and u r truly # 1. Then convince her to quit # 2 so's U 2 can finally # 8.
Good Luck.
2006-09-10 19:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. If she is not happy and for your statements it seems she is not happy she needs to leave him. Then you all can have all the sex you want. Until she is ready to leave him then.. you have no place in this. You should not be a part of this. If you are real good friends with her then you would try to help her make a decision on her relationship not just get your goodies and live a lie. (ommission is a lie)
2006-09-10 19:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for her to do it if she has made a promise to be faithful, regardless of marriage or not. It's not wrong for you though. You are not the one in a relationship and you certainly didn't make any promises to the guy she is seeing. You should not feel guilty. She owns her own choices and will need to live with the circumstances if caught.
2006-09-10 19:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by THP 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even though he doesn't own her legally, he may think she's his exclusive property, and could beat the he ll out of both of you. Why take the chance? Why is she staying in that kind of relationship? Wait till she's free of him and then you can have her all to yourself.
2006-09-10 19:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! there are no circumstances, if you know that she's cheating it's wrong!
You should know that if your old enough to even be asking the question.
2006-09-10 19:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lynnsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is... doesnt matter the reasons.. if she really wanted out of that relationship dont you think she would have already? get a move on and find someone else...
2006-09-10 19:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! If she is so unhappy with the relationship of four years, she needs to get out of it.
2006-09-10 19:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by cherub2031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally speaking--outside of marriage, yes, it is wrong. Socially speaking-well, how would you feel if it were YOUR girlfirend, having sex with HER ex. Would you think they were wrong for doing it?
2006-09-10 19:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋