My man works two jobs but so do I so it's hard for us to spend time together but when he comes over he still have other things to do so I still don't really get to enjoy him. He means alot to me so I don't say much to him and let him do him but I be wanting a little more attention when he comes over. How do I make that happen without upsetting him?
2006-09-06 16:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by Wan R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I am dating someone who has actually three jobs sound odd but its true, Basically you sit down, turn off the tv and tell him we need to talk, Once you start off the conversation, Say Baby I am not trying to be rude but I have some concerns about our relationship and I would have mentioned this sooner but I didn't want to cause conflict or anything. That should do it. But always be honest because a man some don't know how we feel unless we tell them basically some are kinda of slow lol
2006-09-06 16:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The stereotype is that men pay more attention to looks. I think it's true to a point, but this is an individual thing. I think men are initially attracted to women more often based upon looks and more likely to notice a woman based on her looks, but that doesn't keep a relationship going by itself. There are plenty of shallow women out there as well. By the way, why is this question in the Senior Citizen section? Lol
2016-03-17 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans for the future...like a special outing or a trip together. This will give you something to look forward to and him as well. In the meantime, develop some type of special communications. Send cards, send messages, speak at the same time every day and night. Express your concerns. Can one of you come to the other's work once a week for a meal or quick hello? Gotta keep the fire burning...
2006-09-06 16:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably sounds crazy, but, if you occupy your time doing something else and act like you don't care, he will start wondering why. Just keep acting disinterested in him until you either a) you have his full attention or b) you find out that the other thing you are doing is more fun anyway and you just get rid of him. Win/Win situation!
2006-09-06 16:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with my boyfriend I just start doing things to get his attention such as dirty dancing and putting on some lingeri and shaking my a@# for him. I just do things that I know will get his attention in a good way, just do things you know will put a smile on his face. One important factor communication talk to him about it but don't seem whiny about it. Just you know slowy bring it up and coax him into the conversation.
2006-09-06 16:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by PurpleMoon031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you support the guy for pete's sake. He's killing himself to give you a better life and all you want is for him to show you a good time. Newsflash: he wasn't put on earth to entertain you! The guy can probably barely stand after working two jobs.
Women today are worthless.
2006-09-06 16:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by george_the_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like sex? Dress sexy! And then just walk around and ignore him until he can't ignore you any longer.
What 'other things to do' does he do when he gets to your house? Yardwork? X-box? Break the rake and smash the xbox, so he can't do other things. Make something fun for the both of you to do together.
2006-09-06 16:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to get him to pay no atten... to you. if he's working two jobs then he's really not feeling you much. don't try any whorish clothes. find out why he's working two jobs; as if you don't know. be a woman and help him out so he doesn't have to work so hard. are you that high maintanence? if anything he's trying to grow and he wants you to grow with him.Talk to him
2006-09-06 16:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Denton P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why he has to work two jobs, see if theres anything you can do, lifes too short to work so much, help each other....my mom lost her husband in an explosion at work and all I hear her say is how they both worked too much and never got to really enjoy life. think about it and see if theres something you both can do together to help the finances.
2006-09-06 16:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dress like his gf- dress up and look good
so you will catch his eye- nice hot skirt, pantyhose , hees,
that will get his attention- would get mine !
2006-09-06 16:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋