I checked his email and then had it also cc another addy. Sure enough I caught him trying to hit on a co worker. His response was that 'he doesn't know why he does it but if it hadn't been her it would have been someone else" This is after being together for years, having dreams and plans for our future, and delibertly conceiving a child. I finally left him but now Im single and pregnant. A friend has turned him online dating and he paid for a membership and sent mesages to over 500 hundred women in the past month. !!! & he only is a newbie! My best friend, now roomate (whos bf -ex- recently left after also cheating) and I, as a joke posted an 'ad' on the site - his dream girl, thinking it would be funny to send him a message. We laughed and set up the account but went to bed. The next day he already messaged 'her'. Intruiged by the ease of his bite, we offered him a email addy- and next thing she has 18 messages.
Is it so evil to want revenge? this is such a sweet opp
2006-09-06 16:09:10 · 7 answers · asked by jennyjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its not fair he can go and date, while Im stuck here all pregos...:(
2006-09-06 16:17:24 · update #1
...but this is SOOO funny, my best friend and I did this before...we are pros and dating on the phone lines and the net...we are known as 'double trouble' ..we are hard core men bashers .How can we ignore this chance...we did it before to another ex a few yrs ago (all three of us -him too...ended up still being friends..hahaha) Joke was on him...these MEN are the cheaters and deserve to be toyed with..
2006-09-06 16:24:21 · update #2
PS I treated him like gold all the yrs we were together and he even admits it
2006-09-06 16:25:13 · update #3
RUN! DON'T LOOK BACK!
You'll thank yourself later.
2006-09-06 16:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First.... why would a woman with any kind of good since deliberately conceive a child with a man that she knew would not marry her, and who she knew was a perv to. and don't say "But I didn't know" cause that's crap, you knew.... you don't sound like a terribly smart chick right now. and the fact that you want to get some kind of revenge proves it. And your not "single" your an unwed mother to be. so like it or not you have to put the well being of your new child first...YOU SCREWED UP your kids life and he/she's not even born yet. Good job mommy, why don't you put some thought into how your going to raise your kid. and oh yea you had better go after him for child support cause that's the least you can do for you baby right now.since you failed to find a father and instead settled for a sperm donor.......
2006-09-06 16:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The FIRST time I caught my ex cheating it was one time too many! I have too much pride to settle for sloppy seconds. That was - by the way - after 20 years of marriage. No CHEATING! If you disrespect me that way you are history. A simple answer if you are a strong woman with a modicum of self esteem! Revenge is sweet - but living well is definitely the best . Moving on with your life in a positive way will get to him more than you can imagine!
2006-09-06 16:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but you have to think about planning for your baby now, not getting revenge against your ex. Move on! In order to do that you have to let go. If he would rather hook up with a bunch of wannabe's on line, then it's his loase because he had a real person in you, the mother of his child. Don't waste your time planning revenge, he'll get his without your help. What comes around, goes around!! Good luck with everything.
2006-09-06 16:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Carlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is not fair.... but you chose to concieve a child with a man that was not worth it..... so now you have to raise this child the best you can...... revenge seems sweet yes, but the sad thing is, only one person will pay the price if it goes wrong... YOU....... let him go, start the child support process and let him go along his merry way...... why stoop to his level ??? God bless
2006-09-06 16:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is simple. Let it go and do look back
The guy dosn't sound like he is worth the time
2006-09-06 16:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nicholas R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sorry to say you have to suffer for your mistakes. its better to stay aways from him and think about yourself and the baby. see what you have done to the innocent baby! she wont have her daddy. anyway, i guess its time to get serious and forget about that guy. you picked the wrong apple. he doesnt understand value of relationship rather values physical relationships.
stay away from him. i wish you good luck
2006-09-06 16:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋