I love my best friend with all my heart but she has asked me a question that I just can't answer. So I figured you could help me, so here goes: She loves her boyfriend very much and she doesn't want to leave him but his penis size just doesn't satisfy her. She said he makes her happy everywhere in every aspect of the relationship other than the bedroom. Yall, I'm all out of words about this one b/c I've never heard of anything like this before. I really need your help!!!! Thanking you all in advance!!
2006-09-06 15:57:42 · 16 answers · asked by nattabomb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are other things HE could do...so obviously he is a terrible lover. SUCKS TO BE HER!
2006-09-06 16:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways a man can satisfy a woman in the bedroom with a small package. If it's small, then he probably already knows. She could suggest getting some toys form the sex shop, which he would definately be into. They have everything for every situation. Or teach him how to give good head...then it wont matter how big it is!!!!! I know it's easy to say if you love him i t doesn't matter, but the physical side of love is just as important as the mental and spiritual. It can easily break the relationship, with out the right communication.
2006-09-06 16:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something else is wrong in that relationship besides penis size. Either that or your friend is very vain or very ignorant, possibly both! I would bet her b/f is average sized (5 to 7 inches when erect) but just isn't a very good lover...something they BOTH need to talk candidly about. There is much more to lovemaking than having a big weenie! It's in fact probably the least important thing. If he knows you to use his fingers and his mouth and his mind, the size of his ding-dong really doesn't matter...unless of course he is dealing with one of those very few women who just have to "supersize" everything, a "size queen" so to speak! In my most humble opinion, a woman like that isn't worth having and I'd say the same thing about any dude who judged a woman or discarded a woman based the size of her breasts!
2006-09-12 07:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OoO... i have been in the same situation. size really should not matter. Ok to tell you the truth and give you some good info.... The person i am getting married to is not the biggest i have had. But he makes me feel soo good and does his thing very good, best i have ever had. I love him soo much and since it is him i feel like it is the best pleasure.
Her bf probably needs to learn more tricks, because guys with small ones learn how to work it a little more harder becuae they are lacking in one area. She should tell him what she likes and more forplay is always good.
And does she really love him? If sex is such a big deal then there has to be something else behind it. I say she be open enough and tell him.... he might just care about him getting off and not worried about pleasing her... you never know. I would let him know. He will probably be butt hurt, but this way they can both work on it, and it will be fun!
2006-09-06 16:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a diff between "In Love" and "loving someone" either way if her feelings are as strong as she thinks than penis size doesn't matter, it can be upsetting but there are other ways of getting satisfaction in the bedroom have fun - experiment. Big or small the size doesnt matter its how u use your talents!!!!
2006-09-06 16:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really truely loves him as much as she says that she does then the size of his wang should not matter thus there are medical way to deal with that thus I must remind u that there are very sirius side effects to these proseadures as everyone may or may not really realizes that is the actuallity of the side effects can be harm full inturnaly mostly.
So its not fuly her choice in that matter it is his if he would really want to go through with it even if she really would want him to she would have to respect his choice wheather if she likes it or not so if he says that he does not want to go through with it she should respect that if she honestly truthfully loves and respects him and she should not turn to a nother man for sadisfaction that is not right in any way no matter what her reasons or excusess may be.
If she did that then she really does not love him as much as she claims to.
2006-09-06 16:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly in love then size dont matter its whatds in her heart. The best things in life comes in small packages so if she really wants to be with him she got to work with it she can get right and make it better just try new things.
2006-09-06 16:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's REALLY in love with him, size won't matter.
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2006-09-07 05:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by bodypartsman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not his job to satisfy her. She's being selfish.
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2006-09-06 22:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋