he said that he was going to take care of it but didn't now wants to have dinner with me and him and her and her new boyfriend? why does she feel the need to still contact him?
2006-09-05 04:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by berlee1964 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump his *** what an idiot if he has you
2006-09-05 04:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long were they together?
Personally I think they shouldn't be in contact. If they broke up then it's over. You need to put your foot down and put an end to this otherwise it's going to continue. They aren't friends - they used to date. You can't go from dating to being friends - it doesn't work that way because one person always feels stronger for the other.
If he wont end it then you need to end it with him and find someone who will make you their number 1 priority. You're better then playing second best - so don't allow him to put you in that position. Stand up for yourself!
2006-09-05 05:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be nosey and see what is going on between the two of you. It is a competitive thing that some women like to do. I wouldn't let it bother you and in fact put a good show on to show her who her man is with now :)
2006-09-05 05:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she invites you along then I think he has nothing to hide and that is healthy. If he does not include you when he sees her or is secretive in any way then you have a big problem on your hands and I advise you to run!
2006-09-05 05:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Marianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it bothers you. it would bother me too.
my husband's ex girlfriend's boyfriend ( who is friends with my husband) invited us all for dinner.
i was not happy with her being around my husband.
i do get jealous.
i dont think you should put up with that. if he keeps going to her then there is something going on.
i would NEVER let my husband go meet up with his ex. neve ever ever.
and you shouldnt either. lt him know it bothers you and you want it to stop.
if he doesnt stop then you should leave him. becus im sure he might be doing somthing with his ex behind your back and behind his ex's bf's back too.
be carful. watch out for yourself.
2006-09-05 05:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are supposed to be serious between you two, he should not talk to her at all unless she makes an effort to be YOUR friend too. He should respect you enough to not put you in that position.
2006-09-05 05:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in a very similar situation except my bf doesnt tell me when he talks to his ex. and she is single. but he calls her and it bothers me cuz when we first started dating he kissed her and lied to me bout it. now he hides her phone calls or his.... it bothers me, but he said to me when i told him i didnt like the idea that they are just friends so i tol him to try not talking to her... and he is honestly trying.....if your bf cant respect that and at least try or not talk to her so much then he is not worth it.... maybe they are friends but give him the benefit of the doubt at least he told you. and to be honest i prolly wouldnt go out to eat its one thing if you run into them and talk to them then but its not like your trying to be friends not saying you want to be enemies. and you cant blame her even though that always seems the easiest... he needs to stop emailing her back and then she will get the hint.
2006-09-05 05:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set him straight if you are not comfortable with this. I personally am still friends with many of my exes and their new spouses, but it's cool with me
2006-09-05 05:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you should show him you do better and have better. Make him feel very good and dmxdragon2 is right too.
2006-09-05 05:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has feelings for him? I wouldn't know. She has a bf tho so who cares?
2006-09-05 05:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she still has feeling for him it happens. talk to him and tell him how your feeling. he might understand if not his not worth it.
2006-09-05 05:02:37 · answer #11 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋