Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

There is this girl and she has sed "i'm ur bestest frind in d whole world" and asked me 2 b other half on bebo, and she sez "ya know I love ya". Do you think she means all this? Or is she just messing with me? I know I can tell her anything and she can tell me anything too, and she txts me when she has a problem, but in school we dont hang out much. Do you think she meant what she sed? If so then why doesnt she make an effort to hang out in school?

2006-09-05 05:02:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my last relationship, I had already addressed this issue with my mother, who believed that there was nothing wrong with her referring to herself as my boyfriend's "future mother in law" or to him as her "future son in law".

It's not appropriate, to say the least, it's annoying, intrusive, & the way she does it is positively in the most abrasive fashion, as though she's jealous of time I spend with someone (umm.. I'm 29!!).

But now, I'm with someone else & I just found out that she's still doing it- she's calling HIM instead of me to leave him messages, wondering why we haven't had kids yet, etc.. Needless to say, he hates her, wants nothing to do with her & I'm in the middle.

I called her yesterday and calmly told her again to stop the references once & for all, and all she said was, "Have a nice life, then. Get the rest of your stuff!" She basically disowned me.

I was relieved (lots of baggage, she is!), & I believe she's out of my life, for 2 weeks until she calls.. thoughts?

2006-09-05 05:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by cleopatra 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 05:01:49 · 12 answers · asked by Josie Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 05:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by Spanky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 05:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by hunnybee032001 2 in Friends

wearing today.....detailed answers please....no guys please

2006-09-05 05:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

they dont smell its just a case off sucking air in and pushing it out.

2006-09-05 05:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by loopy lass 3 in Singles & Dating

be nice people

2006-09-05 04:58:57 · 4 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Friends

I brought this girl to my mans house. All day we were chilling with his homie in the pool, hot tub, drinking wine and having a really good time.. to make a long story short.. i had 850 dollars come up missing from my purse. I immediatley accused her.. becuase i completely trust my man and his homie.. The money was returned in my purse.. 600 dollars first and then the other 250 after another few hours.. it was a real life game of clue. The way i know it was her is... i had searched my entire purse.. then after an hour or so.. she said.. r u sure u checked ur whole purse.. when i checked again 600 was just sitting on top.To top it off my man lives over an hour away from my house or hers.. as soon as the money was returned i was on my way to take her home.. about 10 minutes from my mans house i stopped at a gas station and left the ***** right there.. hehhe..her phone didnt work out there or anything. Did she get what she deserved or am I wrong.. just looking for opinions.

2006-09-05 04:58:05 · 4 answers · asked by misskaykai 2 in Friends

he said that he was going to take care of it but didn't now wants to have dinner with me and him and her and her new boyfriend? why does she feel the need to still contact him?

2006-09-05 04:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by berlee1964 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 04:56:54 · 23 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants to have a Harley Davidson theme for our wedding reception. Any ideas, suggestions??? And no, we cannot have a bike in the reception hall :-)

2006-09-05 04:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by smh 1 in Weddings

2006-09-05 04:55:47 · 14 answers · asked by KNN 1 in Singles & Dating

after knowing someone for almost all of your life and really liking them you get to find out that that person likes you too.however you go ahead and ask what makes you like me? and this is the reply - "before i knew that i liked you i`ve always thought that you were a sweet, beautiful and polite person just never thought it would get to the point where i`d get to tell you. whatd`ya think guys.

2006-09-05 04:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by tia 2 in Friends

What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she

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Now , what would she have said she doesnt want to ruin a frienship?? Without meaning it, I asked her straight up to be honest, and I know she isnt lying. What should I do? I mean I know nothing is gonna happen in the near future, but maybe when she matures a little bit, or decides to take the risk to date me, I mean, I like her so much, and am just not ready to let her go. I know she is afraid of me breakin her heart, because she told one of her friends, that she doesnt like how many girlfriends I've had that Ive broken up with. And she really used to act like she liked me, I mean, we obviously had soemthing more than friends, but when I asked her she got scared and backed off. She also told her mom, who she is really closed to, that she is REAALY scared of ruining the frienship. What should I do?

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But, her friend asked her a few minutes ago about it, and she got all mad and said who wants to know?..and her friend said me.. and she got all mad and signed off. what should i think/do??

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And why would she get all mad at her friend, I mean the email I replied to her was nice , caring and understanding, so I dont know why she thinks I put her up to it? Why was she all mad if her friend asked her about it?

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Now, I am not an idiot, and I emailed her back and told her i respect her decision, and totally understand her decision, and I am not smothering her, directly, but her friends mite be talking, what should I do

2006-09-05 04:55:26 · 9 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

she is out of control... She constatly ridiculs, badgers and name calls my two sons ages 16 and 8. She calls them out at family or social gatherings with name calling (gay, fag, retard, phsyco etc) pushing, hitting etc. My sons have been taught never to hit a female period. Nor would I ever tolorate bullying, name calling etc. Therefore, my sons are wondering how to handle these situations with her?
We all live together he has 4 daughters, I have 2 sons (we have lived together for just a couple months) We have had family discussions and approached these situations to no avail? I am at a lost as to what to do? I love my fiancee but my children come first? I have tried to speak with him about disapline but he thinks the situation is being over dramatized, he thinks it is normal child bickering? Never have my children been this abuse to each other or other children. Does anyone have any suggestions? Am I wrong?

2006-09-05 04:54:52 · 18 answers · asked by zabra2boys 1 in Family

2006-09-05 04:54:42 · 18 answers · asked by abstract 3 in Friends

My dad just got remarried.. he's 54 n i'm 22.. i just got out of college n i think i just screwed my life over at the same time.. my dad got married to this 21 yr old last month and since then me n his new wife have been seeing each other in a not so innocent way.. so we had sex last night.. neither of us were drunk.. i really think we're both into each other a lot b'sides just sex cuz i just like her too much.. i think i've feeling for her.. isn't it wrong cuz isn't she like my mom cuz she's my dad's wife?? is this sick n am i screwed for life??

2006-09-05 04:53:43 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i'm at the traffic light or when i'm in the parking lot at the supermarket she keeps pulling it out. How can I tame her? she gets really weird whn we are watching Animal planet together.

2006-09-05 04:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 04:53:01 · 15 answers · asked by dumbo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 04:52:35 · 6 answers · asked by jbgodsgal92 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have four kids but can never find anything serious. Just because I have four kids doesn't mean I am easy. I am a good person not looking for a "babies daddy". I am strong enough to be both mother and father. I want a relationship but this is ridiculous.

2006-09-05 04:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by trinap232000 1 in Singles & Dating

i was in a relationship and it was going fairly well but then my boyfriend dumped me because it didn't feel right for him. We decided to leave it for a while, and decide what to do after a month. I was ok with that as i really do like the guy and was willing to wait if it meant, we could work things out but, then i spoke to one of his friends who told me that the reason he dumped me was not the reason he had told me. That infact he was embarassed of dating me, i was upset and angry and in the heat of the moment, text him saying that if he was embarassed of me, that we should leave it, forever. I really regret having said that now as i still want to be with him. I think i have missed my chance as now i dont get to see him very often and we are just growing further and further apart. I wish that i could let him know, but i think its too late and i never have an oppurtunity. I miss him so much.

2006-09-05 04:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 04:50:42 · 1 answers · asked by Darth Jhon 3 in Friends

You are, aren't you. You know who you are. What do you have to say for yourself?

2006-09-05 04:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by Wiley 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 04:50:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you worry that your new husbands kids won't like you? Do images of Snow White and Cinderella haunt your thinking? What do you do about it? Share your experiences and your thoughts on fighting the wicked stepmother image.

2006-09-05 04:49:43 · 12 answers · asked by t_raudenbush 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He really stresses out over money an that he cant afford to give me a big one, even though i told him that i dont care about anything as long as hes there and i can show every one and him that i love him and that im serious about it, do you think its a gd idea to surprise him??

2006-09-05 04:49:39 · 54 answers · asked by GeorgieP 4 in Weddings

OK so one of the cheerleaders that i fell on the other day (see other questions) asked me to be in that orgy i told u bout...they are all willing to let me film it too.....SHOULD I BRING FRIENDS??? or is that bad orgy etiquette? what should i wear? should i have a brown paper bag for my head....the purple lipstick i used earlier on my face got all of my burns and scratches all infected....HELP...any advice is needed....oh and yeah my penis is still broken...but i will just have to take thst risk...they R CHEERLEADERS!!!

2006-09-05 04:49:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend faints when she sees her blood or blood in movies.
She actually fainted two times when she pierced her ear. Is this related to some psychology area? What should be the way to overcome that?

2006-09-05 04:48:29 · 5 answers · asked by teco 2 in Friends