My dad just got remarried.. he's 54 n i'm 22.. i just got out of college n i think i just screwed my life over at the same time.. my dad got married to this 21 yr old last month and since then me n his new wife have been seeing each other in a not so innocent way.. so we had sex last night.. neither of us were drunk.. i really think we're both into each other a lot b'sides just sex cuz i just like her too much.. i think i've feeling for her.. isn't it wrong cuz isn't she like my mom cuz she's my dad's wife?? is this sick n am i screwed for life??
2006-09-05 04:53:43 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a wonderful son you are. Your father should be proud.
2006-09-05 04:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by §чﺀﺀчβчﻯ†a 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can say that was WRONG...What the heck were you thinking betraying your father in this way. How would you react if you found your father with your wife. All I can say is neither you nor your step-mother have any morals or ethics. Your father may never find out what happened, but he's better off without her, and personally son or no son, he's better off without you in his life as well at least until you do some serious growing up. It's not like you are a teenager anymore, you know right from wrong and if you don't then there's not much hope for you. When you are lying in bed tonight just remember what goes around comes around, it always does...
2006-09-05 05:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well she's married and its like she's been cheating on your father and it's like you've been disloyal with your father. wow, why don't you talk it out with her and see how she feels about you first. If she has took it as an adventure, that means that you have to forget her and continue as if nothing happened. If she feels something for you, well, then i guess you will have to leave the country!!! But don't worry you won't be screwed for life though your dad will be very mad at you when he gets to know.
if you wish to keep the relationship with your father stop your relationship with her and tell her that it was a mistake and that you should both move on with your lives, if you dint, your father will get to know sometimes some how and than i think you will have many problems, so either stop it else if she wants you too, hmm maybe divorce??
2006-09-05 05:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me start this by saying that sometimes our passion just overwhelms us and these things happen. But, you really need to put this relationship to an end. Respect your dad, and know that he would resent you and be very hurt if he found out. Also, do not trust his wife, she should have never allowed the relationship with you to turn this direction. Move out if you are living with them, and start a new life somewhere else. There is someone out there waiting for you that is not married. Good Luck
2006-09-05 05:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you had feelings for her, she is your dad's wife. You should of had more respect for your father. He has already gone through a divorce for whatever reason. Now he will probably get a divorce to the fact that his no good a** son slept with his wife. OK if you do get together with your future ex-step-mom, what about your father? Are the two of you going to parade your sexual flirtations in front of him. You were so wrong, I cant even begin to tell you. If you haven't already told your dad, you need to. He deserves the right to know that is wife is a whore and is son is b**ch!
2006-09-05 05:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not screwed for life. Things like that happen all the time in movies and stuff. In reality she isn't ur blood mother so there is no blood relation so you guys are not related at all, so it was okay, except for the fact that it is ur dads wife. But hey he shouldnt be marrying a 21 year old n-e ways, he will probably be mad at you for awhile when he finds out but he's ur dad n-e has to love you he will forgive you eventually
2006-09-05 04:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by ashers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very bad dude, I guess although being step mom but she is ur mother, so what if she is young you should have respect for her considering the fact she is your father's wife.
I want to knw who started the whole thing means who initiated the sex u or her? if u did then I think u must stop doing it again and just behave with her like a son. If your mom started it then u must inform ur father because it means she is not faithful to your father and cant be a good mom.
2006-09-05 05:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by The Hawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are young and don't know what it is that you are doing or what you want. Your dad is sick for marrying a 21 year old who is still a baby. You should leave her alone till she isn't the "mother" status anymore. If she feels for you as you do her tell her to leave the "chester", and come looking for you when it is done.
2006-09-05 04:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by trinap232000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly do you love your Father ?
If you do why are you having Sexual relations with his new Wife
This Women obviously does not care two hoots for your Father
or she would not be having sex with you WOULD SHE .
Is your Father wealthy ? if so this would be the reason she married him .In my opinion you should end this liaison right now .
If you are more inclined to have relationships with Women that's entirely up to you .
It is certainly not a very clever idea to be conducting an affair
with your Fathers new Wife .It will cause much heartbreak.
2006-09-05 05:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The keyword in all that is SCREWED. Seems you screw everything ,including your step-mom.You're old enough to know better and she's just a slut.Your dad's gonna see sense soon and kick you both out
2006-09-05 04:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can t think of her as your mom.U are not sik but what u both did isnt very nice.It s normal that a man and woman, expecially your age, feel certan instincts, but stop right now.Don t say nothing to anyone but make shure u don t fall for it again.Try to avoid beeing alone with her.Good luck
2006-09-05 04:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋