Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

I checked his email and then had it also cc another addy. Sure enough I caught him trying to hit on a co worker. His response was that 'he doesn't know why he does it but if it hadn't been her it would have been someone else" This is after being together for years, having dreams and plans for our future, and delibertly conceiving a child. I finally left him but now Im single and pregnant. A friend has turned him online dating and he paid for a membership and sent mesages to over 500 hundred women in the past month. !!! & he only is a newbie! My best friend, now roomate (whos bf -ex- recently left after also cheating) and I, as a joke posted an 'ad' on the site - his dream girl, thinking it would be funny to send him a message. We laughed and set up the account but went to bed. The next day he already messaged 'her'. Intruiged by the ease of his bite, we offered him a email addy- and next thing she has 18 messages.
Is it so evil to want revenge? this is such a sweet opp

2006-09-06 16:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by jennyjo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just had my first boyfriend just last month. I'm not sure how to deal with him coz he had a lot of previous relationships and i've had none. I want to be a good partner to him but i don't know how.... what must i do?

2006-09-06 16:08:40 · 13 answers · asked by pbinnocent 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:08:36 · 23 answers · asked by mrkitties420 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im loveless!!!!!!!!!!!!wat should i do???????????

2006-09-06 16:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

forest name?

2006-09-06 16:07:18 · 5 answers · asked by Rex k 1 in Friends

Listen i'm a great guy. I care about my health, but i'm a little ocd about it. So my ex's cant handle the fact that I send my poop off for testing every week. Like I said health is my #1. I dont understand why, help? Whats so wrong with it?

2006-09-06 16:07:01 · 7 answers · asked by RAY W 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering where & how any of you met your girlfriends or boyfriends? Just want ideas of how to meet potential partners..& these stories are just cute to hear! :)

2006-09-06 16:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:06:14 · 22 answers · asked by shane j 1 in Singles & Dating

ok when you have a wedding let me tell you the best thing to have like for a dessert table it is a choclate fountain it is so nice I went to a weddign back in June and the choclate was wonderful and some good stuff to is fruits like strawberries and bannana....... trurst me you will love it you cangit one at walmart target or anyother place that sales everything but not walgreens.

thanks

2006-09-06 16:06:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My man works two jobs but so do I so it's hard for us to spend time together but when he comes over he still have other things to do so I still don't really get to enjoy him. He means alot to me so I don't say much to him and let him do him but I be wanting a little more attention when he comes over. How do I make that happen without upsetting him?

2006-09-06 16:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by Wan R 2 in Singles & Dating

have u ever just been so sure that u were meant for someone but they didnt agree with you? i say this because I feel almost certian that I am supposed to end up with matt. But he doesnt feel the same way for a couple of stupid reasons. he wants his relationship to be perfect. He strives for that perfection so automatically that cuts me out. In the past he has said that I was everything he always wanted. That was in the beginning & every once in awhile he will say something like that. He says that I need to be 18 well thats in 9 months & need to be fit & I am working on that. I know that I will be the size I want to be by my senior prom, not for him but for me. Although it would be a major plus if I got him. Im just afraid that while these changes accure that he is going to find someone that is ready & in his mind, is perfect. Call me selfish but I want him to think Im perfect & want me just the way I want him.

2006-09-06 16:04:18 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Singles & Dating

Serious answers, please.

2006-09-06 16:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Seeking 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 16:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I tried being someone I wasn't because I wanted to impress him. The thing is I don't really know who he is. So I ended up just embarrassing myself. What can I do to make things better? Why am I even asking you people? I don't even know you. Oh well, I can't make things any worse.

2006-09-06 16:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a player who plays girls - signs that they might be playing you

2006-09-06 16:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my new boyfriend just hooked up a couple days ago, and one of my really good friends told me that he is the player type and he is always trying to talk and hook up with everyone. Should i ask him if everything that i heard is true or not?

2006-09-06 16:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by Lady G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What if all men refused to have sex with any females? Do you think u'd go crazy and pls dont give me an answer where the case would be vice-versa

2006-09-06 16:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by bchboy_998 1 in Singles & Dating

after reading many of these divorce stories doenst it seem to appear that all of the ladies on here ALWAYS blame the man for the failure of the relationship?? come on girls admit that it was part your fault. and how many of you had a good man, but treated him like crap, refused to give him affection(a womans secret weapon) or even cheated on him??? why wont you women admit that you drove your man to another womans arms by being a nag or by taking him for granted?? patiently waiting to exhale!!!!!!

2006-09-06 16:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that the girls that are popular in school and seem to have it all are the most threatened and talk the most trash about other females - esp. females outside their click? Why do they talk sh*t and don't make an effort to get to know the girls?

2006-09-06 16:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by YourAnswer... 4 in Friends

My girlfriend has recently started to drink casually and I don't know why it bothers me. We've been together for several years and I do not fear her being unfaithful, but this makes me very uncomfortable. Any help is appreciated.

2006-09-06 16:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by John S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In this situation which would you rather do?
Your sister is having a baby 2 hours away.
You are a sophmore in High School
It's the second week of school

Option 1:Leave school for 4 days and go to the birth of the baby and be there for your sister and nephew

Option 2:Stay home with your hated stepfather and go to school instead. [so you wouldn't have any work to catch up on and not fail]

2006-09-06 16:00:32 · 16 answers · asked by cookiemvh 2 in Family

2006-09-06 15:59:19 · 12 answers · asked by Denton P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seperated from my partner who is an alcoholic and abusive person.I have 3 children and I have rekindled a relationship with my childhhood sweetheart, the problem is he lives interstate and I want to move there, do you think its wrong of me to move them away from what there current invironment?

2006-09-06 15:58:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 15:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our father is an alcoholic and now she is married to one. Last week he pushed her (she was holding my neice who is two) because she wanted to leave because she found vodka in his truck. Then she called the cops they took him to jail and he was there for 26 hours. He has a very good state job and now she is thinking of dropping the charges as in our state to remove a phone from a wife trying to flee domestic violence is a felony. If he has a felony he WILL lose his job. She just completed college to be a teacher and she only has to complete her student teaching to become certified. His family came to help and has paid for his detox before he could go into rehab. He went to rehab today and he was all for it but now being without booze for a week he is miserable and he is blaming her and being an ***. He doesn't think rehab is a good idea. Insurance is paying for rehab. She will have no money if she leaves but she loves and wants to help him. I want her and my girls safe Help!!!!

2006-09-06 15:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by aleynam 3 in Family

When can I date other people? What is the acceptable time frame?

2006-09-06 15:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by JustLynn 6 in Singles & Dating

I love my best friend with all my heart but she has asked me a question that I just can't answer. So I figured you could help me, so here goes: She loves her boyfriend very much and she doesn't want to leave him but his penis size just doesn't satisfy her. She said he makes her happy everywhere in every aspect of the relationship other than the bedroom. Yall, I'm all out of words about this one b/c I've never heard of anything like this before. I really need your help!!!! Thanking you all in advance!!

2006-09-06 15:57:42 · 16 answers · asked by nattabomb 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeah! This happened automatically, it came like a earthquake, suddenly. It was wonderful but I'm still wondering how that could happened...........
Can u give me explanations about it?

2006-09-06 15:56:59 · 24 answers · asked by Amanda P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for those who had anwered my previous question, i thank you.

now, the result has finally came. he does not have any feelings 4 me. he just wanna be friends. i accepted that coz there's no more hope to hope, if u get what i mean. but its really disappointing. after 1 1/2 yrs of fights, love, etc everything is over jus bcoz of one slap. yes. he slapped me. n he just couldnt forgive himself for that. i was very shocked. is it just another excuse? he said dat he vowed to himself never to lay his hands on a girl, and he did. and he's scared 2 continue. why? the reason seems so vague to me. how could he not forgive himself wen i'd forgive him n wanted the rship to carry on. things werent like this before n i always hoped that one day, we will live in our own world together again. i still believe but i guess, we're jus not fated. but no doubt, im still shattered. my very 1st relationship has ended. why?

2006-09-06 15:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by rufiogerl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 15:56:32 · 9 answers · asked by kaylyna8 2 in Singles & Dating