I've just had my first boyfriend just last month. I'm not sure how to deal with him coz he had a lot of previous relationships and i've had none. I want to be a good partner to him but i don't know how.... what must i do?
2006-09-06 16:08:40 · 13 answers · asked by pbinnocent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you mustn't do anything. Be yourself, first and foremost. Be yourself. If you feel you "must do something" then it is wrong, wrong wrong. If you have to "deal with something" then it is wrong, wrong wrong. If you feel pressure from him to do certain things you do not want to do, it is wrong, wrong wrong. Be careful, and most importantly be "yourself".
2006-09-06 16:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, do you mean sexually or just in general being a good girlfriend? Because I think that the best you can do is be YOU. If you make his lunch every day and call him all the time and kiss his a** you are setting yourself up for a disaster! Don't do anything you are not comfortable doing! In bed or anywhere else. If he really likes you he will appreciate who you are. SO WHAT if hes had lots of other girlfriends. That doesn't give him authority over anything. You must pull your head out of your bum and make him kiss it.
2006-09-06 16:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect him and behave him to respect you; be kind; Tell the truth ; don't lie in any situation; Be soft; Don't make any drama scene or don't talk opera dialogs; Smile and talk softly; Be attractive at the same time don't be like a trash; Give your love with open heart and mind. Most of all trust him if he is qualified and be faith full to him; Enjoy every moment be with him and thinking of him..Also don't for get to study your school subjects too.
2006-09-06 16:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you are asking here, sweetums. Just be true to yourself. Don't do anything that feels wrong. Don't do anything you would be ashamed to admit to doing in front of the congregation.
You'll be fine.
2006-09-06 16:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold his hand, talk to him a lot, compliment him, touch his cheek, tell him, You're so cute! umm. kiss him, but not 2 soon, if he asks u 2 kiss him, never do it the first time he asks about it. cuz if hes a good bf he'll let it slide 4 u! he wouldnt be mad about it!
2006-09-06 16:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by HappyState™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears like you've replied your own question. the hardest area is basically doing what desires to be executed. you're a lot too particular to be treated lightly. It appears like he basically needs to play the sector even as you want a dedicated relationship. you may't change that. i'm sorry you're in this kind of tricky concern. The longer you position off leaving him the harder it will be. Or in case you make certain to stay keep in mind that what you're coping with now might want to be basically the top of the iceberg. you may want to keep in mind that when you're not from now on with him even as he travels he received't be straightforward and if someone comes alongside that he makes a decision is a more desirable proper deal he will go away you. all the proper to you!
2016-11-25 01:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but stay sharp.
Don't do anything that he tells you to do that doesn't feel right.
Don't throw yourself into the deep end.
Other than that, just be yourself.
2006-09-06 16:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is true to you...he would mostly say yes...ask him to do you a favor to prove it.......then make one favor for yourself that you really want him to do...it should be wild, outrageous , bizarre and crazy......he would have to make himself very embarrassed in front of the public or something he would never have imagined he could do.....if he really does it ....it means he is all in for you girl ....!
Good Luck with your relationship.....and have fun!!!!!!!!
Ps: dont try to fall too deep for him at first...if you make it too easy for him.....he would stop trying to please you...
2006-09-06 16:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and the rest will come naturally
2006-09-06 16:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-06 16:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by SeJon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋