What should i do?
Could you please give me the best advice you have? I am just not ready to let her go yet??
this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she
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Now , what would she have said she doesnt want to ruin a frienship?? Without meaning it, I asked her straight up to be honest, and I know she isnt lying. What should I do? I mean I know nothing is gonna happen in the near future, but maybe when she matures a little bit, or decides to take the risk to date me, I mean, I like her so much, and am just not ready to let her go. I know she is afraid of me breakin her heart, because she told one of her friends, that she doesnt like how many girlfriends I've had that Ive broken up with. And she really used to act like she liked me, I mean, we obviously had soemthing more than friends, but when I asked her she got scared and backed off. She also told her mom, who she is really closed to, that she is REAALY scared of ruining the frienship. What should I do?
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But, her friend asked her a few minutes ago about it, and she got all mad and said who wants to know?..and her friend said me.. and she got all mad and signed off. what should i think/do??
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And why would she get all mad at her friend, I mean the email I replied to her was nice , caring and understanding, so I dont know why she thinks I put her up to it? Why was she all mad if her friend asked her about it?
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Now, I am not an idiot, and I emailed her back and told her i respect her decision, and totally understand her decision, and I am not smothering her, directly, but her friends mite be talking, what should I do
2006-09-05 04:55:26 · 9 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the problem here is you two have been friends and now you are wanting more. Now here is the thing. You are 15 she is 13, you two are young to worry about all this. Have a friendship, no need to rush something. If there is to be more between you two it will happen or it won't. So just take it that she doesn't want more at this time. Now with this said I will have to say that normally after one person in a friendship wants more and the other party doesn't it can be a little weird to be friends. So I just say to relax, drop the whole thing. Just DROP IT! If you want to save your friendship!
2006-09-05 05:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off u r really sweet for respecting her like u do. and i would say that she is scared that u r gonna hurt her because she is so young and all adn because she might have seen ppl either in movies shows or real life and what they go through in a relationship and breaking up adn all. i think that she really likes u adn trusts u but doesnt necisarily trust u in a relationship because of ur past. so ease it on her and maybe ask her to give u one chance and take her out to a really nice dinner or on a nice date and take it from there.
2006-09-05 05:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u blew it man!
u alr said she is not comforatble with the amount of gfs u had broken up with and she doesnt wanna be added into that long list. she is new to the dating scene and doesnt want her first heartbreak to coincide with the lost of a friendship as well. so there will not be anything more than friends between u 2...move on man
2006-09-05 05:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 she is 13 what in the world are you trying to do, have sex with her? It sounds to me like she has her head on straight and yours is all screwed up. You don't need to be on here you need to be in school, so put your thingy back in your pants zip it up and grow up some more. You still might have one or two good years ahead of you yet.
2006-09-05 05:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by call2fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..u r 15 and this is kinda too early for a serious relationship..so i assume this is a puppy love..
wake up boy~ if she doesnt want u..just follow and respect it..dont keep on care bout what happen and screw everything up at the same time..just be urself and dont be too worry bout what people think..
2006-09-05 05:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry way too long. Forget it for the time being. She is right for being scared, and ruining the friendship is a good point. Find a girl ur age, that's sick.
2006-09-05 04:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know dude....respect your friend!! she's just trying to have FUN as a kid! She doesn't want to be part of that situation.
2006-09-05 05:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her you wasting time & go to school !
2006-09-05 07:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by pharaoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really fifteen shouldn't you be in school?
2006-09-05 04:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋